Is it a must to have celebration for Valentine's Day?

Hi Ganesh, From my point of view, it is depend on the couples whether they do think Valentine's day is really an important day for them or not. SOme people may think it is a special day to show their loves to their lover,so they may think it is a need to celebrate it. FOr me, during my dating time, I did celebrate it with my boyfriend,we will out for dinner and then catch a movie. But now, since our marriage, we just can't bother about this Valentine's day and sometimes, we don't even remember when is that day. We just feel happy with our life now and walk hand in hand to go through our life together, so I believe that will be the best gift for me in my life. Everyday can be my valentine's day ,it is depend on how we judge it.

I really think it depends. First of all, It depends on how long you have been in the relationship. Right now with the way the whole economy is not many people have extra money to go out for valentines day. If you do decide to go out for valentines day it will cost at least one hundred dollars ( Dinner, Drinks, Seeing a Movie, Not to mention Roses which are 40X what they would normally cost on any other day, and maybe a box of chocolates. I absolutely do NOT think Valentines Day is not a Holiday, Just another day created by the big wigs over at Hallmark. Long Story Short, Listen if you have the extra money sure go out! I'm Sure you and your significant other will have a blast. Plus we all know deep down girls love this "holiday" a lot more then men. While men may find this holiday a pain in the butt, Woman truly love it and if you love your girl you will make time for her on Valentines Day. If you don't have the money to go out, Stay at home and rent a movie and cuddle together. Valentines Day is all about spending time with your significant other. For you guys, You probably will get lucky afterward s anyways :) Regardless, If you do decide to spend Valentines Day together I'm sure you both wont regret it.

Hi, Valentine's Day is like a normal day also,but for most sweetheart,they wish to celebrate this day together.They will out for dinner ,movie and get some gifts for their lover. Yes...during my young times, I did that so,but now everything is over and no more celebration for me and my husband. We even forget about this Day.

@shia ; i know..but maybe it`a not our culture or never i celebrate in my family

Hi, I totally agree with what you said above. Spending money on Valentine's day is not worthy as everything is extremely expensive on that special days. Talking about the roses, the price can be double up the normal price and also the valentine's meal at restaurant and hotel is not cheap also. For me, I prefer to spent that amount of money for other useful things or better keep that money for short getaway trip in future.It is more meaningful. As long as, we love each other forever,everyday is also a Valentine's Day.

Hi, Talking about flowers/roses, I can't remember when the last time I received roses from my husband. I think after our marriage,he never gave me any roses anymore. But to me, Flowers is not necessary and kinda of wasting money. It will only be displayed for few days and after that dump into dustbin, I prefer some gifts that might be useful to me like watch,wallet or dress. Roses are quite expensive especially on valentine's day and the price can raise up even twice from the normal price. So why there is a need to spent those kind of money,going out for romantic dinner is still the best.

HI, I agreed with your statement,there is not a must to celebrate Valentine's day. I do the same like you,during my dating, I did celebrate it with my boyfriend,but after our marriage, we kinda forget about this Valentine's day until we read the news in newspaper or watch from TV then we recalled back our sweet memories. To us,everyday can be a valentine's day.It is just a matter of how we want to spend our days together.

Hi, Valentine's day is not only days for sweethearts to celebrate. everyone can celebrate this valentine's day with their loved one, their parents,siblings,cousins and even friends. It is a way to show your love and care to your loved one. But it does not necessary that only valentine's day,then is the chance to show your love to your loved one. You can always shower them your loves anytime you want.

Hi, It is basically depend on individuals whether they want to celebrate this day or not. To me, Valentine's day is not that important and we can have that kind of celebration anytime. No roses is needed as it is kinda spent more money.Not worthy. The most important is your couple love you always and care about you.

Hi, I do believe that love each other is more important than just a day celebrating Valentine's day. It will be miserable if 364 days not living in peace mode and only 1 day the couple will stay romantic. Giving a small gift can be considered,but all the while, I don't ever recall received any valentine's gifts.

Hi, from my point of view, everyday can be Valentine's day. It is basically depend on individual on how they want to spent their day together. Last time, I used to celebrate Valentine's Day, we will just out for dinner,no roses and gifts as we don't see the point why have to waste that money on that day. If we want to have gift exchange, we can do it anytime.

Hi, Such a unique things that you have done with your couple. Actually Valentine's day is nothing special about it. It even have to spent more money to buy gifts and have an expensive romantic dinner. If the couple has heart for each other, they can have their valentine day everyday. The most important is they love each other and care about each other,in order to maintain their relationship.

Hi, Actually Valentine's Day is just like normal day to go. Just like most sweetheart will take this day as an important day and they will even out for romantic dinner or buy some gifts for their lover. During my dating life, yes...I did celebrated Valentine's Day with my boyfriend. But we just out for dinner. This few years, I don't even remember about this Valentine's Day and probably it is not my time to have those sweet celebration anymore.

HI, I agreed with your above statement..what you commented is actually right. That is why after my marriage,both me and my husband never celebrate Valentine's Day and we never remember those day again. Of course,during our dating, we did celebrate it by having dinner together, mostly go for those buffet dinner. We did not purposely have some romantic plan on that Valentine's day. We believe loving and caring each other is most important and celebrating Valentine's day is only a way to spend more money. I also not fancy over those flowers on Valentine's Day and To what i know,those flowers are totally not cheap especially when Valentine's Day is reaching. The florist will raise up their prices just to make more money on that special day.

Hi, I agreed with you that Valentine's day is not a day that every couples have to celebrate it. It is depend on the couple whether they take that day as more special day or just a normal day to go. For me, I don't celebrate Valentine's day after my marriage. We almost forget about this day. Once we have kid, we even don't remember when is Valentine's day until we saw some shops are selling those teddy bears with flowers and chocolates in special designs. For me, the most important is my life partner love and care about me. So we will just have simple meal at home on this coming Valentine's day.

Hi, I agreed with you that everyday can also be a valentine's day if they want too. For me, I don't have any specific plan for today,the valentine's day. The day just go on as normal,no celebration and no gift. I just hope both me and my husband will love and stay together forever,be it happiness and sadness happened in our live.