are you judgemental?

Yes tiina I judge other people too based on their behavior, but one thing I learned is we shouldn't actually judge them without asking their side about the matter. Even if we already know the person that long it shouldn't still be until we know their side. I say this because it happened to me being judged without asking my side. Of course it's unfair, and since that time I tried to control myself as much as possible not to speak a word until I know what's their side. The reason is that we'll never know what they are actually going through. Sometimes they are going through trials in life, problems, etc. and that is why they have done something. Sometimes we judge because we see them do this and do that but we don't have any idea the reason behind why they did this and that. And there are times we do something unlikely because it is badly needed. So instead of judging others, let's try to correct them if they were wrong. This is the same with complaining but not doing something. I don't say I don't judge anymore but at least it should be minimized and be aware of. :D Have a nice day!

Yes i am judgmental. I do judge other people sometime but without informing them. So they don't get hurt as they don't know. Moreover when i judge someone then i think everything about that person about the goods and also bad. And usually i judge the person for his/her good behavior. I judge to find the good quality of the person.

I think it is 'natural' to start to become judgmental as we experience many things.. I think it is a defense mechanism so that we don't make any mistakes. But I agree that we need to ease a little room to see who these people really are before we put them in a box.

The assessment process always starts from the eye which is then digested in the brain. Because preceded by eye, it's natural, if we judge a person more than his behavior

Yes,you're right.We often apt to make such mistakes.A person how,must contact,understanding,can draw the conclusion.Rather than by our feelings.Feeling is carrying a mood.

Hi there tiina05!!! Well as much as possible I am trying not to be very judgmental coz I know that I might hurt someone.I really make it a point to control myself in saying hurtful words and doing actions that can hurt anyone coz I myself am afraid of also being judge.I don't want to be judge coz I know that it really hurts to judge by others.Its very painful and it can break you. I sometimes do tend to judge but as much as possible I am trying to control myself from being judgmental.It is not really a good habit to judge someone from what he is not or based on the actions he has done.We should all try to understand each other and be more kind and thoughtful of each and every persons feelings.

Interesting. It seems we have no choice but to be kind. We have no choice but to be forgiving. There is a saying: "If you can be right and you can be kind, choose kind."-Wayne Dyer Observing through the years, it makes a lot of sense to be giving, to be kind and to be forgiving. By giving each other a chance,we are aligning into the Invisible All Powerful that makes all things possible. On the other hand, if we judge people (negatively), we unleash a "domino effect" that results in aggravated resentment leading to people killing one another :) What do you think ?

I try not to be a judgmental person. When you are, things can be taken the wrong way and bitter feelings can arise from it. I know that i would not want someone to judge me so i try not to do it to anyone else.

I think we should not judge others too quickly at the first sight or other first things as they acted. Everyone has his or her own way to express himself or herself, one is different from others ,it was decided by how they grew up and how the external environment. so I think we should learn more about the other people and then judge.

I don't judge other people quickly. Sometimes I don't judge other people at all because most of the time I'm wrong anyway. I try to know the other person more first and then base my judgments from there.

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As much as possible, I adopt an open-mind. I think my degree in psychology has been significant in my being non-judgmental. I learned that every behavior must have a reason, which the person could either be aware of or not. As a result, when I meet people or they do something, I try to tell myself that I cannot evaluate haphazardly and judge him or her as bad or something like that because I don't know the underlying cause.

Yes,its right that we mostly use to judge very closely whom we expect.But judging other people by way of acting of that particular person is not a good procedure.We can't judge without making close relationship for a considerable time,even to get succeeded in judging we should behave with him/her correctly without giving any hurt.And its natural character that we try to judge person whom we even don't know.I think that......