Stereotyping...have you done it?
By missybear
@missybear (11391)
United States
February 13, 2011 6:09am CST
Guys with long hair = Rock'n Roll and Drugs,
Guys wearing cowboy hats = must be a country music kinda guy,
Chicks with short hair = Dikes maybe?,
Living in a trailer = Hillbillies,
Have people ever judged you by the way you look, dress or for any reason?
By the way.....I lived in a trailer before and it was very nice
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15 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
13 Feb 11
I've stereotyped people before but it's not good. I don't wanna judge others by how they look because most of the time I'm wrong.
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I don't think that I do.. I've always been on the receiving end of judgement.
In my life I'm judged on a DAILY basis. I'm judged from the way that I look, what I choose to laugh about and how I talk. But it really doesn't matter to me.. I know what lies beneath the cover of the book that my soul has written.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
14 Feb 11
That was the big thing years ago about the 1 earring, now a lot of guys wear 2 earrings ...what is that mean?
@kaycharmedMD (381)
• Philippines
13 Feb 11
I think it's human nature to stereotype people. Im guilty of that. But no one, to the best of my knowledge, has stereotyped me yet. Lol. Or Im just not aware of it... You lived in a trailer before? Wow that's cool. Ive always wanted to try that. Though I think it's a little scary and a bit unsafe. But that would be really cool. In our country, trailers dont really exist. At least not the one where you can live in.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Feb 11
They don't have trailers were I'm from either {Germany] but when I lived in Arizona I lived in a trailer{mobile home].
It had a fenced yard and it was close to the river...I loved it
@kaycharmedMD (381)
• Philippines
13 Feb 11
oh that must have been a lot of fun. i find that experience cool. i would love to experience that someday. even for just one day. waking up inside a trailer. that would be really nice.
@margeryann (1845)
• United States
15 Feb 11
That is sad when people do that.I've heard all of those statements before. It really surprises me that some people really believe those things too.My dad use to have the statement that trailer's were a poor mans mansion. That is what he called them and some of them are really nice. Some of them now days even look like houses in the inside. You can't tell the difference when you are in them.
We never know what someone is like by what they look like that is for sure. This is one that I hear a lot too. If someone sees a lady with bruises on her they say poor woman that is awful that she is dealing with being abused by a man and if she has a man with her they think he is abusive. What if she was in a accident of some kind coincidentally.
Somethings that seem like the situation is what we think might not be what we were thinking.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I made that assumption once and then a couple days later the lady was telling me she actually got mugged on her way to the bus stop and she told me to watch out cause they never caught the guys.
@margeryann (1845)
• United States
16 Feb 11
It is easy to do in some situations but some situations where we find out that we are wrong, it should teach us that the way things look aren't always what we think.have a good week!
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
15 Feb 11
you have no idea how i've been judged and wrongly judged all too often. You learn not to care about these things because you know who you are. The people who really count...don't judge you by these things. I have a friend that is covered in tattoos and has hair down beyond his shoulders. He wears black overalls and drives a harley in the summer and a jeep in the winter. He is so wrongly judged..sweetest person you could meet. I have another great friend who is a multimillianaire and he has hair to his shoulders and dresses in jeans and t-shirts. He likes me and I have nothing so that alone says something about him. He is a hard hard worker...you'd never know his wealth to meet him. Don't judge by looks...you just don't know.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Feb 11
people come in all different ways and I think everybody should get to know you before they judge you...I learned that from judging wrongly myself a few times.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
13 Feb 11
Sometimes..but not all the time. Just the "rock" look and the "emo" look. I just can't help it, if they dress that way then some people will really see them as the 'stereotypes'. I have nothing against them though,it's their style and I don't know them personally.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Feb 11
Most of my friends have long hair and they all into country except my boyfriend...he's the Rocker of the bunch
@clipsal (160)
• Malaysia
13 Feb 11
Yes, people always judge who we are by the way we present ourselves. The way we dress, we talk, hair style etc..all these stuff do somehow determine who we are. Though maybe sometimes we just do it for fun..hee.
For me, just find our identity, and stick to it. What people will say, let it be.
@homiejoe2 (57)
• United States
14 Feb 11
Of course, i live in New York city and thus see a lot of different people and stereotype all the time, which isn't always a good thing, but oh well, usually I am right. I do like however when my stereotype is proven wrong and i meet really nice people i would never imagine getting along with. And I'm sure trailers are nice, I just would never personally would want to live in one, i enjoy the city life and everything that comes with it minus the rodents. Happy V day!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Feb 11
I'm a city girl myself but it was nice living in a trailer with a little fenced in yard, it felt like it was my own little place.
I'm from Germany{Frankfurt} and like New York...you see it all and of course you make up your mind about everybody that looks different. Most of the time it's wrong though
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
14 Feb 11
I've been judged like to be a bad a** when I was a teenager, dressing like a boy like a hip hop girl, but other girls would do the same later, but couldn't even dance.
I don't judge by the looks. Athough I wouldn't be friends with a satanist, I think type doesn't mean anything. People are what they have inside.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Feb 11
Myself, I don't care for the Goth look...but to each it's own
@NoWayRo (1061)
• Romania
13 Feb 11
Sure I've done it, and still doing it, a lot. I don't believe we can go through life without stereotyping every now and then - we don't have the time to get to know all the people that cross our path, but we still form an opinion on them, because... well, without opinions, we'd be plants, not people, right?
For instance, I think the bank clerk who handled my request a couple of days ago rose well above the standard in her family, and may be the first generation moving from a village to a city. Just something about the way she dressed, her accent, a spelling mistake she made, which is very specific to an area here, the hairstyle - small details, but they all added up to my conclusion. And if I were wrong, so be it, no harm done, I didn't treat her differently because of what I thought, and she will never find out, for sure.
It happened the other way around too, people judging me based on appearance. Usually what I get is "You're way smarter than you look". And I thought my post-punk look screamed genius
@missybear (11391)
• United States
14 Feb 11
I think you are smarter than you look too but you're right, everybody does it and sometimes we right and other times totally wrong.
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
13 Feb 11
Most of us probably have done this stereotyping thing. Sometimes it's a way of remember someone whose name we don't know.
When we are stereotyping it means that we are associating that person to a particular group or type of person with commonalities/similarities. Like for example, most rockers have long hair so when we see a guy with long hair the first thing that comes to our mind is that he is a rocker and oftentimes it's true. But the sad thing is that it's not always true and get the wrong impression about that person.
Sometimes it could bring damage to the identity or personality of that person.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Feb 11
You really hit the nail on the head...Thanks for responding
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
13 Feb 11
We may not mean to but i think we all have our ways of stereotyping people. It is the way we choose to see people without understanding them first. We can often get a wrong first impression of people when we stereotye them. You can miss out on a great relationship because you drew the wrong conclusion about someone.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
13 Feb 11
So true and I have done it myself.
Now I make sure I know what that person is all about before I label them.