How do you feel when some one said you are bad?

The truth hurts...If ever somebody will tell me im bad, i will not get mad.That's the way he see's me and i respect that.But, i wont let him to keep in mind that i am that bad. I will befriend him so to know me better. Each one of us has their own character.Some may accept us who we are,some are annoyed.Respect is all we have to give.We have to take regards of what they believe.Asking the person what is really bad in me is the next thing i will do.Meditation i guess is the best thing to clean up my soul and it will help me a lot to change my bad behavior. I cannot please everybody but i wont ask every people around me what is my bad habit and change for them.In fact,some people are just being bothered by me keeping true to myself. I believe "Be true,Be you" is the best principle.

I hate to hear when people says I am bad. I think I would accept it if I relaly did something bad or mistakenly wrong. But I wold be upset in my feeling.

It really all depends on a variety of factors. First thing is my emotional state. If I'm in a good mood I'm more likely to brush it off. If I'm in a sad mood I generally take it more to heart. Who tells me I'm bad also affects my reaction. A random stranger tells me something I will probably shrug it off and maybe laugh about it. If a close friend tells me I will think about it and wonder if its true or how others could see it that way. A big factor is also the way in which it is said. If it is said kindly and meant to help me I may be mad at first but then understand and contemplate it. If it is said meanly I will probably make a sarcastic comment back or become defensive. Later I will vent to a friend about it and deface the person. Sometimes we all have touchy points. I mean things that have upsetus in the past so they trigger a lot of past emotions when others critixize us about them. For example I used to have a lot of weight issues including an eating disorder. When people comment about weight gain it triggers me and makes me really upset. It can almost send me into a relapse if said in the right way by the right person. the most important thing to remember is that you cant change the way others can react to you but you can change yourself. IF you feel that changing something will be good for you then go for it. If others critizize you for soemthing they don't like then don't worry

This would have to depend on the person who said it and their reasons for saying it. If it was someone close to me, i would feel offended, hurt and discouraged. if it was someone who did not know me well, i might feel anger and resentment towards them.,

"hahaha... hahaha... hahaha..." first i read this peom loudly when somebody says "you are bad". Because no one is perfect in this world. No one is fully bad. And remember guys the song of bad boy.."i am a bad bad boy..." hahaha. If one will be in accident, i definately ready to give my blood(if it matches), thats what humanity. The bad things are small things only upto those are not hurt to anyone. have a nice day my friend. god bless you all who ever reading my comment.

If someone told me that I was so bad,I would thinkabout it and try to realize exactly what that person was talking about,and if I realized that I am not as bad as that person said,I would tell him or her to analyse himself or herself before judging others.If I reached the conclusion that the person was right at least partially,I would do the same thing as you,I would try to change something and become a better person.

If anyone says to me that i am bad,at the first instance it will hurt me but i will not retaliate.Later i will try to evaluate his judgment.If his perception about me is right then i have no problem saying sorry and i will try to get rid of that part off me.

I will cut his body with the edge of a coin.

I learned a long time ago that people converse and only get a fraction of what they say that holds any fact. I also figured out that nobody can do or say is going to change the fact they will always have something to say. Words only hurt somebody's feelings if you allow them to. I do not let them offend me they are just words.

Same with me. If someone told me that I am bad, of course I will feel shocked (hahaha...) and curious. I will ask them why and the reasons they said so. If it is true then I will change the bad into the positive.Simple and easy~

Nobody wants to be tagged as bad, so i would be very sad when said that. However, i won't take it sitting down. I will ask in a loving manner whoever said that , and what makes her think that i am bad, because as far as i know i am not. For whatever she will say i will explain if it's not as it is perceived to be. But for those true ones, i will correct. I don't want to be tagged as bad.

Even though gossip is a fearful thing but the public will judge the rights and wrongs of the case.

I used to worry about what people think of me but as I got older I realized that it doesn't really matter. It only matters what I think of myself. My favorite quote is "It is none of my damn business what other people think of me."~ unknown. But it's true. I don't give them my energy.

hi friends... i can say you only one thing that we know what we are doing. so it is none of business of them that pointing out our bad things. so it is no need to mind those words. just leave them keep your happiness with you. if possible try to recover those bad things...

If some one said I am bad? I will ask them why like you too, because u curious and need to know why people can tell you like that. If they gave me a solution and it's true I would think back again, but if they said wrong about me like I dont let them copy in class and they say I'm bad? I would keep it and never change my mind...it also depends on things

If someone call me bad I wouldn't get upset or anything. I might be a little angry. Most likely I would try to better myself and prove that person wrong