Advice to girls who are in love to the wrong guy

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If you feel hurted very often, you are with someone that doesn't deserve you at all. When the guy is for you he will know your needs, what it hurts you and will try to stop. Don't give excuses to him, he HAS TO STOP as I'm sure you try to not do things that hurt others, even the most silly things. If you are in that position already, then what you have to do is to work your selfesteem. Stop thinking about him and think about you. Know your values, your qualities, your flaws, accept your self first in the inside and then physically. And you know you deserve much better. I was once with a guy that didn't deserve me, he didn't really make eforts, most of girls said he was great, I had greater guys than him so I knew he wasn't good for me but I felt I was tied with him, so difficult to get out. I decided that I had to do something, the selfesteem was a little low, so the first thing I did was to break up. I throw away telephone numbers, erased e-mails, and soon forgot the number and all. I turn off the cellphone and the telephone and wouldn't go to my mail box cause he was asking to get back together and we actually did twice. But the 3d is just really stupid, I mean I never done that. In six months I went to hell, when I came back I was healed. But the promise of never leting a guy be like that to me became even stronger. Be good to your self girls. When you are all depressed without serotonine in a clinic (who knows where you might end up if you don't leave a bad guy) or something (I thought about the image of me being there and and made my breaking up decision stronger) who is gonna help you? him? bad guys probably are gonna have an affair and make the selfesteem problem yours okay?