akhaniemar

@akhaniemar (122)

Philippines • Age 40

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Loving someone who don't know love

Ashokraj @Ashokraj (107) • India 21 Apr 13

Have you ever felt the pain of loving someone deeply who don't even know what is love? I am feeling. I show her the extremity of my love. But she didn't show me a single drop of love. She didn't even understand my love. I feel...

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akhaniemar Just go on with the process. I know you'll just learn to let go of the pain and accept the outcome later on. There are really times when our love will never be reciprocated but I'm sure there's always a good reason behind. Maybe there's just that someone out...

24 Apr 13

can love really survive long distance?

ariannet @ariannet (15) • Philippines 6 Apr 13

i was browsing my FB account and most of my friends posted love qoutes.Most of them are outside of the country earning because of lack of oppurtunities here in my country.They have to leave their love ones.And most of them are not...

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akhaniemar I think love can survive a long distance relationship as long as both lovers know how to keep the communication alive. Distance will never be a hindrance but when communication is lost, it will really destroy the relationship. Couple must realize how valuable...

21 Apr 13

Who do you consider your friends?

Lana @inopiratum_a_medio12 (877) 20 Apr 13

Friendship is really tested when problems arrives in terms of money based from my own experience. Before I have no limits in treating my friends when they are in need I do all my best to help them even in cash problems, but one...

people

relationship

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akhaniemar I only consider a few true friends in my life. And they really matter to me. Those are the people who stay with you in good times and in bad times. They have never left me alone after all the things that happened in my life. I can feel their care and love for...

21 Apr 13

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What should we do when a girl rejects the love?

rajendra1903 @rajendra1903 (38) • India 19 Apr 13

When a girl rejected my friend's love he felt very bad stopped eating,started drinking alcohol started to fight with his friends after 1 year he was back to his normal behaviour i do not know why, well i have not loved anyone...

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akhaniemar I guess it's more on accepting the fact and learn to move on from the rejection. It may have hurt you at first, but later on, you'll realize it will make you a better person. A person who can be stronger and tougher, one who can accept rejection like a true...

21 Apr 13

lie for good reason

gowtham728 @gowtham728 (232) • India 22 Mar 13

lying of good reason is bad or good.most people lie for small reasons but it become big issue after certain point but they lie for good reason.Have you experienced this in your life. some will force us to lie for good...

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akhaniemar Lying for good reasons will not make it good in anyway. But, for the person who did it, there will be a feeling of the need to make a stand to one's own decision and for once in our life, we are guilty of doing so. It might made us feel good for a short period...

21 Apr 13

Can love change you?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140379) • Philippines 16 Mar 13

I do believe that a lot of people can relate into this topic. Some people claimed that if you are in love, you will change. The manner of knowing that life may bring bad or good, that person will turn into a new leaf. Can...

love

people

personality

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akhaniemar Love did change me. I've always been so carefree when it comes to love. I didn't care what other people say. All I know is that I love the person. But, it was an eye opening to be to be more careful the next time I fall in love when I discovered that he really...

19 Mar 13

Not everything that seems love is love.

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 4 Mar 13

It is alarming to know that almost every person have experienced a broken heart. Some of them even commit suicide to end the pain. This makes me ask myself if there will be a way to escape the painful effects of a broken heart....

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2 people

akhaniemar Sometimes it's not on the understanding and the feelings anymore. There are times when it's already obvious that it's not love, however, people tend to be hopeful and wanted to insist that its really love. Maybe that's the reason why we tend to be hurt too...

19 Mar 13

Happy and Contented

krizzay @krizzay (22) 13 Mar 13

Having a relationship with a person that you love and who loves you more is really a God's gift to you. Everyday you wake up feeling happy and inspired knowing that you've lived with really a purpose in your heart....

fallen in love relationship been in love life

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akhaniemar Wow, that is really a blessing to find someone who loves you in return. Stay in love and happy. I'm sure you'll be more motivated and ready to face every challenges with him by your side. I hope I'll find mine too. But, I'm not in a hurry, I'm sure he's worth...

15 Mar 13

if you love someone let them go, if hey come back they were always yours...

Miss G @nhailojaye (207) • Philippines 28 Feb 13

I am sort of confused. what is the real meaning of this? Should i finally let go of him? what if he never came back? i am really confused... I guess I am just scared. I just don't want to be alone in my life. :/

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akhaniemar We're not given the license to own a person. The saddest part there is, we have to accept the fact that sooner or later they might decide to leave. If they do, then let them go, just as much as we wanted to be free and leave anytime we want. If they'll realize...

15 Mar 13

he choose another girl

chum24 @chum24 (569) • Philippines 12 Mar 13

mylotters!!! please give me advice what to do. My long distance boyfriend got new girlfriend near at there town. they just see each other for 2 days and he court this girl. he's my boyfriend for 3 years and half. i'm...

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akhaniemar That means to say, that girl is more important to him. Take it easy, it's not the end of the world. You can still find a better boyfriend. A boyfriend who will see your worth as a person and can't live without you. It happened to me a lot of times, and I just...

15 Mar 13

You loved, but you lost. What will you do?

borgieboy7 @borgieboy7 (72) • Philippines 12 Mar 13

Way back two years ago, I fall in love with this girl which is also my co-worker. We used to exchange sweet greetings and smile always when we are in our office. It comes to a point that I express my feelings toward her and she...

courting

love of my life

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akhaniemar Think and weigh things out. Don't be unfair with your present girlfriend. She had been there all along when you're down and hurt. Remember that the girl you've fallen in love two years ago have left you all along. She did it once, she might do it again so...

15 Mar 13

No matter how much love you have.

ayano678 @ayano678 (441) 11 Mar 13

No matter how much love you have, the love of the Almighty is much greater for the servants. There are times when we get bloody because love someone, there are times when we get desperate act outside the boundaries disappear...

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akhaniemar With all the types of love present, God's love is the best. He had shown us that love indeed must be unconditional, giving and kind. That love, in it's purest form is given and accepted without any condition. We love ourselves just as much as we want others to...

15 Mar 13

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because we've met

ayano678 @ayano678 (441) 11 Mar 13

Parting it will always be there, because we've met, together, laughing and happy. Any tears shed today, will be a witness to the fabric of friendship that we have near-knot tightly.

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akhaniemar Such a sad thing to imagine, but it's the truth. Sometimes we need to part ways with the hope of meeting again. And soon we'll realize that it strengthens the bond together. The absence makes the wait worth while.

11 Mar 13

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He cheats all the time

dee777 @dee777 (1417) • South Africa 28 Dec 12

My friend has been married for almost twenty years. Throughout this twenty years she came to me to cry her heart out; has been in hospital for stress; is on heavy medication for depression; gained about 20 kg because her husband...

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akhaniemar It's hard to stay in a relationship with a cheating partner for a very long time. She should not allow this situation to ruin her life. If she can't take it anymore, it's better that she leave her husband and eventually love herself more and do everything she...

5 Mar 13

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LYING, EXCUSES, etc....

AR Dianon @dianon_ice14 (461) • Philippines 3 Mar 13

I don't know, sometimes I really feel exhausted and just want to get out and ENJOY things without him. I have spent almost 3 years of my life doing everything with him. Those days are nice, It was like "you and me against...

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3 people

akhaniemar Maybe you need to talk it over. Tell him how you feel and what do you think about it. Ask his opinion because who knows, he might have felt the same. You should take your time enjoying each other's company but don't forget that you also have to grow by having...

5 Mar 13

Is CHEATING really a CHOICE or ACCIDENT?

markIT @markIT (134) • Philippines 4 Mar 13

Cheating is one of the most common example of relationship killers that every couple might encountered in their relationship. Some succeed and some had failed. There was a scene in a movie where the actress said something to...

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akhaniemar Cheating is really a choice. People are given the options whether to do it or not. Thus, whatever the person choose to do, then it is based on his own decision. Cheating is not an accident because accident only happens when you did not intend to do it that...

5 Mar 13

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1 person

Was I just a past time?

joannedane @joannedane (17) • Philippines 8 Jan 13

Was I just a past time? A material used to cover up something that went away and when that something came back, I'll be thrown afterwards? :(

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akhaniemar Of course you're not. It's just that he's not the man who can appreciate the things around him including those that really matters. Well, he's not worth the love you can give. He might just take you for granted but in the end, he'll surely regret it....

28 Feb 13

when to say "stop"

AR Dianon @dianon_ice14 (461) • Philippines 25 Feb 13

I have this friend and she keeps on complaining things about her present reationships. She said they love each other but they have lots of differences. They often fight for non-sense things most of times. Everytime they...

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akhaniemar Only she will know when to stop. Sometimes, no matter how hard it is, there are still people who is willing to endure the pain and the heartaches just because of their love. It's not that bad, however, it's not that good either. People tend to be blinded by...

27 Feb 13

He's playing with people's feelings

Nursefrai06 @Nursefrai06 (2498) • Penrith, Australia 22 Feb 13

I have this guy friend, and he has a girl. They aren't technically together but the girl is deeply madly in love with him. He doesn't really like the girl but he makes her believe that he loves her. I was trying to make him feel...

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2 people

akhaniemar Playing with other people's feeling will never be okay. It's one of the worst thing to do with someone who give all their trust to the other. Well, whatever the reasons behind why he did all these, it's still not enough to hurt people. He had to be man enough...

27 Feb 13

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Too much love kills

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 22 Feb 13

Is there something wrong with me if I say that I find it annoying that people can love so much without using their heads? I know it is a noble to thing to love someone with all their hearts and that they would be willing to die...

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akhaniemar So true That's why we need to love in moderation. Anything in excess is bad for us. We need to learn to leave something for ourselves or else we'll regret it later. Well, I learned from my mistake. Though I'm suffering now the consequences, I still believe...

27 Feb 13

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