Was I just a past time?

No you are not. We are only humans, remember that. Even though he hurt you so much,and it hurts we need to understand them. I know this is not easy,. Ive been that way too..

everything happens on for a reason. and do not see things in a negative way. breaking up is not a bad thing, because it broadens your mind to newer perspective and you can be more mature about those experiences. be happy that you evolved smart and strong enough to face another challenge. ^___^

Don't ever let someone to treat you that way. You are special and should/must be treated special. It is your own prerogative if you allow someone to treat you like a past time. Please don't, and never let anyone hurt you in any way.

You feel that way because you choose to feel that way. On the other hand, might it not be a blessing it happened before you two got more serious or even married before the something came back to him? There are other good "things" out there. Accept it and learn from it by setting future expectations with the "new things". I like the way you call those "things". It is a living thing you know?

Perhaps you were. But perhaps you also were someone who opened someone's eyes. Made that person think about what is right and wrong. How to go on with his life. It takes courage to see, to discover, to know oneself, but also to say: it's the end, I can't go on like this. Even if you were only "used" for 1 day or 1 week or 1 month.. you still can have been that eyeopener. See it that way. Don's see yourself as a piece of dirt, not needed anymore and thrown away. Since you are not. I am sure of that. There is a good, great future ahead of you. Embrace it and also embrace yourself since you are worth it.

Don't think of that my friend it will weaken you. Life goes on and you should too. You should also learn from it in order not to get hurt again. Have a nice day and happy mylotting! :)

Short but I'm sure everyone who's gone through the same thing you described can relate. I had the same experience last year. No choice for me but to move on. No one deserves to be treated like a spare wheel or a pasttime or the other option. Just also make sure you express yourself and not keep quiet that that is not what you want.

I'm so sorry that you feel that way? But what made you say such thing? Did someone just used you as a "momentary girlfriend?"

I know how it hurts and it's not easy to forget everything and move on. It's a compulsion and has to be accepted . Trust me time is the best healer.

If what you think is true.. wow! that really hurts! But well, you don't really know. Only that person can tell whether he just used you or not. If you tried to fight for it but he still throws you out his life then I guess it is better to just move on.

Not unless you allow people to do that to you. Be strong and be perceptive of people.

Hi friend, i think it is a new game and you are enjoying a lot while playing it. We must be very careful while dealing with our friends and reciprocate the same thing to the friends to show we are not a pass time persons

Of course you're not. It's just that he's not the man who can appreciate the things around him including those that really matters. Well, he's not worth the love you can give. He might just take you for granted but in the end, he'll surely regret it. Especially when someone had already shown him what he have lost when he lose you.