How Much Do You Really Love myLot!!

I have received several PMs this week asking me if I know where she is. Sadly I don't as I am not that close with her outside myLot. I am proud of you and your efforts to resolve the mystery and so pleased to know that she will be back among us soon! You deserve something special for your efforts! I have many friends here now and if one of them goes astray I will send a PM and if that does not receive a response then I will try other ways of finding them. So far I have not had to search far like you did though. When she comes back how about suggesting to her that someone should inform us when/if she disappears again?

Very interesting question. I love mylot so much. I love to spend time here. It is good place to interact with the friends. Here we also can get the solutions for our all types of problems. All are friends here. Thanks for sharing

Hi HWG, Feel happy that you finally succeeded in locating out your friend. There are so many mylot users and in the friends list hat it is difficult to keep track with them. But I know some people who are regular here and if they are not seen around for a month or so I would feel missing them. As for my love for Mylot I love it more than before. Whenever I am outside my place and do not carry my laptop I manage to drop at some cyber cafe and log in to mylot just to see how people are doing there.

Hi GF It is quite good to know that someone was aware of the whereabouts and/or contacts and you could finally reach out your friend. I feel so very happy for you and also it makes me proud to say that you did almost everything that you could to reach out to your friend... Ever since a few of my dear friends went missing, I realized that "they matter to me" - and so I started sending out PMs to those who are available - and handing out my email (or even the cell number if they are in India) and asking them theirs. A few responded and I have their details. I have not completed this for all my important friends yet, but yes, I will be doing it soon. For those (if any who think I am dear to them, I am open to give my email or contact in case they PM me...) I had a discussion on this and found out some ways via which we can keep all informed - use the Profile and put up some message for all when we are away

Hi hardworkinggurl, I am so glad....well, about everything. 1. To learn that my myLot members care for each other. 2. Your relentless pursuit to find a missing Lotter just fill my heart with joy. 3. A well respected Lotter will be back soon. Oh by the way, my baby daughter just climbed up on my lap while I was typing this, and she is loving your avatar. She is dancing along with it. Back to topic, to be honest with you, I really haven't tried hard at making any friends here,...wait, that seems a bit wrong....I do make friends here, but within the realms of myLot, not outside. I guess I should try harder to get to know my myLot friends. It would be so great to know someone cared enough about me to try to find out about me. Gosh, I'm welled up just thinking about it.

The phrase 'Don't hold your breath' comes to mind. You know Jesus says to treat the world the way you want to be treated, but--living that out--it ends up feeling more like 'you treat the world the way it treats you, and then make up for it whenever you can.'

You are right many of us came here to get some kind of extra money. I also have a theory to why I'm here because I've hosted a few groups on a forum and got nothing for my efforts beyond friends wich is fine. But I come here and I get a lil something in return for my efforts as well as quite a few new friends. But you are right though it is the way of the net people come and go for all sorts of reasons. Was our fellow mylotter surprised at your call?

Hello Hardworkinggurl, I´m "newby" here, so... I don´t even know from whom you are talking to. But let me tell you that before mylot, I met Martha, from Argentine. I met her in a Catholic ministery, on line... and she used to mail me a lot of very nice things, and thoughts... and the Gospel each weekend. This was 7 years ago. My kids were 5, 3 an 1... I had just moved to this city, I met nobody, I was alone, completely alone, with house chores, and Kids. So I just stopped one month opening my mails. On Dec. On Jan, I came back to my pc... and [em]sad[/em} when I looked out for the Gospels, Martha had gone. She wrote her last mail in Dec. She mentioned she was diagnosed with cancer that week. She told us (her e-friends) that she was surprised because she always had been very healthy. And she wrote us she was concerned because Doctor just gave her 2 weeks!! She wrote in that mail, her inner feelings. It´s very painful to me to remember this. On January her Daughter wrote us, telling us that Martha has just passed away. I feel such pain inside... because she was My first e-friend, and I wasn´t there to answer her last email, on her painful moment. You mylot friends are my home friends (your home too)... you are my time, my laughs, my thoughts, my tears, my fears, I´ve been in Mylot since 3 years ago, just reading, now I´m writting too, and til now Mylot has not ended... indeed, it has sowed deeper in my life. I don´t have any of your phone numbers... but I pray daily for all the people that is on my heart... and you Mylotters, are. Blessings!... Dainy

Hello hardworkinggurl, I noticed that she was away, and was looking for a discussion giving us some news. I am not surprised to see that you are the friend who made the research first : some friends are more worrying than others when a regular member disappears here. Two weeks ago, when I came back at home and found a burglar inside the house, I realized that one hour later, I should have lost all my phones, computers and internet access because I am using random passwords and I do not memorize them, except my banks and payment processors accounts. I was feared, and I have now my password list on a SD card hidden in the house to not be a victim of my own security. Maybe was it stupid, but the first thing I did after a few hours at the police station, was to think that I should have lost my friends at myLot and to start a discussion about my burglar -- I had to speak of that to forget it --, and it was not a surprise to find some good friends like you to respond immediately. We can more or less protect our real lives, we have at myLot some good friends and acquaintances always present when we need them, and we miss them when they are not online. I did not came here to earn anything -- I thought that myLot was a forum and did not knew that we were paid -- but to earn a little more in other sites with the "make money" discussions that I was often reading from outside, and I was miles away to think that you could make good friends in this site. I have been member of many online forums, and never cared when a member was no more posting or was deleting posts and account. My only experience of a strong web community was in 1996 when a government in my country tried to suppress the world wide access to internet to create a France-limited internet managed by Microsoft. It began by the cancellation of all personal pages hosted by public servers, and it was enough to create in less than a day strong links between the victims, and the most powerful internet community that I ever saw : you can imagine what are able to do 6000 persons, from all political sides, when each of them has access to the media. MyLot is a more humble community, but after a while here you have also the feeling of a strong community among the old members. It is like in real life : some have a heart and some less, but there is a real person behind each avatar. Our "most respected member" is also one of my preferred : she is so young in her heart when she jump in a box to defend her friends, and she speaks so easily of her life, that you regret to be so far away to cannot be able to speak directly to her. It is a weird feeling that I have some days here, when we are joking with friends all around the world. Some discussions are so funny, that each of us is laughing in front of the computer : we are so close... and so far, when somebody is missing and we cannot knock at the door and ask if everything is right. Thank you for these news and your phone call, hardworkinggurl, and sorry to have been so talkative.

Now Friend from today after your encouragement really I love much more mylot and I will do more better in mylot. Yes I will miss my some my lot friends like you and for me this is not matter my friends age is what? because in my day today life also I have all types of friend like a small children, a big dadaji and my husband. I always happy with any age person. I want to make a friend in facebook so we can connect regularly.

Who's that member? Yes I miss Mylot friends if if they go for sometime like you, I mean I miss somebody who is so active and interacting with for sometime then poof! gone. I am still quite new in Mylot but my main concern is if friends or active members have health concerns then that is something to worry about

Efforts always pay. I am very happy that you did it. I really feel proud being here at myLot where there are real friends like you. I am already addicted to myLot and have made a few good friends here. I am sure with time I will make good and stronger friends here. It is a great place to make friends as it provides best opportunity to remain in contact with them. I do care about my friends here at myLot, but since this is a start I am looking forward for a great time here. Being here gives a feeling of satisfaction and fulfillment. Since I have joined this site I have thought of nothing extra and have done nothing else online. Whenever I switch on my laptop, I am on myLot. Yes, I think I am in love with myLot.

"There are no right and or wrong responses,just wanted us to ponder,the thought thatwe are here today and maybe not tomorrow-same goes for all people off-line,as life is shorter then we think."I think this statment is our heart-voice.I hope we creat new things through this site,like the frendship ,interesting,discover the anything we don't have in the past.

Wow!hardworkinggurl. I think you must be a very great person. Lots of people responded your discussion. Though I just signed up mylot for two days, I read a lot of discussions. And I noticed that it's only in your discussions where responses list over two pages. What surprises me most is that you added comment to almost every response! I'm new here, and I don't think mylot can give me a good earning, but I think I can know lots of different people. Most importantly, I can learn English here.

Hi there Sis I actually have Phone Numbers and Addresses of most of my Friends from here and I do call them at times specially my really close Friends But some have Disappeared that I have known from the Day I started here and I have not seen them again which is sad, I have kept them on my Friends list though I am glad that you managed to find your Friend and made contact as it is awful when we do not know hat haas happened to them Hugs

You make a statement in the middle of your discussion that informs us that "our" most respected member is back. That got me thinking. Do you mean the former priest with the bear like avatar? The fiery Missourian that wrote the most beautiful discussions? The Scottish mother who it is impossible not to admire? Or the equally beautiful Canadian firebrand? All of these people have been respected and popular here but are no longer visitors to this site. Just what is it that enables us to make such assertions in the certainty that everyone else will know who we are talking about? I think that when we come here there is a tendency to wrap ourselves in a cloak of a relatively small number of friends. Outsiders are welcome to drop in, but they are unlikely to make it into the inner sanctum of "our" group easily. I do not know who you are referring to, but I can say with certainty that like most good relationships there are times when people want and need to be alone. Often they just move on elsewhere and we lament their passing. I hope that your friend enjoys their return but from my experience a tIme away sometimes makes it hard to settle back.

i dont want to lie, so i will tell you the truth. i love mylot like i love my work for i earn here, not that big but i earn here. maybe not as big as i earn on my work but i earn here and buy things that i want from the net. the best example is what i bought last valentines day. so i treasure mylot just like i treasure my work. i also learn a lot from here that i apply with my life. i also enjoy that piece of mind i am giving on people who are asking suggestions or advice. regarding with members... i have quite a few members that i remember. and i miss a few that i dont know if they will still be coming back. the first person was affected badly but the flood we had and ruin her pc. she is a single mom of four children and i am not sure if she had bought a new pc already. the other one i dont know but i hope she still find time to get online. but good people come and go. i can say that you are one of those people who i can say is one of the good members i know.... so please dont go awol.... har har har. if you will be busy please post it. i post when i was leaving for japan... so if i can not log in people will understand. i just hope some people miss me too.

I can say Mylot is already a part of me. 3 years ago since I came back here in my home country I had no friends and social life as my old friends were already gone abroad. It was like starting a new life and building a new horizon. Then I have found Mylot. thru this site I found an outlet. I found a new companion where I could freely utter my thoughts. And I would say I became more open and honest with what I feel with what I see as I found a new freedom to express how I perceive things around me. Tho I dont know anyone here personally or had a personal bond or friendship but everytime I comment on other member's post and receive a reply I know I am not alone.

I love mylot. Our modem went out on us Wednesday. I was in the habit of check mylot every morning & evening to see what was happening discussion wise. I missed it. First thing I did today when we got the new modem was checkout mylots. I'm a newer member but find I enjoy it more then any other chat/online communication. I actually think people on mylots do form a special bond. That's why we're checking everyday to see what & who's out there.

I'm a total 'newbie' when it comes to myLot...I just joined about 3 days ago. What I find really great about myLot is that the community is truly a close and friendly community. There doesn't seem to be any 'hating' or angry posters from what I've seen and that is such a relief. Many other forums either just die out, or they are just full of vulgar people. I am glad this is not the case. I am definitely here to earn daily but also to be a part of this great community.