Have You Been Able To Find Your Childhood Friends?
By KrauseHome
@KrauseHome (36447)
United States
February 26, 2011 11:02pm CST
Did you ever think Facebook would be such the site it is? If you are a member did you ever think you could find all the people you can find on there as well? How about finding your old classmates and friends from back when you were growing up? Does it end up making you want to meet some of them?
Personally I am glad for Facebook for this very reason as it has given me the chance to reconnect with people from High School and even grade school days, and many of these people I have not seen in close to 30 yrs. or longer. But a lot of times getting the chance to reconnect with people from the past like this helps to show me that they are still alive and find out that even though we might be married, have kids, moved aways away, etc. that we can reconnect and find things in common and maybe eventually plan for a meet up as well. Because of Facebook I have been invited to my Class reunion this summer, and even though it is only 29 yrs. this yr, we are going to be getting together with some other classes since it was such a small class and Celebrate life and the future as well.
Overall I am glad to be a member there, and even with all of it's ups and downs I think overall it can be a great place to be.
~~TINA~~
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32 responses
@GardenGerty (160952)
• United States
27 Feb 11
I have not joined Facebook yet. I do not really have anyone from my past that I want to connect with. I know that it is great for some people to get back in touch with each other.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
27 Feb 11
Hi GG, pardon the intrusion
@Yogesh, the numbers inside the brackets means the total participation you have done thus far, it includes starting discussions and responses in total. When you enter the same box as the original response it does not increase in numbers but will factor into earnings.
A warm welcome to you to myLot.
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@Yogesh2708 (454)
• India
27 Feb 11
@gardengerty you have started 28000 discussions in mylot and haven't joined facebook yet! So surprising! Facebook is so populat why you have not joined this yet?
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@Yogesh2708 (454)
• India
27 Feb 11
Oh sorry! I have seen you have started 463 discussions. But what does the figure in bracket indicate?
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
27 Feb 11
Having lived in the same city all my life, and having my mother here as well, I've not lost too many people. I will say that I keep in touch with my friends better because of the internet - even tho I'm not too interested in school "friends"...
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
27 Feb 11
Hello ElicBxn
I live in Hong Kong where is a small city and I live almost the same region in this city, however, I lost a lot of friends, people changes contact no. and that's why I can't keep contact with them very well. Though I'm not too interested in school friends as well, but it's better to keep contact, maybe one day we would be close friends.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
27 Feb 11
Interesting thoughts. I guess for me, I have some fond childhood memories of some of the friends I was close with until I moved away at 15. So for me it was an exciting venture, but if you were not close to anyone there would be no need to look anyone up as well.
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
28 Feb 11
Well, as I said, I have lived in Austin since 1955, and have seen a lot of them. But, understand, I am pretty strange, I really have only kept friends who either I don't see much or are into science fiction like I am.
Sure, there are a few I would like to still find, but as far as I can tell, they aren't on line.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
18 Feb 12
hi friend how are you, may days you absent to contact in response.
@macdingolinger (10386)
• United States
27 Feb 11
I have indeed been able to reconnect with a lot of classmates on facebook. But the real cool thing is the connecting with family members. Not long ago a cousin looked us up. We had never met her and I found out she was my Uncle Bob's granddaughter... it was like Christmas!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
28 Feb 11
That is cool. I know Facebook can be a great way for a lot of people who have lost contact get back in contact with one another just to find out what is new. I know even though sometimes I have my complaints about the site, I am glad I have been able to reacquaint myself with others I knew a while ago for sure.
@zralte (4178)
• India
27 Feb 11
Oh Yes, Facebook has been great in connecting me to friends I haven't seen or heard from in years. Living far away from everyone I know, I have joined so many social networking sites in the hope of getting in touch with friends from my past; usually get one or two in a site. With the popularity of Facebook, everyone seems to be using it. So I dropped the rest of social networking site and just log on to Facebook from time to time.
Just the other day, a friend from my college days, whom I haven't seen or heard from for more than 11 years found me and we had a nice chat catching up, exchanged phone numbers, etc. If it was not for FB, I would never have heard from him ever again.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
4 Feb 12
Yes, I am sure there are many more stories like this happening all the time. That is a Great thing in being able to use this site for many things. I know it is interesting to see what people look like you have not seen for over 20-30 yrs. or more, and when you find time to catch up and maybe eventually one day see them again it makes it all worth while for sure.
@Yogesh2708 (454)
• India
27 Feb 11
I never found any classmate on facebook since my high school is not mentioned in facebook directory. But i have cousin to whom i haven't met from 4 years but i am always connected with him with facebook. I love facebook!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
9 Feb 12
Yes. it is always interesting when you can find someone on Facebook you have not talked with in a long time. Makes it seem like such a Small Small world.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
27 Feb 11
I reconnected with a friend from grade school. She found me on facebook and last summer when I went to Arizona I met her after not seeing each other for 42 years! It was fun and it was just like time was erased....funny but I have since also connect with others I went to grade school with....I am much closer to them then the people that I graduated with!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
13 Mar 12
Yes, I am anxiously awaiting my Class reunion in July, and being able to reconnect with people there I have not seen in like 34 yrs. It will be nice to see some of them again and just share about life and things that have happened to us. (I only went to school with them thru my freshman yr. so feel it a pleasure to be invited.)
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
28 Feb 11
I don't really want to find them. We were only friends and classmates because we had to be. We had very little in common then and we have even less in common now. I run into them, we have nothing to say to each other. When I do run into them, I have more to say to total strangers than I do to them.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
19 Mar 12
Yes, there are many people who you run into that you might not have anything to say to them, and hardly can even remember them. So in this case unless you keep up with them even into your adult life, it can be hard.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
27 Feb 11
Hi. KrauseHome. I agree. I have found many people that I went to school with. I am still searching for more of them too. I am still looking for a some female friends in particular. I may have to send messages out so that I can locate them. It is nice to know that you will be attending your high school class reunion very soon. Have the best of fun!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
21 Feb 12
Yes, I am really hoping that I will be able to go and get a chance to reconnect with some friends I have not seen in around 30 yrs. It will be interesting to go and see how we all have changed and what's new. It should be an awesome time for sure.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Feb 11
not me it drives me nuts. i havent been able to figure out how to navigate on there to do a lot of things. like how do you search? when i try it just gives me people from my freakin address book and i already found them
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
21 Feb 12
To look for people you have never found before, like say you are looking for John Doe... Type his name in the Search area, where you usually would put your friends, etc. and there should be a whole bunch of people there. You can even narrow it down I think to certain areas as well. But it is interesting when you can find someone you have not been around in person for yrs.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
27 Feb 11
hello friend!
yes friend i think so that face-book is a site where i found my all child hood friends.i feel i am so much lucky.and so much thankful to face-book.it is a great site to chat with others.yes friend same here.now a days all are depend on face-book.
thanks a lot.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
21 Feb 12
Yes, this is a Great thing, and a lot cheaper than the old days where you had to mail someone, and even calling can take a lot of time, and not able to find everyone that easy that way for sure. Facebook will be one of the reasons I am trying to find a way to be able to afford to go to my Class reunion and just a great way to reconnect.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
27 Feb 11
I am a member of Facebook and pretty much have connected with many acquaintances, family and friends but not so much from my early childhood years. I also must admit that I do not frequent it as much as before, and maybe because all the member friends I have on there are easy to contact via phone, email and or text.
But I have run into childhood friends in stores and somewhere outdoors and it was not so much that it brought back childhood memories but more so like wow someone from my past and it was nice to see them again.
But you are right I do know many that religiously enter facebook several times a day and enjoy it very much. I mostly go on to put photos and or perhaps to send a quick message in response to someone.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
13 Mar 12
Yes when you run into someone you have not seen in like forever it does bring back a lot of memories. I am sure when I go to my Class reunion it will help shed back some memories from some of the others who will be there, and it will be a Great time to reconnect in person.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Mar 12
Well, sometimes the hard part can be if they are using their maiden names in here if they have gotten married, and sometimes trying to remember their name as well. I know there are people I have tried to find, but either cannot remember how to spell their names, or their maiden names are not listed. Then again maybe Facebook and the internet does not thrill them. But if you still have not found her, maybe someday you will.
@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
27 Feb 11
Yes, I've been able to find most of my classmates from High school, and later from the University. Last night I confirmed friendship request from an old classmate I had completely forgotten about. When I checked his profile I saw he kept in touch with classmates from 25 years ago which I wasn't able to track. This discovery made me very happy. I don't like Facebook very much because of it's low security level, but the one thing we can benefit is, like you said, it's one of the best way to find long lost friends.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
18 Feb 12
Yes, it would be nice if there was Better security on Facebook so that more people would want to keep using it, but it is a Great place to be able to reconnect. I have reconnected with many people and some of these I might have even forgot about it not been for Facebook as well.
@BarBaraPrz (47667)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
27 Feb 11
Friendships end and chapters close and I'm content in letting sleeping dogs lie...
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
10 Feb 12
That is an interesting way to look at things. There are people in my life that I feel it is best to close the chapter on but then the ones that were maybe my Childhood friends I am glad I got a chance even if it only is thru Facebook to get reacquainted.
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@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
27 Feb 11
When i first join facebook i never liked it,But after a month i log in and i geta friend request.I did not recognize the name.After viewing the picture's i was oh my god.
Only the facebook of the person i remember. It was my friend that we grow up together but he migrated to the states while we were in primary school.From he left Jamaica i never hear from him since.
Facebook have reunited twin brothers back together and even father and son an friends together again.I am happy that my friend fine me on facebook after all those years thank you facebook am glad the day i becomes a member of that site.
If it's a fun place to be and reunited with friends and family.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
10 Feb 12
Yes, it is a Great place to be for reconnection with friends, and long lost family. It is also a Great place for building a Business and many other things. I know I was leary of it at first, but now it is one of the main places I hang out besides my Email box or here while I am online.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
27 Feb 11
I did reconnect with a few childhood friends, and I realized they aren't the same people as I used to get along with so well. One is a social butterfly to the extreme, and a bit ignorant and does really stupid, overly dramatic things. I ended up deleting her from my friends shortly after adding her. Another, who I connected with and messaged back and forth for awhile, I ended up no longer talking to after that. First, she seems to have gotten mixed up with the wrong men, and is now a single mom. Then her 7 year old kid started bugging me, trying to get me to add her. I hardly know the mom anymore, I don't think it's right that I add her little kid. The little kid was sending me messages.. and I did not respond. I would not want my children communicating with practical strangers.. just because I knew the mom as a child doesn't mean I know anything about her now, she could have become a serial killer or something.. so I would not want my children communicating with them. So I chose not to communicate with her child. I messaged the mom and told her about the friend requests and messages and she did not seem bothered that her child did this. Like I said, she doesn't know me anymore so how does she know that she can trust me being a facebook friend to her little kid? I just don't understand why her child has so much freedom on Facebook.. it can be a scary place if you communicate with the wrong people. So I have not deleted the mom yet.. but I have stopped speaking to her. Her actions on this situation have shown me she's not a very responsible person and that's not the type of person I want to be friends with anymore.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
18 Feb 12
Yes, I have seen people who are allowing their children on Facebook, and to even have accounts here, and their kids are just barely 12. It often amazes me, and I know if I had kids I would be leary. But to have a 7 yr. old kid bothering you and the Mom not being worried. I just hope later on in life this does not create a lot of problems for the child as well. There is too much craziness out there in the world to be allowing kids online who want to chat.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
27 Feb 11
Yes, I had a very good friend, when I was 8 years old, but then he moved to another country with his parents. Some years later, when I was 13, I found him on facebook, so we stay in contact there. I have also found some other classmates, who went out of my class in the early years.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
18 Feb 12
Well it is always nice to be able to reconnect with others you might have known when you were younger and be able to talk and share in things about life. I know things happen and people change but just being able to reconnect and share in things about our lives makes it all worth while for sure.
@juniorstringbean08 (455)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
yes i have found all of them because of facebook. i think that's why this social networking rocks because everybody is using it that's why it is really easy enough now to track someone using the site. every one i longingly search for was there and am glad to have found them at last. but of course, facebook is just there for entertainment, i will always be loyal here. i'm having fun and earning at the same time. incomparable
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
14 Feb 12
Yes, that is true. These are both Social Networking sites with so many vast differences for sure. I think though Facebook is good for socializing and keeping in touch with people you may know, or have known and here you can talk about life and have people you can relate more with without everyone knowing who you really are.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
27 Feb 11
Actually i really like facebook because it has helped me find many of my childhood friends. Some are even from kindergarten =) it's so nice to be in contact with them and see how time went by and to see how they have changed and who they have turned out to be. For this i really love facebook..
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I cannot remember anyone from that far back, but it would be interesting. Considering a lot of them I have been able to get reconnected with are from when I was in 3rd grade to 10th grade, it is interesting to reconnect. Even was able to reconnect with my 1st boyfriend and some of this family as well. (This was from a Childhood Crush.)