Some people are happy being lonely.. right?
By akinad
@akinad (446)
Philippines
March 1, 2011 11:27pm CST
I just realized that other people are happy being sad. Why? If you really want to be happy then why not just choose to be happy? I think that we have the tendency to get stuck on loneliness and depression because we are comfortable living our lives there. I have this belief that if you are not happy with what you have, where you are or what you feel then have the courage to CHANGE it. If you feel so lonely then find things that would make you happy. Create a change in your life then maybe you'll find happiness. This is why i think that those people who doesn't have the courage to change and find happiness for themselves are probably happy and contented in sadness. Silly but true.
4 responses
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Many people wanted to find happiness but haven't found it so they're stuck to being lonely and sad. They haven't found their happiness for so long that they have forgotten how to be happy and because it's already for a long time that they didn't noticed or realized that they're getting used to it and that becomes their comfort zone. Well it's not actually comfortable being sad but they haven't found a way to change and that already becomes a part of their personality.
Sometimes they are also afraid to make a courageous decision and move to change it because they fear what the outcome would be and that their anxiety and depression might just add up.
I believe everybody wants to be happy and it just depends on us where we look at. We need to look at the bright side in order to be happy. I guess they need somebody to to make their attention to look at the brighter side of life.
Have a bright day everybody!
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@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
well, basically it's not "happy bout being sad" it's more like "happy being alone" one im of these people, it's not as bad and as negative as what many think. loners are more of the serious type of people, and being with those happy go lucky will just mess everything up. how do you imagine a happy go lucky person who loves yammering about many things hang out with a serious person who hardly opens her mouth, and hardly smiles! :)kinda interesting.. :)
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
2 Mar 11
Hey akinad!
I don't agree, some time we all want to be alone, but not forever. Every man, I believe, wish for love, attention, care from a friend or family. And that's who may live long one, I think, just at a time of confusion in mind. We need to communicate and live in a world between people, not alone in our thoughts. I think we even we are not able and are not intended to live alone.
Therefore, God created Eve to Adam. ;)
