Release all your stress
By daiweian06
@daiweian06 (1405)
March 3, 2011 10:37am CST
Go away from the things that made you stress. Don't mind the people who made you stress and keep yourself busy. It is the only way to release it. And sometimes it needs a relaxation. Have a vacation with your friends. Surround yourself with the things, people who makes you happy.
Enjoy your time in this life. After you learn how to release it guaranteed you will feel the changes and real happiness.
Sometimes you only need to enjoy and had fun. Stress is everywhere so let it in and let it out.
Good day!
God bless!
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23 responses
@dknkyle (446)
• Singapore
3 Mar 11
I am a believer and I release stress by spending time with the LORD. Spending time with the LORD can be done in a few ways, such as listening to sermons and praise and worship songs or reading the bible as well as daily devotionals. I believe that spending time with the LORD not only release stress but it strengthen me and makes me a better person with greater values!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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18 Mar 11
dknkyle: Wow you are so good in terms of faith. Wish I can do the same as you. Since we are very religious too. We went to church twice a week for worship. I also had a church duty at least once a week. I make sure that each time I always ask Gods help and prays a lot.
As I remember each time I feel weak and sad about the things had happened to me I always ask Gods help and guidance. That's what I forgot to post about my religious part.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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18 Mar 11
dknkyle: Wow you are so good in terms of faith. Wish I can do the same as you. Since we are very religious too. We went to church twice a week for worship. I also had a church duty at least once a week. I make sure that each time I always ask Gods help and prays a lot.
As I remember each time I feel weak and sad about the things had happened to me I always ask Gods help and guidance. That's what I forgot to post about my religious part.
Good day!
God bless!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Hi. daiweian06. You are right! I do my best to relieve stress to the best of my ability. Posting at myLot makes me feel really good. The more that I write and read, I am able to forget about my troubles. It feels good to talk to others that are going through worse situations than I am. It feels good to let my anger, concern, frustration and anxiety out. It really helps. I enjoy writing and keeping myself busy with household chores. I have more plans this year to relieve my stress.
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@daiweian06 (1405)
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18 Mar 11
Yes, It feels so good that here in mylot everybody do cares about our problems and concerns. They are all open on what we gonna do and tells us what is their opinion and what to do.
Doing mylot is a simpler things to forget some of our problems. They explain some other things and some can relate on our situation. By doing this I also gained a lot of self confidence and I easily release my thoughts.
Just do whatever you want. And feel good.
Good day!
God bless!
@marguicha (222976)
• Chile
4 Mar 11
I agree with you that we need to relax. That´s why I like to travel and have vacations every year. My online earnings are the way to go places for me as my pension is just enough to live on a budget. I´m leaving today for a 2 week trip to Aruba with friends. I´ll post about it when I come back, absolutly relaxed.
@marguicha (222976)
• Chile
30 Mar 11
I don´t worry about my income but I have to manage it because I like to live well. The income I receive each month pays bills and daily living. I have a nest egg and my house for health issues should they arise in the future. And I work online to be able to have awesome vacatins. The last one was in Aruba. I changed my avatar. I put a picture of me at Aruba drinking a piña colada.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
Doing mylot as your extra income I think is a good idea. You can bring this where ever you want. Its good to have a good time with your friends. Also soon have a quality time with your family.
Don't think about the enough pension you have. You are so lucky to receive those money. Just find ways to have more income.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Jun 11
Wow you have a great time with your life. You are now living a happy life. Just treasure those days and be happy that you are blessed. Bills are very important. we are all paying bills each month and sometimes exceed on our budget. so it is better to be prepared.
I never tried piña colada but I think it taste good. We also love to eat pineapples because it is a good source of fiber.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
Yes, mylot helps me a lot f things. I do also release my stress and emotions here. While having a great time to talk about the things that makes me feel good. I also learn how to talk more in English and to know about other things in life.
Its so good to have a conversation to other people may we not really know in person. Finding good people and to make more friends.
Good day!
God bless!
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
That will be easy to I just have the ample time to go on vacation, relax spend time with the people I love to be in company with or do the things that makes me happy. But since I only have a few days off per week and I am still starting with my new job, I really don;t know how to relieve the stress I am feeling. Stress with all the new things I need to learn, stress on how I can adopt to the changes, environment and the people plus the stress in the job (my job is not really stressful but sometimes people I deal with makes me really feel stress).
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Jun 11
Yes, just ask questions but to accept and appreciate life. Life is so wonderful whatever it takes. It is all about how we understand life. Just put your attention on the things that makes you happy and feel good. Each of us have ups and downs and no one don't want problems but it is always there.
Be strong and be matured enough.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Accept all those things since you choose that job and all of us have different situation. Don't mind about the things that stresses you. You know no one here in the World who feel so good about life. We need to experience to be more stronger. Still your so lucky to have and find a job that soothes you. There's a lot of people who is fighting just to have a job.
Just enjoy your life no matter what.
Good day!
God bless!
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I agree. We make it a point to travel even once a year as a family to a new place and try new things. In fact, we will be going to Davao this Friday and we are all excited. My son would be delighted to travel on an airplane and have fun with the beach and the zoo. I think traveling with him is another way of educating him. There are new things he can learn from traveling that is not taught at school.
You are right that having your family around is a good way to de-stress. But sometimes handling my little 4 year old gives me more stress. I appreciate him stressing me more than not having him in my life at all. He is my life and the ultimate source of my happiness!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
As early as now teach your son on how to earn money too. On how to save his money. Those things that not only matured people must know. On that age he will realize many things in life. Its a good thing that he will experience those things at his young age. Experience is a must.
May be your just focuses on his mistakes and bad thing to be done. try to find some ways to turn those things into what you really want him to be.
Good day!
God bless!
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Thanks Daiweian! There are a lot of opportunities to teach our children important life skills. I agree that it is good to teach our kids to learn the value money at a young age. Yeah, sometimes we focus more on the negative things than the good things that they do.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Jun 11
This time you have to focus on their positive deeds. In that case you will uplift and boost them to do things as what is right. Because if you focus on their failure you will just let them sad. But if there's a time that you really need to tell them their bad deeds but always turn it into positive.
Teaching them to value and earn at young age is a very advisable. In that time they will know how you earn the money and they will spent it wisely.
Good day!
God bless!
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
change your celphone number... or the sim. if people that makes you stress knows where to find you then it is no use to releasing the stress when you know it will still be there. i do that too i release stress only when i make sure they will not be there to stress me. i go out with my son and my wife and eat out and laugh out. that takes out my stress. i bring my wife to a movie and to a great resto that releases my stress. then when we come home i will bring ice cream for my son and we eat that together. thats a stress free day. hope you have a great stress free day as well.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
22 Mar 11
yesterday it was extremely hot, so my wife bring out the basins and water deeper and we went at the back yard and played with water there. our son was having fun and me and my wife had the best laugh. we acted like kids and enjoyed. i dont like to be with people who will just stress me... this two makes me feel i am young and makes me feel special. good day to you too. its hot today also so maybe we will be at the back yard again. yey!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Woah. Its a unique situation and thing although you all enjoy it so much. It means that you all are really connected and compatible with each other. You enjoy each second count. Keep on having a bonding moment with your son. It will help you to build more happy family.
While we were happy that is the time that we attract more blessings in life. So always feel good and grateful on what you have.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
You already knew how you can release your stress. Its good for you to be with your family than anyone else to enjoy your day. Its a good idea to be with people you love than to think about the people or the thing that made you stressed.
Only few people knows how to do it. And some are just pretenders. I hope that you can also share your knowledge to your other friends and love ones.
Good day!
God bless!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
7 Mar 11
I think that we have to be able to enjoy our lives from time to time in order to relieve stress in our lives. I don't necessarily think that we need to take vacations in order to relieve stress in our lives. However, I do think that we have to be able to schedule time into every day and every week of our lives to do something that we really do enjoy. In the absence of this, I really don't think that we have the capacity to enjoy our lives.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Not necessary that we need a vacation just to release our stress. Im just suggesting that you will enjoy more if you will bring your family and friends together with you in a nice place. At home you can also do that by watching movies and playing some activities with them.
You need to be creative also and flexible on what do you think will help you. Sometimes in just simple way you can easily do that too. try to eat your food that you like.
Good day!
God bless!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
7 Mar 11
I wish it were that easy...
Unfortunately, to be able to provide for my family, I have to be in a job that causes me a lot of stress. Granted that there might be other kinds of work out there that brings in the same amount of money, but today's economic crisis is proving that it is difficult to find other opportunities.
Still, I wish. And if by wishing, I could feel a little relaxation, then I'd continue wishing.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
If you are going to think of it you can easily release it. You know yourself more than us. You know what you really like and what makes you happy. Don't think about crisis its normal. Better to attract more blessings and good thing in life.
Just be comfortable, contented and keep on dreaming. Continue what you are doing and just make some ways to earn more that you did now. Just be good enough to attract good things in life.
Good day!
God bless!
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
7 Mar 11
As much as possible, I don't want to stress myself with anything. I keep my mind from stressful thoughts and think only of those that made me happy. Anyway, when I'm stressed, what I do is to go out and breath some fresh air, a walk in the park or sing with my videoke. LOL!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Yeah, you know yourself well so you also know how to release you stress by your own. Simply by just being happy and feel good in that point it feels like you new again. Feels better than carrying your stress.
Being accompanied by your friends and family is also advisable. So that you can build more connected, bonded and a good relationship with each other.
Good day!
God bless!
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
11 Mar 11
Yes, it was said that stress is the number one cause of all major health issues that we have nowadays. Sometimes stress can make us perform better since we are competing with ourselves and the challenges that we face but too much stress can also kill us. The key is not allowing yourself to be driven to the point that your health is affected.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Yes so forget about the things that stresses you. If you can't avoid it just accept it and find more ways to overcome those things. You know yourself well. And sometimes by just doing simple and little thing you make a big difference on you.
Just feel good and attract more good vibration so that your World would be more easier and smooth. Don't mind about what's happening now a days its part of it.
Good day!
GOD BLESS!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
When i want to take away my stress, i would immediately go home once dismissal comes. I would pass by a fast food to eat my favorite food and float. I like to do it by myself only. Then, go home, pray for help from God in our bedroom , after that , i would watch TV while i reclined in our sofa with feet elevated. Before my husband arrives i would be okay.
Or i would shop for a blouse or shirt, or shoes, or bag. However, this one is a bit costly.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Yeah shopping is also a good choice to release your stress because once you bought something you really like it feels like you won a game. You know a lot of thing to release you stress. I hope that all people are like you.
Eating our favorite food is also a good thing to do. It makes us feel good at all times. While you enjoy your food it looks like you are so lucky to eat those food. Watching tv and to see you favorite actress is a good relaxation too.
And of course, Above all praying to God and to ask some help are the best.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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23 Mar 11
Going somewhere alone is not a good idea. May be invite your sister/brother with you, Or one of your closest friends to accompany you. I make sure that you will more than being alone. Sometimes we can handle being alone and much better to be with someone who knows us.
Good day!
God bless!
@cyan9306 (65)
• China
4 Mar 11
I tell myself it will be a nice day everyday I wake up.I try to escape away from the things made me upset.However,the biggest stress comes from my parents.I love them but hardly can reach their expectations to me,which would drag me into disappointing at myself every time I called my family.I think I'm working hard and trying to get a good life for them.
well,most of the time ,I am happy and enjoying my life.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
So you feel pressured by your parents and in this life. Better to tell them how you feel. Its better to be honest and fix those things before its too late. Talking to them on how you feel is a good idea. After that you will feel good about it.
Tell them to don't expect too much about you. Yes, at first they will be disappointed but its good to be true. Just enjoy your life while your away from them.
While you feel good and better the more you attract good things in your life.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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17 Mar 11
Watching movies is also a good help. May be this time not related on what you really feels like. Better to choose different story and comedy. Action is also advisable if that's what you want.
Having a good exercise to release your stress is much effective if we will do this wholeheartedly. We really have to do our best. Enjoy each time to forget. And sometimes in just very simple way is much effective to do.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
releasing your stress is all about mind. Activities are just a toll on ow you can release it on your mind. If mylot is the only thing that makes you better so always do whatever it is. Try to play games online too.
Always post your feelings whether it is good or bad. And also change your mindset. Don't think about the things that makes you weak inside out but to use it to makes you a better person. Don't think that your the least of them all but think about what your advantage, your luck in life, what makes you happy, and the things you have.
Just be grateful.
Good day!
God bless!
@amber89 (50)
• China
4 Mar 11
your suggestion about release our stress is a good consideration,but sometimes it is easy to say rather than to do as you expect. i also know the importance and the ways to ease the anxieties,stress,such unpleasant feelings. they won't work however epecially when sth you feel unsolved is still on ur mind.even if you employ these methods,like traveling,and join some activities with friends. see that some mylotters here said they might feel their stress or unhappyness relived during their "relaxation".once they finished the enjoyable time,and back to the busy work or trival things,the stress also came back,which made them more stressful or depressive.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
Yes, its better if we will put all those thins in ACTION. Rather than that we will realize when we look in the mirror that when we are stressed we look older than we think. Being stressed reflects on our face too. So always be comfortable and happy on our daily lives.
Everyday we have to absorb good things and let go of the negative vibrations. To do this think about the easiest way to release our stress.
Good day!
God bless!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Mar 11
Hi daiweian,
You are so right sweetie I am one who has a better outlook this year. I have had many issues and allowed them to consume me. So I started this new year that no matter what I was going to take deep breaths and take not be so hard on myself. Because sometimes we cannot control everything but we certainly neeed to control the way we see things.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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18 Mar 11
Yes, we cannot control other people and what may happen about us. But we can control ourselves and mind. All of the things that had happen has a good purpose. There's might something that God wanted us to know.
All of this was just part of our life. Don't take it so hard. Just let the things to happen and choose the better pattern that you will be grateful. If you can't manage those things don't hesitate to ask some help from your love ones.
Good day!
God bless!
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
4 Mar 11
Sometimes I really don't know how to loose myself.I just always think of those things that excite me,I always lose my temper and cannot control myself all because of others.We must learn to get ourselves away from any trouble and drive away all the stress.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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22 Mar 11
If that's what you know about yourself try to learn to control yourself. Don't expect too much on the things that makes you feel good or what. Always think the pros and cons of all of it.
Go away from the things that makes you stress or feel bad. Always be with the people you love and do whatever you love to do. You know yourself more. Attracting the positive things in your life is the best way to live in this World.
Good day!
God bless!
@Skrejka7802 (96)
• Bulgaria
3 Mar 11
This is true but i cant go away from my town and i go to tavern with my best friends I am relaxing 100%. I forgot for all things besides my friends on table.
But always when I quit this place my stress started and I'm going out of control.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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17 Mar 11
If that's the situation always be with your friends and family. They helped so much on your decision and you look good when your with them. Always ask their opinion before having a decision.
Our family and friends are the best people around us. So treat them well and be good at all times. Don't do anything stupid that you think will hurt them or make them disappointed.
Good day!
God bless!