How did you learn to sew?
@shaggin (72131)
United States
March 13, 2011 1:52pm CST
I believe if I remember correctly that my mother taught me to sew a little but then when I was in high school I had to take a home economics class and for part of the year was sewing the other half was cooking. I was the best in my class for the sewing. I won a $5 gift certificate to the school store for having the highest grade in the class.
My daughter is 6 and wanted to learn how to sew. I cant work the sewing machine I have its so old. I have to get my mother to come over and show me how to thread the machine its so old and confusing. Needless to say I dont sew very often. There is no way I would teach her at 6 years old to sew on a machine but I did teach her to sew on Saturday. We used a sewing needle, thread and felt and she is creating a whole bunch of stuff. Shes really enjoying it.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
18 Oct 11
I started embroidery at age 6 so I knew lot of the "sewing" issues. I made my first skirt at age 10...it was out of upholstery fabric (my mom was thrifty, frugal and used everything for something!) and I'll never forget showing it off to my grandpa and him saying "that's to short for you. Make it longer!". It was a pretty pattern fabric and I didn't care what kind it was...I got to wear a shorter skirt and I made it myself! All during high school, I made my own clothes...mom said I could have all the fabric I wanted under 2 conditions...it couldn't be over 77 cents a yard (which was VERY easy to stay under in the early 70's!) and I had use all the material I bought first before I could buy any more! Simplest deal I ever made! But I made all my clothes (but pants, never could do those very good but I didn't care...I liked wearing skirts and dresses so it worked out fine!) Then once pregnant, made all my daughters clothes till she hit 6th grade and she asked for jean skirts (which I didn't make as I didn't want to damage my machine by sewing thick demim) and "mom...could I please have a store bought dress?" ripped my heart out so I ended it for her...she got store bought after that. I then went to home decor projects, quilting, dolls, things like that. Was on hiatis for about 9 years now and just recently got my first home with an extra bedroom and I put my machine up and started sewing again..then decided I deserve a new machine as this one was 25 years old, so I searched around, found SInger had their newest machine out for half price ($448 instead of $1,025!) and bought it and it does everything but beep when you have to go to the bathroom!
So 6 is not to early to teach. My 5 yo grand daughter got a kids machine for christmas last year and she made me a a small bag/purse and herself a large tote bag...so it can be learned. But hand sewing ...that is good to. Like I said, I started embroidery at age 6...everyone got a set of kitchen towels that had the day of the week embroidered on them with a design, then everyone got a set of pillow cases hand embroidered. Then I started embroidering on the clothes I made. Which took me into Crewel and needlepoint...which is good too!
So I say...teach her all she wants to learn. Felt is a great way to start as no fraying or raveling. So many things she can make also. Good for you for teaching her and I hope she picks it up quickly and gets a new sewing machine for christmas (or birthday) In looking recently...the cheapest ones that do straight and zigzag stitch only are &80-$99. Well worth it if she learns to sew and makes her own clothes!
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
18 Oct 11
Wow what a nice story you shared with me. Its nice when someone writes out something long and thoughtful instead of a short two word answer. She would sew lately and barely do anything and want me to finish it so I told her she had to take a break from it because it was a pain to get the stuff out and then her give up after a minute or so. I have a very old sewing machine it was my grandmothers it works good when I can remember how to thread it and use it lol.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
20 Oct 11
Aww how sad that because you are left handed you struggle so much more. My daughter is left handed and it doesnt have any effect on her at all. If I remember right she does everything right handed except writing such as when she throws a ball I think she does it with her right hand. I cant remember.
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@Tina30219 (81925)
• Onaway, Michigan
19 Oct 11
I never learned to sew I am left handed and it is hard for me to learn things. My mom couldn't even teach me to crochet because of it.I want to learn how to crochet more so I can do make blankets and I have a dishcloth pattern I want to learn how to make them they look eally nice. I see posts about how people make things for gifts for the holidays I would love to be able to do that.
@bretay61 (722)
• United States
13 Mar 11
I learned on my own.Both my granddaughters,ages 6 & 9,are wanying to learn.Well mine has a lot of different stuff on it.I don't think it would be something for her to try on,so I'm gonna get her one of the Chainstitch Sewing Machines.I saw them at Michaels Craft Store and at Hobby Lobby.They were about 25 I think.I plan on using the 40% coupon that I get and get both of them one.That way they have their own,with their own color of thread and can practice that way.It looks very easy to thread.Try looking for one of those and see if that won't help her.It would be really simple for her to operater,since it is just a simple straight stitch.Good luck.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Oh that is such a neat idea even at $25 that wouldnt be a very expensive gift for her birthday in May. She would probably love that. Tonight I told her for the rest of the week she isnt allowed to do any sewing though because I told her to make sure she kept her sewing needle carefully put away so no one would get hurt by it. She got into where I keep the sewing supplies and got herself different color thread which I was ok with but then I found a needle sticking in the carpet near there and then found another needle down on my living room couch.
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
None of us have ever stepped on a sewing needle thankfully I can only imagine how bad it would hurt. One time I stepped on a tack and it went all the way in my heel. It hurt quite bad especially pulling it back out. Ugh I'm cringing just thinking about it. I got all the sewing stuff that she got out picked up. I feel making her wait until the end of the week to sew again but she has to learn she has to be more careful if I let her use something like that.
@moondancer (7433)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I taught myself. First I just used a needle and thread and cut things out of other material like sheets or other things like dresses and things. I used paper for my patterns and drew them myself.
I bought my first sewing machine and taught myself to use that. My MIL showed me how to use a pattern, the simplicity ones. I started mixing a matching them to make what I wanted from any I wanted to after that.
Your daughter can learn to sew with a needle and thread when she is about 7 or 8 years old. That is when I taught my grandson and he enjoys it. He wanted to learn because he saw me doing it all the time and asked me to show him and I did.
If your daughter shows interest, show her.
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
14 Mar 11
That is really good. Maybe you can get her one of those little play sewing machines that really work for a gift some time. She could use it next to you when you when you are working with yours or when you are watching her with hers. She would love that!
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I certainly did :) Thats what I did on Saturday I gave her some felt and a needle and thread and we started making a dress for her doll. She got bored with that and then wanted to cut out shapes on her own and make things so I let her get her creative juices flowing and shes been sewing that way the past two days. Today though she wasent careful enough she left two needles laying around and I warned her about that. It really scares me that one of us could step on one or sit on one so I told her until the end of the week she isnt allowed to sew again. Shes so creative shes making little shoes for her american girl doll.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
19 Oct 11
I think I too learned the basic, basics in sewing class in 7th grade in middle school. We made a pillow of a farm animal for our project. I did ok on it but the girl I sat next to was very annoying to say the least and needed help constantly. I kinda wish I had taken in in 8th grade BUT between my mom having a cow over paying for the material to make my project and not having much confidence I didn't go further into it beyond what was required. Though I'd like to learn how to sew some basic clothes and maybe how to put a zipper in. I had hoped I'd get to do these things while at home with the kids but you need money to go to sewing classes and someone to watch your kid. Doesn't seem like anything every works out the way I had hoped.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
20 Oct 11
Aww I wish you could go take another class. I wish you could find a free class and someone to watch your child for free. That would be really nice for you. I know how you feel lack of money and lack of people to watch my kids makes things a lot harder. My mother can sew really well. I can sew good but I dont have a good machine so I dont sew pretty much at all anymore lol.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
20 Oct 11
Utube it! I have gotten back into quilting and have seen lot of clips about the things I want to learn. I just today watched on on how to make fabric post cards...which I will do for christmas cards! Most of them have pretty good demos and some are more professional and others are just common folks like us...often those are better and they "talk" our language, instead of a "business" kind of language.
Fabric is expenseive these days. I remember in the early 70's it was 77 cent a yard!!! Now...$5 is about the cheapest! I wait till it goes on sale and then stock up. Sometimes I don't get all I need for a project and have to wait for another sale (right now I just bought 15 different solids as it was on sale for $1.99 a yard. Now I have to get prints to go with them..so I am watching sales. This is the first time in years and years that I have bought fabric...so once I get the print sale stock...I'll have enough and can get started on somethings...after that... I'll just buy as it comes up and still be able to do projects while I wait for other fabric sales.
@commanderxo (1494)
• Canada
14 Mar 11
I was very fortunate as a child, in that my mother (among many other things) was a professional seamstress and dressmaker. I was always fascinated when she would pull out patterns and cut yards of material, sew them together, and lo and behold, a new garment was seemingly formed out of nothing. I asked her if she would sew me some things if I designed them. Naturally she said "Yes.", but then added, "If you want, I'll teach you how to sew them for yourself." From that point on, I immersed myself into every facet of what she knew about sewing, and have never looked back.
To this day, I still have many friends ask me to do some of their sewing for them, and quite frankly, I very happy to oblige.
Re: your old machine...chances are there will still be a manual for the model of machine that you have, and can probably download it for free off the internet.
You might want to give that a try.
As far as teaching your daughter, I think it's a wonderful idea. You'll never know just how much that skill has come in handy for me over the years, and I thank my mother for taking the time she spent with me (God rest her soul). She has given me something of her, that I will always treasure.
Cheers;
commanderxo
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
It seems so many people I know have mothers that worked doing sewing. My mother worked in town making lingerie at a local shop. My friends mother worked there as well. There arent to many places in our small town to work so there were a lot of people employed there. I dont think I would like to work there the place is kind of creepy its on edge of a cliff kind of and I just think its going to fall into the river sometime lol.
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@commanderxo (1494)
• Canada
15 Mar 11
Well I never learned Victoria's Secret, nor did I ever sew lingerie (let alone on the edge of a cliff)...but it is a "busting" business (ahem-if I can say that?) today, where a lot of money is being made.
One only needs to walk through the aisles of any department store to see the enormous variety of under garments for sale, in this particular field of fashion.
Cheers;
cdrxo
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@06MLam (620)
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13 Mar 11
I did not enjoy my home economic lessons for needle work much because it was always a disaster for me, especially the first year. I remember I could never do the stiches properly until my domestic helper told me how to do it when I was back to my home from school. In the last term of my first year in secondary school, the school taught us how to use the sewing machine. Obviously, I could not do that and I did ask my mum's friend to help me finish part of my coursework. However, after a summer holiday, I learnt how to use it all of a sudden after changing the teacher. I guessed the quality of the teacher might be the answer to my improvement but my slow learning would probably be my personal problem.For the next two years, I enjoyed my needle work lessons a bit more and I managed to make an apron,somethin like a bath towel, a bag and sew a picture designed by myself. Though I do not like sewing much, I still would like to learn how to knit a cardigan!
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I never could figure out how to knit. My grandmother could knit and crochet but she got alzheimers before she could teach me. I know she would have loved to teach me to crocheting and knitting were a huge passion of hers. I used to watch my mother sew a lot. She used to make outfits for us when we were young. She was also a seamstress at a local lingerie shop. Being able to knit a cardigan would be awesome those are expensive to buy and making your own would make you feel like you really accomplished something.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
15 Mar 11
My mom taught me. I have shown my small cousins to sew, starting when they were about 4 with yarn and needle and now at 6 we are starting with the machine. They are very obedient and careful though. And my machine is easy to use, luckily. (It's sort of meant for people who don't sew very often so everything is very clearly labelled and it doesn't do a lot of things.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
16 Mar 11
That sounds like it would be the perfect machine for me then hehe. The machine I have is old and I just cant remember how to thread it. Once my mother shows me how to thread it then I can go ahead and sew just fine but if it comes unthread after a few days then I forget how it was that she threaded it. I have a horrible memory.
@Xpertcomments (295)
• India
13 Mar 11
This is quite a hobby that girls usually possessed in the older days. But is not much prevalent in the present day. The modern generation lack many a habits and hobbies that was followed int he old times. Its really good that your daughter at 6 is taking interest in sewing. Let her learn it and make sure you can revise it up too. My mom is a real good tailor so it was quite natural that we grew up operating sewing machine. WE could usually do up some help to her as she had really lot to handle along with the household chores. It was real nice to learn sewing from our mom. I loveed to help her even though i was a boy and my sister was younger to me...
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
13 Mar 11
My kids love to help out to. When we were in school even the boys had to take home economics so everyone boy or girl in a certain grade had to learn how to sew or they would fail the class. I wish I could afford a machine like the ones they had at the school they were embroidery ones and were so neat but very easy to operate.
@dismalgrin (2604)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I started learning to sew when I was 5, but it has taken me many years to get to the point where I feel I can honestly say I can sew. My mom taught me and my cousins, and all my friends to sew. She started us out with making little babies wrapped in a blanket and enforce 'tiny stitches' and then we moved on to quilting pot holders, and then we learned embroidery, then on to doll clothes, and finally clothes for ourselves. I have always been very emotional so my mom wasn't very keen on the idea of me using the sewing machine. Every time I did and something went wrong I'd break down and cry. To this day I'd rather hand sew something most of the time. I sewed my daughter's Easter Dress by hand when she was 5. No pattern. I think it was that Easter Sunday when all the other little girl's Mom's were asking Clara where her mom bought her dress that I had felt I had arrived.
But, I DO NOT have the patience to teach Clara to sew. Or anyone for that matter. She asked me to teach her to knit a few months ago... I sent her to my Grandma for that one. I just don't have the patience for it.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I've tried knitting I just cant grasp it. Crocheting I can do a little but I pretty much taught myself. I made my grandfather a big blanket once it took me along time to do it. It was so thick and warm. Sewing by hand takes so much longer then sewing with a machine but to me is easier to. Thats wonderful that your mom took so much time to teach all of you so well!
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
13 Mar 11
I learned to sew from a 7th grade home economics class. My mother didnt do a lot of sewing. simple hemming was what she was used to. I learned quite a bit in the class. there are sewing techniques that i still use today that i took from this class. i'm not sure this kind of class is even taught in the schools anymore. it was a class that was combined with cooking skills. It was one of my best achievements in school.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Wow that sounds so much like me. I think it was 9th grade though that I had to take the home economics class. I did very well in that class that was probably the higest grade I ever had was in those classes. I remember making lips pillows, gym shorts and feet shaped mini pillows. I wonder what I ever did with them. I think I gave them to my sister actually. They were really cute but I know my parents had to pay for the materials and patterns so I tried to find the most inexpensive project I could do.
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
14 Mar 11
My mother was a seamstress so I was exposed very much to sewing. Ithink I started sewing at about 8 but they were all hand stitched. I started to use my mothers sewing machine bit by bit and was a 'full blown' sewing machine user by 9 years old.
Although I can sew with the machine, I still havent learnt how to do the patterns. I have to rely on patterns which are ready made. When I was in school I used to sew my clothes which I designed and my mother would be my greatest admirer.
I read about you and crochet. My sister taught me how to crochet. If you want to take up crocheting, I advise you to look for japanese crocheting books. Even though my sister and I dunno Japanese, their books are full of diagrams and very easy to learn. But i think you need to have somebody to show you the first stitches. After that its easy peasy.
I dun like knitting though. I dun like that they curl.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Wow that is so great that by 9 years old you could sew so well on a sewing machine. Gosh I dont think I could have learned to do that at 9. I was always walking around at that age with a carpenters knife witteling things out of sticks. My grandfather would do it and I loved it. My dad was always worried I would hurt myself but I never once cut myself.
@sallyj (1225)
• United States
14 Mar 11
I learned to sew in 4-H. The sewing instructors were very particular. I learned to sew very well. My items lasted for a very long time.
When I got into high school and home economics, I did not like it. The teacher did not fit a pattern, you never back stitched at the end, and the stitches were as long as she could make them. I was afraid to wear my outfit for fear the seams would let go.
I am older now, but still use my back up stitches to hold my seams before I hem or connect to another piece.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Wow sounds like that home ec teacher didnt really know what she was doing. Makes you wonder why she was hired for that position. Maybe they didnt check to see how well she could sew before they hired her lol. My home ec teacher was very sweet and I remember very clearly her always telling us to back stitch at the beginning and end. I dont think my mother back stitches either if I remember correctly but my mother is good at sewing so I could be wrong.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
Wow that is so beautiful bonding for mother and daughter, hope my daughter would like to know sewing at an early age as well. While i do not know if i was taught by my mother or i learn it by my self, because my mother is always busy and usually she is just doing her usual stuff while i watch her so maybe l earn it from watching her, then at grade 6 our teacher in H.E.L.E. taught us some different kinds of basic stitches, but i had forgotten everything about it, because i did not practice it.
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@shaggin (72131)
• United States
14 Mar 11
Aww thats really to bad that you forgot how to do it from not practicing it. My mother had bought me a sewing machine when I was probably in 7th grade and I used to mess around on that so I knew how to sew somewhat before I went into the home economics class. Come to think of it I dont think my mother taught me how to sew at all I think I just learned a little from watching her then I practiced on my sewing machine and then learned the most when I took the home ec class.
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
13 Mar 11
I kind of taught myself, because I was really interested in it. My sister and my friend helped me a bit though, when I got stuck and stuff.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
28 Mar 11
Hello friend
I learnt it from my mom when i was just eight, my mom knew sewing, i used to sit near her watching, gradually i learnt the art
Hubby gave me Tailor model Usha machine in 1968, it is my prized possession, still working
Thanks for this nice discussion
god bless
kalyani
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