How angry do you get??
By thatgirl13
@thatgirl13 (7294)
South Korea
March 14, 2011 10:21am CST
I get angry quick but I cool down quick too :) I don't really like staying angry at someone for long. Last week I had a guy friend who made me really mad. I swore I'd never talk to him again but today, he messaged me just saying "hi" and I feel like talking to him already 
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I have this friend though, whose anger is scary. She doesn't get angry so often but if she does, she'll make sure never to talk to that person again. She had this small argument with our classmate that totally pissed her. Later that girl apologized and tried to talk to her couple of times but no, she never talked to her. But this friend of mine is a really good person, I wish her anger wouldn't be that bad though.
Anyway what about you guys? How bad is your anger?? How angry do you get??
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I have this friend though, whose anger is scary. She doesn't get angry so often but if she does, she'll make sure never to talk to that person again. She had this small argument with our classmate that totally pissed her. Later that girl apologized and tried to talk to her couple of times but no, she never talked to her. But this friend of mine is a really good person, I wish her anger wouldn't be that bad though.
Anyway what about you guys? How bad is your anger?? How angry do you get??1 person likes this
30 responses
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
15 Mar 11
WOW !! .. Saph , such ferocity !
Is there a chance for the fire to melt ??
Is there a chance for the fire to melt ??
@Pinoer (69)
• Bulgaria
16 Mar 11
And here is my story!
When I was a child, I was eating a lot of food and actualy I couldn't stay hangry for a long period of time. In my teanage I realize how fat am I in real.
I started to eat less food and make loose fat exersizes and with power of will I get very good resaults. With the power of will you can make almost everything. Now I am starving too, becouse I want to get rid of the fat gained through the winter.
You guys made my day. Thanks. @zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
15 Mar 11
It takes one or two volcanoes to make me angry , LOL ... kidding.
Actually I have a very good sense of humor , and don't get angry that easy. But of course , no humans do not get angry at all , that will be very weird. I do have my moments and instead of being angry , I'm more towards irritated. I don't know why but the angry mechanism just doesn't work for me. My irritation lasts for a few moments only , and I'll be back to myself.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
16 Mar 11
Wow you seem like a pretty cool person =) I like people with good sense of humor 
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
20 Mar 11
Well i don't get angry very easily though my friend said i get angry very easily. I try my best to control my self as i believe when i become angry then do the wrong things and take wrong decision.With my angry i can break my own stuff. And when my anger don't stop then i do cry.
Good luck!
Good luck!@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
20 Mar 11
It's nice that you can control your anger. I mostly can't and I go crazy when I'm mad but thank god it doesn't last long. I break my plus others' stuffs too. I know it's bad though.
Anyway thanks for the response. Have a good day.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
14 Mar 11
It takes a great deal to make me really angry and I must admit it I do hold grudges and can do so for a very long time. I am not intentionally rude during my upset period I simply place space and distance from whomever caused me to get this angry.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
15 Mar 11
The friend I was talking about is kinda like that too. She's not rude or whatever and she has this neutral looking face but she does keep this huge space, you can feel it. She scares me sometimes coz she may get angry but has this smily kinda face and you'll never know she got pissed 
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
15 Mar 11
I have much patience before I start getting angry. I always try to put myself in the opposite position. Then there are certain principles or rules that we should obey in legislations. When people ignore them I get a bit angry. However I cool down pretty quick. Is there a reasonable explaination a realistic reason for something I lose my anger fast. Sometimes I get angry with myself for not succeeding with my projects. Mostly I keep trying until I succeed.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
As rojababu said, You are doing well. Actually you are doing great coz you're putting an effort putting yourself in the other persons shoe. If I could do that I bet I would be a much cooler person.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
It depends on the situation, if it's just petty stuffs i get angry for awhile but it usually vanish pretty fast. But if it's serious, its different. When I get mad I cry really hard. If i get angry to a person, i don't bark right away, I've from an old friend before this technique he told me that its not advisable to "strike the iron while it's hot" because it will just create tension and sometimes we say things that we don't meant to be heard by the other party. I talk to that person when I'm no longer that hurt. =)
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
That's a good thing to do actually. I have this habit of screaming at the person I'm angry at. I get embarrassed going and talking to him again after my anger passes. Anyway thanks for the share. Have a good day.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
17 Mar 11
Getting angry is not my problem. Because I'm alike you. I think that we shouldn't keep angry. I can make us sick and stress.
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
In the scale of 1 to 10, I'm 9.9... LOL
I get mad VERY fast and sometimes I just can't control it. And in some situation, I don't to the person FOREVER. But when fate leads me, I will then talk to the person. But in my normal case, it usually takes a LOOOOONG time. =)
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
Really? I could never stop talking to someone. I don't know why though. Anyway thanks for the share 
@sameer_1984 (215)
• India
15 Mar 11
Hi friend,nice discussion.I don't get angry so easily.But once I get angry then it requires much time to calm myself.I don't get angry on minor reasons.But you know some people are really mean and always try to harm others.Whenever I interact with such people I get angry.But one thing is for sure,my anger doesn't lasts long with my frinds and relatives.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
Yeah I don't really know why people just want to harm others. It's none of their business whatsoever 
. Anyway it's good your anger doesn't last long. Mine doesn't too but while I'm angry I go crazy lol.
. Anyway it's good your anger doesn't last long. Mine doesn't too but while I'm angry I go crazy lol.
@yopyyop (187)
• Romania
15 Mar 11
I am a very funny person. Everybody says that I never get upset or I don't get angry almost never. But this is not true! I am getting angry a lot, especially at work, but the true is that I don't show it so often. Or my faces doesn't show it so easy. I am a calm buy and I don't through things, I don't speech louder.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
A really good thing to do actually. I wish I could hold my anger inside coz I know I can do crazy thing when I'm mad. I'm not proud of it.
@rojababu (32)
• India
15 Mar 11
anger is common to everyone but controlling it is the main task, if we control ourselves at that moment its enough for a good life . in my case if there is a chance of getting angry i will control myself because getting angry is not good for health also.
dont think that never be angry a little bit of angry is required for goodness also.
@asrararmar (209)
• India
15 Mar 11
Oh well i get angry when someone talks wrong about my religion and culture..I can leave anything but not my religion..I love my religion so anybody who talks or said something wrong about my religion then it hurts me and results in cause for my Anger...
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
It's so nice that you respect and love your religion a lot. Keep it up and God bless you.
and God bless you.
@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
15 Mar 11
i get angry alot sometimes to a point that would hurt someone.. but im trying to control it so whenever im in a fight with someone and i get super angry i try to recall my fault in it and i start to cool down.. i dont know if its weird but thats my way of handling my anger... cause it can get pretty bad
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
It's good that you're trying to get rid of your old habit for good. Good luck.
@cursedsoul (925)
• India
15 Mar 11
Hi thatgirl13,
I used to get VERY angry before..to the point of not talking to people for years! Meditation helped to control immediate anger over time. :)
Then I realized that most people are too valuable to let go. Now I'm among the more patient people in the world.
You're a good person, to not get angry and hold grudges. May that attitude be with you all life.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
Wow doing meditation? I have never tried meditation before and don't know how to do one too. Can I learn doing meditation online?
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
15 Mar 11
yes i am hot temper person and will remember people who had wrong to me yes I can forgive but hard to forget . However so far has not been physical to other people but in hot temper I will walk away and prevent furtber anger burst , mayBe just kick some stuffed or slam some door if the person continue to pursue me even as I walk away then I will scream at that person.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
I scream at people a lot when I'm angry and I'm not proud of it. My anger passes by quick so I get embarrassed taking to that person again.
@dolphin21 (56)
• United States
15 Mar 11
I was mad for 4 days in a row for no real reason. I couldnt get over it since I didnt know what was causing it. Anyways, when others make me angry, I get over it pretty quick, and alot of times, no one evens knows that im upset.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
That happens to me sometimes too. I get angry but don't really know the reason for it. Maybe it's something I can't see but my mind and brains were taking notice of it. IDK
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
15 Mar 11
I get angry easily with people closer to me. I think it is because I am taking them for granted more. I know I shouldn't. Surprisingly, I am quite patient with others. But don't get me angry, because I won't just bark back, I bite and tear.
I can cool down quickly if people around me know my soft spots. Not telling though.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
I know, I get angry with my parents more than I would with anyone. I don't know why. Maybe just like you said, maybe I take them for granted. That is bad. I should change this habit of mine 
@hieuhanh (96)
• Vietnam
15 Mar 11
I really easy angry but it pass very fast , look alike you , right ? :-D I easy angry and I usually grimace when I angry , sometimes I keep silent ! If someone don't know those things about me , they will don't know I angry until I pass the angry . Maybe because I had coddle up when I a child so I usually sulk when I am not content ! Hehehe . But i'm not selfishness , hehehehe !
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
18 Mar 11
Yes we are alike . I get so angry sometimes I break things and do all sort of madness. It's bad I know. I don't do it these days though lol.
. I get so angry sometimes I break things and do all sort of madness. It's bad I know. I don't do it these days though lol.