have you been inlove?
By Sheeny
@Sheeny (173)
Philippines
March 15, 2011 5:09am CST
I am in a relationship right now, and I wonder if we are going to last forever. He is my first boyfriend and hoping to be the last, but as time passes by there are lots of changes happening. i am hoping that these changes would bring our relationship be more stronger. I believe that change is inevitable, it is the only constant thing that happen to everyone but does it includes the feeling?
4 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
26 Mar 11
I agree! I was sure my first bf was my last and the 'one' for me, but I was wrong. 4yrs in a relationship all went to nothing for his feelings for me changed. Sad but it is true. Hope your relationship will really last long. Try to make each day something new to both of you so you won't get tired of each other's company.
@pcrangers (3)
•
18 Mar 11
I was married to the same woman twice and we got divorced twice. But I still love her, not as a wife any more but because she is a great person. You just have to take each day as it comes and enjoy the feeling. Don't worry too much whether it will last forever or not. The feeling of love you have now is worth enjoying for as long as you have it. That may be temporary or it may grow and last forever. But don't let the feeling slip away by worrying too much about the future.
@sincere4frdship (2228)
• India
15 Mar 11
Well...
Changes are the properties of nature and human is not exceptional. We all get changed according to our surrounding and atomoshphere...
I have had a very strong relationship for three year with a girl. When we started we both had many things in our attutude including habbits and favorite things...
We day by we changed and we never felt much about all those changes which took place and even we didn't care as we thought and gave importance to each other...
I can say one more thing that she was so creative and created a different human being in me by her choice and changed a lot for my wish too...
Later we both got seperated and I wont go for whole story ...but that time I realise the changes which I observed in me compared to my old version...but I dont regret as If I would change may be our relation was not going to end that much time too...
What ever happens ..happens for good only...it may be result can be different but we should look at the postive aspect...
Thanks..
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Mar 11
Sheeny do not wonder if it will last forever, I would say work towards the love lasting forever. Wondering will get you to question and questioning will lead to distrust.
Be happy dear because love is a wonder part of life. You cannot have love without the feelings. So my best suggestion is constant communication is the key to any furthering for the love to continually grow.
Best of luck with your love.