Bully gets it!
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
March 16, 2011 7:14pm CST
Did you hear about or see the video of the "fight" between two school boys in Australia? The film shows two boys , one is rather large , the other rather skinny. But it is the smaller boy who is doing the hitting. He hits the other about three times before the larger boy gets him into a head lock and picks him up and body slams him to the ground! The smaller boy got up limping. I must confess I was proud of the larger boy. Why? He took as much as he Should have. I always thought a guy should give anyone smaller than he, two free hits.And then between the second and the third he Has to warn them , after the next hit, He will hit them back. It was amazing to see my theory on tape. as a victim of bullying I now have a new hero. I have been told both boys got suspended but I Know one guy Now knows whom not to mess with. Your thoughts.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Mar 11
Although my quickest thought would be why bully at all. Realistically it does happen and at times the smaller yet slimmer one needs to protect himself because the larger kids normally take advantage.
I don't think that after one hit anyone should allow a second though, because my thoughts is if you allow it once it will happen repeatedly. Although I am not recommending hitting between them I certainly would recommend defending oneself.
Not doing so will lead to worse and continual abuse for the sake of laughter, which today we know there is no such thing as a simple punch anymore *sad*
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
17 Mar 11
yes he has become a national hero, maybe he is the answer to all the bulluing that is going on in schools these days....He has a facebook page someone setup and I think he has about 100,000 supporters... I must admit I did feel sorry for the boy was doing the bullying but just because of the way he was slammed down...but I don't think he will be doing it again...
@emarie (5442)
• United States
17 Mar 11
Here's my thoughts on the matter.
Who is the right mind picks on someone BIGGER than them? I some sick sense of justice, the little kid got what he deserved.
But the problem is, I don't want to teach my own children that violence is the ONLY way to solve a bully problem. The bigger kid could have just ignored him, and walked away. So I feel the punishment both kids got was fair because we don't want to (fully) reward a violent act. Since the one being bullied only got 4 days and the bully got like 23...I think it's okay. Hopefully the kid doesn't get picked on anymore. Because that was one hell of a wrestling move he used on the small kid!
I was teased in school, not exactly bullied. But I have 2 young boys of my own who are passive and sometimes would allow themselves to be pushed around. My oldest has the physical power to hurt someone, but was taught how to be passive with other people because he has a little brother and 2 younger cousins, so I am scared of him being put into a similar situation.
...and if some people didn't know. I heard on the news that the bully just had a scratch on his leg and it fine.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
18 Mar 11
Too bad , I was hoping he broke his leg!I have no sympathy for bullies. I'm so glad the bully got 23 days! fantastic! See if he had broken his leg , those days he would be in bed. anyway. I was teased at school and I Still wish those A$$holes ill. If I were to have a son I would teach him the three hit rule. If there is anyone smaller than you and they hit you , Let them hit you twice but in between the second and third hit , warn them if they hit you , you will hit them back. That way it is up to them if they want to get hurt or not. From the tape , My hero did give him three hits before the body slam.
@AriannasMommy210 (30)
• United States
4 Apr 11
I was picked on in school too, and unless you've been there and felt it day in and day out.....you really can't say you know what you would do. Kids can take but so much before they snap. I'm proud of my son for standing up for himself, so is his father! I don't agree that he should've pushed him down the bleachers, but I do agree he did what he felt he had to do to defend himself!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
6 Apr 11
I love the move down the bleachers.But then again ,I'm not parent material.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
17 Mar 11
I saw that on TV last night. Yes, the larger boy did "take it" from the smaller boy for a few times...but then had enough and let him have it. I cheered for the larger boy! Bullying is terrible and why that little guy picked a much larger guy to bully is stupid of him, but he got what he deserved. Why can't kids stand up for themselves? Both got suspended, and I think that was wrong to suspend the larger kid just for defending himself. They probably said he should have called a teacher..yeah, like that would have made the kid stop bullying him. The teacher probably wouldnt have believed the larger kid...who'd a thunk it? A little kid bullying a larger kid!
And yeah...bet that little kid will think a time or two before he bullys again. Sometimes that is what it takes to make them stop...some of their own medicine!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
18 Mar 11
A responder told me that the bully got 23 days and the Larger kid, my current hero, only got 4 days suspension from school.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
18 Mar 11
That's fair. I mean they can't tell the larger kid that he has to stand there and take the bullying and the other kid would have denied it had the larger kid gone to find a teacher, plus he'd been bullied even more for "whining to a teacher".
no fighting in school is a rule, so the larger kid broke the rule so he has to be repromanded, but at the same time...the smaller kid was the "villian" so he should have "served more time!". I bet no one bullies that kid anymore! And I have to say...he handled it quite calmly. He stood there and probably said things like "leave me alone" etc, but then had enough and just one quick flip and he was done! No beating, fist fighting...just a quick, clean flip! Gotta give him credit for a "clean" fight!
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@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
22 Mar 11
It appears now that there is a new development in this story. The big boy that body slammed the little skinny kid is now being alleged to have started the incident in the first place. The little kid and his dad are shown this morning on GMA saying that the big kid started the 'fight' by insulting the little kid. So, it looks like, once again, we cannot always trust the media to give us the truth at first telling. I hope this will be a learning opportunity for all of us.
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@AriannasMommy210 (30)
• United States
17 Mar 11
I'm wondering why no one else has asked the question "where are all the teachers?" This is at school! Teachers are supposed to be standing outside their classrooms when the classes change, so why the hell is there not a teacher in sight?
As far as the comment from the principal that violence isn't tolerated, it obviously IS tolerated, because this kid has been being picked on for quite some time and this is the first time he's fought back!
As far as the comment, well, he could have just run away....yea, okay, and then tomorrow the same thing, and the next day and the next day and the next day! Good for him for putting that little jerk in his place!
I have a son who is always the butt of the joke, always being picked on, and a kid can only take so much! To be tormented day in and day out is uncalled for! My son eventually got his revenge as well, my pushing the kid, who ended up falling down the bleachers in the gym. And I have absolutely NO sympathy for him! He has tormented my son for over a year, on a daily basis and school officials have done NOTHING! Yes, my son got suspended, but you know what.....the bullying stopped! The kid leaves him alone now! And my son has a big fat smile on his face again!
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
17 Mar 11
I remember in school there were so many fights that teachers Never noticed. Although we did have 1-2 teachers on duty patrolling, there were so many problem areas that they couldn't keep up. We even had security at our school (and we were actually a safe school) but they'd always get a few punches in before someone broke it up.
I made the same comment about "he could have walked away" as parents, you want to tell your children to "take the high road" and "don't sink down to their level" but situations vary. I do think you're allowed to punch someone if they punched you first. The bully did throw the first punch, so in my mind he's at fault. But like I said in the post as well, kids are impressionable, and although we want to, we can't teach children that the only way to solve a problem is to use violence because that just keeps the cycle of violence there. Standing up to a bully and beating the cr@p out of them are 2 different things. If my son did what your son did, even after bullying. I'd still punish him and tell him he could have seriously hurt someone
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
18 Mar 11
See I would Take my son out to dinner that night. He would be praised because he Took the high road as long as he could. The officials did Nothing so I would fight the suspension. If the Officials are not going to prevent it, they should get used to this type of things happening.
@AriannasMommy210 (30)
• United States
31 Mar 11
I didn't punish him, but we did discuss that he really could have hurt the other boy. He knows that it's not okay to hurt someone. He didn't mean to push the kid down the bleachers, but the boy was in his face and he just wanted him to back up out of his personal space, and didn't think about the fact that they were standing on the bleachers. He knows that it's not okay to go around just hitting people because he feels like it, and he's not that type of kid. He just wanted to be left alone, and having been the butt of the joke myself through early childhood, I can relate. Sometimes, fighting back is the only option. Such is why my youngest, my daughter (now 13 months old) will be cyber schooled, at home with me!
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@chocolatechilli (246)
• South Africa
17 Mar 11
I think attitude makes a huge difference. I have a cat that used to chase big dogs away, with her attitude.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
18 Mar 11
How do we teach this attitude? And if a child doesn't have it , does he/she Deserve to be bullied until they get it?My attitude is to be nice until it is time not to be nice and then it is on. But I got this attitude about 20 years too late to relieve bullying.
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
25 Mar 11
I haven't seen the video, but I agree that any big guy picking a fight should give the smaller guy his chance too. And then give him fair warning if he keeps on going after his chance is given.
I've been bullied too a few times when I was young. But I was so oblivious that I never thought of it as bullying then.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
17 Mar 11
I'm not sure I agree with the bigger kid using so much force on the smaller kid, but certainly he had the right to stand up to a bully, no matter what the size. Of course, it would have been better to just walk away or get an adult, but then he would have been labeled as a tattle-tale. Being a kid is never easy.
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@amarili (22)
• Australia
17 Mar 11
I'm actually surprised noone has mentioned it before now, but my other half and i were disgusted at the fact that someone would even think of uploading something like that to the net, and even more disgusted that nothing was done to stop it from leaking like it did, bullying is a serious problem worldwide and is only made worse when publicly paraded like it has been, i still havent heard of any punishment being handed to the holder of the camera, they certainly should be punished as there is no denying their indirect involvement... and they were more then likely the one who uploaded it...
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
18 Mar 11
I took the opposite view . For Many years Many adults have said Kids will be kids and haven't taken bullying seriuosly. So When a parent does the right thing and reports what happens , the school Does nothing. I applaud the person who tok the picture. Now the school can't sweep this under the rug.Now they Have to do somethig about this or it will get worse.
@jeffreyallen (298)
• United States
17 Mar 11
If he was the bully, then I believe he got what he deserves. Good job larger boy!