Tell her i like her or ask if she likes me?
By malyarchuc
@malyarchuc (74)
Portugal
March 19, 2011 8:44am CST
SO there is this gril bla bla bla and well i really like her and i THNINK she likes me but u can never be sure about things like that and well i cant stand it anymore, i cant study,i cant sleep i am thinking about her all the freaking time and i just need to know and i dont know what to say, say i like her or ask if she likes me?tell her i cant stop thinking about her?what should i say!?!?!?!?!?!
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7 responses
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
Well, as the saying goes.. no risk no gain .. so just go ahead and tell her how you feel about her. She might just be waiting for you to make the first move. I know a lot of girls now are more aggressive and some will approach a guy first and say their feelings, but there are also still some who are the more conservative ones and would prefer that guys court them first. You may be right about your thinking that she also likes you, so what are you waiting for.. Go go go! It's worth the risk and in case she doesnt like you back, at least after a few years, you wont say to yourself "what if i told her then?"
@malyarchuc (74)
• Portugal
20 Mar 11
well Im 18 and have liked a few girls until now and i never said to them how i felt and well i dont really regreat it, but somehow i feel this one is different(as i have never lost so many hours of sleep). As for the part where i say i think she likes me i get "mixed" signals like the other day i sat next to her in class and the class was sooooo boring she asked me for a piece of paper( when she had some) and started to do a list with things to bring from home and where she took her notes from the class and on this piece of paper she drew a few hearts and well she was putting that piece of paper strangly directed to me but then like a week before she told me that guy is cute and i asked her if she wanted me to talk about cute girls and she said he was the only one cute in class(its a class os 200+ students, although majority are grils)
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
i think what you need to be sure at this point is how you feel about her and what you want to happen. r u ready to have a relationship with this girl in case she likes you back? or do you simply just want her to know your feelings without the hope of having a relationship? either way, i think you should just go ahead and tell her how you feel regardless if you're getting mixed signals or not. at the end of the day,, no girl will not feel flattered and happy when someone says that he likes her. so you can either gain a friend there or probably a girlfriend! it's a win-win situation :)
@malyarchuc (74)
• Portugal
20 Mar 11
srry about my ignorance but whats the point of telling her how i feel about her and NOT wanting to have a relashinship with her?
and i dont think its a win-win situation as u say, as she knows how i feel i think she knows i want to be more then just a friend and well she might get distant or something i dont know
@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
20 Mar 11
Hello mate. As a girl, I would recommend that you tell her instead of asking her. Girls tend to be shy sometimes and would maybe deny her feelings if you ask her unlike if you tell it to her directly. :)
@sajujohn (1005)
• India
19 Mar 11
I urge you to go and say to her as soon as possible.This is because as far you are thinking about her,you can't concentrate on anything.Better to talk her about your love.This will give some kind of calmness to your mind.Also after yo say to her this is also sure that you will be worried for two three days as much as before.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Simply approach her and tell her about your feelings.
Then asks her if she feels the same.
You will not know unless you asks her about it.
happy weekend
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
19 Mar 11
Hello bro,
I have been through this situation my self, I tell you what I did and you try the same formula,Otherwise you wont be able to rest in peace.
Its time to be a Man.Prepare your self for a No, and then go to her,Dont go to her for listening "Yes", As Girls never say "Yes" for the first time. Dont make any special preparation for this meetings, getting shaved or nice new clothes, or any expensive perfumes all that, I hope you understand what I mean ,Just be as Simple as u can. Talk to her gently and straight forwardly,Be polite to her, and if she asks for time to think about you Give her as much she wants, dont rush into her.I did this last mistake. Everything will be fine.
Hope for the best and leave the rest on God almighty.Finish this off as quickly, To focus on other important things in your life.
Have a Nice Romantic encounter
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
19 Mar 11
I think you should tell her you like her, then ask her if she likes you back. I can tell how you feel. Love is a crazy thing. Make you awake the whole night but it somehow never took my appetite away lol. Anyway good luck with the proposal. Hoping for the best result 
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
19 Mar 11
Yes you should go for it then you will know how she feels then you can get some rest and back to normal!! I hate not knowing the answers too it is so frustrating and I have been down that round and it is no fun not being able to sleep, eat concentrate on anything at all, so I say ask her then you will know for sure I hope that yo get a good answer and I hope she likes you too!! Good Luck!!
