waiting for Mr/Ms RIGHT!!!

this happens with a lot of people... i personally believe that before making the decision of living together for the rest of your life, you should know your significant other very well... And more importantly, know yourself, your needs, your wants, very well. Big decisions mean big repurcusions :)

For me my Mr Right is the fella I have at home now, lol.. basically I finally found someone who wants exactly what I want out of life, strives for the same things and there is no comparison as to who love who more. I answered a discussion earlier which reaffirms for me that neither should love one more then other because that being the case then the one loving more is settling for less. So this is how I knew in my mind that my boyfriend is my Mr. Right, a person exactly my equal.

If we wait for the Mr Right or Ms. Right of our life, I think we will be waiting in vain. It will take a long long time for us to find that and perhaps it will lead us waiting until we die. You see, that is a common misconception because we wait for something or someone who may not be existing. First, what could be his/her trait? Of course, you would list all the right traits. However, will there be anyone or someone possessing those traits? Again, you will already at 6 feet under the ground and there will still be no Mr. Right or Ms. Right out there. Second, we have to change that mentality already. Hence, seek for someone who is complete, not someone who will complete you. Someone who is complete means, someone who is God fearing or God centered. I say so because someone who fears God is someone who fears to do something not good against you. Hence, if that Mr. Right or Ms. Right possesses those traits, everything follows. Moreover, do not wait nor chase someone to come. Why? Because there may be a time that SOMEONE may be there, but you cannot see because you are focused with other things. Seek someone that God planned for you, therefore it is God whom you ask for it and don't just wait.

hello kaizel, We can not really say if he/she is the right one. When we feel love in our heart,and when we love someone we can never tell if he/she is the one we will be loving forever. Not even marriage could be a great sealed to say that every relationship lasts after getting married. It takes a lifetime to tell. If you are lucky to lived with that person you married for a lifetime,then,that's the time you can say..he is the right guy.

I think, that if you have the question, then he/she isn´t the right for you...otherwise you wouldn´t ask the question...You just have to feel that he/she is the one!!!