if this happened to you, how will you react?
By poshearns
@poshearns (133)
March 22, 2011 8:12pm CST
okay here's the deal. you had a fight with someone who has done you wrong. but instead of admitting and asking forgiveness for what he did, he will kind of displace it on you and instead expect you to say sorry and be the one to be nice to him.
then if he gets conscience stricken after a day or two, then he will say sorry. and he wants you to accept his sorry right there and then. isn't that unfair?
even he has done you wrong, he expects you to still be goody-goody and just wait for him to be remorseful. imagine that.
right now, i am giving him the cold shoulder treatment. if you treat me like trash, i will treat you the same. treat me nicely, and you will also get nice treatment.
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6 responses
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
27 Mar 11
Hi. posehearns. Welcome to myLot!
I think that is very unfair. He should have shown you the same common courtesy that you have shown him. Turn the other cheek and forgive him for what he has done. If he is wrong on his end, then let God deal with him.
I think that is very unfair. He should have shown you the same common courtesy that you have shown him. Turn the other cheek and forgive him for what he has done. If he is wrong on his end, then let God deal with him. @dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
26 Mar 11
yes it's unfair. And it's really bother me when some one ask me to say sorry though i didn't do the mistake. Some time i feel so cry and can't stop myself to cry. But i don't say sorry and wait for the right time as i know one day the he will realize and come back and say sorry to me.
I don't react for this.
Have a good time!
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
24 Mar 11
That depends on what offense he/she has done to me.
If it really hurts me,i can forgive that person,but do not expect me to treat the same way before.
Sometimes we need to give them some lesson to learn and for them to think about their behavior,or else,they won;t change for good.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
23 Mar 11
I will just go for the Sorry from my side , i don't wanna ruin anyone's feelings and i will never do it . It won't be a Big deal for me to use the simple word sorry
@patrickjason_cheng (24)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
This is very common my friend. You see what you do is to tell him/her in a non aggressive way so that there wont be tensions between you two. talk about it and make that person realize the mistake he/she did. after that apology is usually next.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
24 Mar 11
Some people have real difficulties admitting to their mistakes. I don't think the person is uncaring or insensitive - he is just one of those people who have too much pride. It takes time for them to learn to say sorry.
I think you are doing things the right way. It's the only way to get revenge. See how he likes it when you don't apologize for your mistakes. These people can only learn when they see someone treat them the same way.
