I will rape girls if I get a chance :(

It is known that the lady is free there and is asking for her compensations in the petition she has filed.

Hello Rajib, If the lady asked a seat, means the seat should be reserved for ladies. I have to say that some gentlemen do not have the common manners to offer the seats reserved for ladies. For the same reason, I won’t ask to vacate the seat which is reserved for ladies to these people. I just hate to hear their lame excuses, if the other seats are filled with men then their reply will be, ask to that person. So I prefer to travel by standing. Two days ago I was traveling in a government bus, in which six seats are reserved for ladies. Usually it is written in the upper side of the seat, ‘Ladies’. I have seen that two seats are occupied by gents, a father and his son, I have not asked them for seat and stand near them, after sometime another lady came she is around 50 and she asked the seat to them, the father replied, here it is not written, this is not lady’s seat, which was true, in that bus they have not written ‘ladies’ anywhere but usually in every bus those seats are reserved for ladies. My point is, his son is in his early twenties and he can vacate the seat even if it has not written there. I interfered there; I told them that these seats are reserved for ladies in every bus even if here it is not written. He said ok and asked his son to get up. I am experiencing the same in many days; I don’t know why they can’t vacate the seats which are reserved for women. I would like to add that when I was pregnant with my elder son and was on my 7th month. I asked the seat which is reserved for ladies, the man who seated there, straightly refused to get up without giving any reason… I haven’t said anything to him but other ladies shouted on him then also he didn’t change his mind. At the same time, I won’t encourage this kind of habit, making false allegations for getting their rights.

Hi kala, I can understand your point. Even in our state the Govt. run buses have four to six reserved seat for ladies and two for physically handicapped. Talking about the boy not letting the seat to the lady enraged her so much that she took the affair to the court. From this little instance I feel the boy had not violated any rule about traveling in a coach. The lady, denied the concession of being a 'woman', felt humiliated and made a great issue of it. Therefore I stood by the boy and defended him. If a lady is healthy and has no problem journeying through standing, should not have asked the boy to vacate the seat as I presumed that there was nowhere written 'LADY'S ONLY'. If it was there the boy would not indulge in exchanging heated words. What I wanted to emphasis upon is that since all over the globe there are things reserved for women so that they do not feel inferior to men in the processing the woman's taking the boy by his color is not justified. When we talk you say 'women today and not lagging behind men then why biker for a seat? You show equality in such small matters too. Why this double standard? And Kala, what you have pointed out is valid and any sensible men would stand up from the seat and would offer it to the lady standing by him regardless to if or not the lady was yelling for the seat. Old, sick, pregnant women, women with too small a kid need not ask or show that that was lady's seat. The man would instantly vacate the seat. I have had such experience too. In the city if I am to board a bus and see half of the reserved for women seats empty, I just seat down there until the real owner of this arrives. And if there is one I get up and hold the hand ring to support my feet. But some men, as you said are nonsense. They knowingly ignore the women and unfortunately there ate women who are more civilized than men and hence do not ask to empty the seat for them. This is all about manner and etiquette. This is what I wanted to put. Thanks Kala.

May be frustrated, unable to prove his part.

I feel he is yet to get matured according the age he posses. But what if that boy was a son of that women, or if that women a sister of that boy. The situations would have been changed a lot.

Let me get this straight... a guy openly says he's going to rape a girl if he can, and you think all he should do is sit on a couch and talk to a guy in a white lab coat for awhile? What does this tell other would be rapists?

For all we know, his father is like that. He sees that to his own father. Like a kid, he thinks that he is right as he sees it to a parent. Maybe the kid needs to go to rehabilitation or something to make it clear to him that what he is doing or what he believes in is not right.Lets not judge so easily. Look deeper. know what made him said that. We do not know what the kid had been through.

I am thinking about his parents.

His parents along with his two brothers where also present in the court. They were weeping after the court ordered no parole. It is seen that they not rich.

I believe his parents might be the key to this situation...If possible, you may want to check about his family background and see if there are any sign of family problems...If there is, I believe one of the reason for him to do that is the stress he had because of his family affairs...

That probably would happen, but at least the courts know what he is like so they can take appropriate action. I just hope that when he grows up that he does not turn into a serial rapist. I Hear the words can turn into action and I hope this was just the heat of the moment and they show him the video and he decides that he was being idiotic. I know that when one of those bad teens saw how she acted on the Maury Show that she reformed.

May be after this incident his hate would have been increased. This incident is not published, I heard while I had gone to court with my friend advocate.

A simple case which has worsen and now the life of a that boy is really in a mess and just think about his family.

Thanks Sreekala for the BR though I feel I did not deserve it.

He should have controlled himself. I do know what would be his rest life.

He is unable to control himself, and under pressure and hatred many bad things can come out of his mouth...He should not said that thing because any of his words can be used against him in the court...He should have controlled his head, yet he decided not to do so ...I am afraid he is drowning himself into hot soup...

And at the end of the day if he have this way of thinking I would be very concerned to have a guy like that hanging around young girls [ or boys] for that matter!

Hope so, but if still comes for revenge I hope he would be in much trouble.

I'd like to tell the judge, "Good job". A guy like that is a threat to public safety and must be kept in custody.

I believe he would (and should!)...Being locked-up will be a nightmare for him , and then only will he knows how and when to open his mouth...

May his emotions are controlling him.

At times people become criminals for their self defense.

May be his chance to get out has become more crucial.

yeah because his action and character is the one push him there...

I feel there are times something in mind should have not told, that too a place like this.

The statement he made has no relevance to the case. It was a woman who falsely accuse him, but his statement took out on girls in general. Maybe there is some other hidden anger in him that triggered him to make such a threat. I have heard of stories of people who would scribble "I hate women" on papers for no apparent reasons, which is why I think the teenager might have repressed anger somewhere. Frankly, I think there is more than meets the eye. Nonetheless, still agree with vannyt, he should think twice, speak less than once. Painful and unnecessary lessons . Let's hope that the counselors will be able to help him with his deeper problem.

I feel that the real situation is hidden as it is fabricated, his innocence it not even got preference in front of a court. May be that could have made his frustrated with anger and finally out of mind with loose words.

May be it could change other wise if that women's loved one is put in court for situation like this.

Social justice denied at times makes really mess with some people.

At times anger if not controlled could come out with worse consequences.