True Boyfriend
By muning
@muning (52)
Philippines
March 25, 2011 8:59pm CST
Hi, i have this boyfriend for about 10 months and we are happy with each other. He worked for Hotels as a cook. We planned to settle and have a good life. Unfortunately, he does not have a work recently. Its been 2 months since he was jobless. I love him and i do not want him to feel sorry for himself. I always told him that a good job is waiting for him just be patience. We used to date at restaurants but now we only stay at home, at just cook for ourselves. I want to give him support that he needs to feel that i am always here no matter what. I really love him.
I just want an advice from you guys regarding with our situation. I believe that we will overcome this trial and it will not lead us to break up. Thanks.
10 responses
@sahilaryan (28)
• Pakistan
27 Mar 11
Your words are indicating a true lover who never let him face his crises on his own and who never gonna leave him alone regardless what kind of circumstances he has.Tell him to find a work he used to.He should search on the internet for a job he has experienced in.Use your public relations and find somebody who got some connection with restaurants and i also suggest him to establish his own little food point like a burger point in a street corner, until he get the right job.And if he get handsome out come from his little business then he won't be finding a job anymore as he will not need to.
Best of luck for both of you!
@sahilaryan (28)
• Pakistan
28 Mar 11
You are welcome my dear and God Bless you too and if you are about to establish small business of food relating,Good Luck with that and if you ever need some help regarding food or cooking just let me know and i ill let you know with fully detailed info.My elder brother is a Professional Chef in a Restaurant.
You can also visit my blog to get some Recipes:http://yourdine.blogspot.com
Thanks for replying any ways my name is Sahil Aryan.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
26 Mar 11
Hi muning, Your boyfriend must not give up; in fact he should just continue to put his resume out there, even on the internet. Restaurants are booming in business now that the economy is improving and he should have a better chance at get a great job. In the mean time, he should take whatever job he can find until his true passion come along.
I think you should wait to make a total commitment to your future. If you settle at a time like this, it could be a big mistake. See how things are going in a few months and then decided whether this is the way you want to go. May relationships don't make it, even if the couple is madly in love, because of negative financial situations.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
13 Apr 11
Hi,
I hope things have improved for your boyfriend's search for his great job. If he still has found anything, I hear the job market is improving.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
26 Mar 11
Hi muning,
I am extremely sorry that your boy friend is out of job for couple of months. This is very frustrating and also insulting that a person who is out of job has to go and give interviews at so many places and yet not get job. So i donot think it is any reason for the break up and since he is a cook and economy is lot better now than it was say 6 months back so many job openings would be there soon and he would get a job. Otherwise he is a cook so can easily open a small resturant or a eatery which you and he can manage.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
26 Mar 11
I think we girls just need to be careful showing support so that doesn't look like pitty cause they are very proud about affording, you see how nice he is, the type that takes you to restaurants and all. Try to see when he is really in need, otherwise maybe it's better not talk too much about it cause he might think you are worried and might be thinking too much about it.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 11
Since he has a good skill in cooking, I am sure he can overcome his problem easily by setting up his own stall to sell foods.
It is really a good thing to have your own business.
Of course, to work for someone will be easier and less burden.
He can just collect his wage consistently every month if he work for someone.
If he really can not get a job, this is the only choice for him to set up his own food stall.
He has to start planing and doing something for himself now.
@money4honey (18)
• India
26 Mar 11
hi ! Love is something else from real life . Earning potential is also an important thing in life which needs to be taken into account too. Just loving is not enough to keep life going. In fact nowadays its so difficult to get a job in this condition it is hopeless to get a job for unskilled person in this fast life. So patience is good to control for sometime but in long run what will this patience do. So stop loving and wake up to find a new turn as early as possible because time never waits for the moment to come, the moment is made for that time when the patience gets into reality so work harder and make it possible. nothing is impossible in life if one has a will to do it..
@lucy67 (819)
• China
26 Mar 11
i think you are really a good girl. when your boyfriend is in difficulty, you try to help and comfort him. almost everyone meets troubles in their life, what we should do is to overcome instead of avoiding. besides, it's not so hard for a cook to find a job. when you get through the present situation, your relationship will become better.
@sweetme329 (500)
• Australia
26 Mar 11
Hi there, It indeed is a very tough situation for you guys. You don't lose hope because you are the one who will be giving him all the strength he needs. Don't get engaged into sad topics with him, keep him happy, divert the conversations and make him realise that it is your duty to be his strength when he is really needing it. Remain positive, things will be fine soon!
God Bless!
@muning (52)
• Philippines
26 Mar 11
Thank You, i am always at his side, I want him to keep happy all the time. I know he is loosing his pride when comes to money matter, i am the one who treats him every time we go out but is does not matter to me because we are one. I always believe in him and i know soon he will find a better job. God Bless You too my friend.
