What are the things you think one should never say to woman?
By akangirl
@akangirl (2436)
India
March 28, 2011 4:04pm CST
Today in evening i was watching 'The Pink Panther ' movie and just in one scene he said to a woman about having a ugliest nose and i thought yucks that is something nobody should say to a woman. what are the things you guys think that should never say to a woman?
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16 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
hello dear,
I guess worst line from a guy to say to a woman is
"ohh...you look matured than your actual age " i bet the guy would have a slap enough to turn his head 360 (hahahaha)
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
hugs to you my dear
well,asking my age is not a big deal...this only reminds me of my younger sister who always gets annoyed when we are together,since people always mistaken her as my elder sister.
she looks matured than me when i am 8 years older than her...(that's enough to spoil her day )
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
•
28 Mar 11
"You're just like your mother."
That did not go down well at all when my partner said it to me and he realised he'd gone too far and apologised immediately!
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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30 Mar 11
If it were said as a compliment I wouldn't have minded, but it was a real sore spot when he mentioned it and it definitely wasn't complimentary! I saw red!
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Mar 11
I never criticize any woman about his defects or human discrepancy. We have no right to criticize God's creation. What if you are the one who have defects, what you will feel if somebody mention it infront of you. It's a great insult to her. I cannot say that even my friends or sisters.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
28 Mar 11
Hi. akangirl. I think that if a man tells a woman that her perfume smells like an men cologne. And if a man tells a woman that her teeth need to be fixed. I think that these are really mean comments. A man should never tell his woman that his own mother is much more prettier than she is too, this will really crush another woman's heart!
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@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
28 Mar 11
Never make any comments about appearance unless they're good and this girl is already your girlfriend/good friend/spouse/relative. Because if you're telling a random woman on the street that she's beautiful, I bet she thinks it's nice to hear... but that you're totally creepy. lol
And also age. Never imply someone is old.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
28 Mar 11
yeah you are totally right , once i had a small fight with my now ex-boyfriend and what he did he told me that my cousin is better than me in looks and other stuff as well .It stung me so hard that i broke up with him , we just were in relationship for a month. I really hate it when guys compare girls
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@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
28 Mar 11
I hate that too! Especially when it's a standard we can never live up to. Good for you, dumping that jerk!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
28 Mar 11
My mother did like
My mother did not do it that way.
I suppose a man comparing his partner to the wonders of his mother can be irritating for many women.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 Mar 11
Hi akangirl, I would not ask a woman's age or her weight, these are two things that women seem to be very sensitive about. It probably would not be a good idea to say such things as "I like girls who are a little chubby like you" or "isn't that dress a little too short for a woman your age". LOL! Blessings.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
made a mistake, that is supposed to be..no man should dare say that to me
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
28 Mar 11
Hi akan girl: In general you shouldn't do anything that will hurt you unless is completely necessary. I think that the two examples that I have read before from the previous responses are good examples of what you shouldn't tell to a woman.
ALVARO
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
12 Apr 11
A husband should not say his wife, you look and behave like your mother, the lady may agree about the look but will oppose about the behavior certainly.
Thanks for this funny discussion
Happy posting, cheers.
Namastey.
Kalyani
@sathishkumar3660 (325)
• India
29 Mar 11
Actually i don't about speaking others unless we valid reason and important to talk about them, i see many people talking about others in their leisure time badly make stories about them and spread it all over, especially many ladies also do it.
Bad things that i think are talking about their personal life unwantedly, comparing 2 people, ugly or sexy to unknown persons, cheating them.
@justit (74)
• China
29 Mar 11
hi akangirl,
Never judge others in the public occasions. About clothes,appearance,and of course age is a big box. And take you and your sister or your good friends to compare, it looks like a sow dissension. Your sister looks more beautiful than you. Your friend is higher than you. And actually it doesn't effect me much, but it's a kind of impolite behavior.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 Mar 11
I don't think if this one fits in.
When my wife has something to say or she wanted me to comment about how she look with her dress or her new hair, I say "no comment".
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
One should never tell a woman about her imperfections. No matter how humble she is, a woman is always sensitive when it comes to her physical appearance. Too much flattery is also not good as a woman can also sense a man's sincerity when giving compliments.
In my case I'm mire sensitive to my abilities. If a man tells me I'm stupid, that really ticks me off because. Believe that nobody can tell me that I'm stupid when they don't even know me that much. I hate being judged of my mental ability and I'm very sensitive when it comes to that more than my physical appearance.