DONT be serious, be sincere

I have the same situation as your example. I'm working far away from my girlfriend because I had to. I don't have much time to spend with her but that actually is a good thing. Yeah, it causes arguments of nonsense things but I think it's just a phase. I'm getting a feeling we're almost past that because everytime I go home to my province (where she's living) it's like renewing the flame all over again. I can't describe it specifically but all I know is it's a fantastic feeling meeting your girl after a long time of being away.

This is one quote we need to live by to be able to enjoy our lives to the fullest. It's okay to take things seriously when needed but taking our lives and problems too seriously causes too much stress and strain in our lives and in our relationships. I used to be this type of person who thinks too much about work and work even on weekends and it made me feel so drained and weak after a long time of being this way. I soon realized that to be able to function more properly as an individual, I need to have fun and so I did. It's best to rejuvenate your whole self once a week or go travel out of town at least once a month. It's great also to communicate and reconnect with old friends and meet new ones.

Wise words, thinks I all the best urban

One of my friend told me some time ago ,that he was too serious about life and work,but what came to him at last was that the oppotunities didn't belong to him.Once his past friend who was a boss of a small factory had asked his girlfriend to help him with accounty.He agreed with his friend .And he was so serious with his job which took quite a lot of time ,that he had little time to see his girlfriend .When one day he received a massege from his girlfriend telling him she would had wedding with his friend in two weeks .He got angry and sad .He told me the story and said he would not be serious any longer.

Well, I think there are times when we should be serious. We all have to earn a living and we can't really do it if we're not serious about our work. But we should know when to stop. Fun is equally important, we should just find a balance between the two. I know plenty of workaholics who live for their job and forget to enjoy life. I have a friend like that and whenever we get together (which is very rare, as she's always busy) she talks about her job and nothing else.

Yah, I guess we can't have it all. There's a lot of rich people that are so unhappy and there are poor people whose happy being contented with what they have. Maybe that's how the way life goes...

There is a definite difference between being serious and being sincere. To be sincere, you have to be truthful from the heart. You can can can still do things in a serious way and hide your sincerity from the world.

I think that this is the way people should live theirs lives. Life is just too short and is very temporary. We should make the most out of it. We may lay our eyes on a certain thing but we should consider everything that may stand in between. I am not sure why people are so into one thing and so they just choose not to see the whole of it. I believe that it would be better if we give each thing its chance to be noticed. We may be surprised of the goodness it may bring.