a broken vow.....

If i love him that much i think i can always forgive on a broken vow, but it depends on how serious that broken promise is. If it's not that serious then i can give a chance again. However, if it's something that really broke my heart into pieces and made me suffer, i don't think that i can trust that person again.

how sad, so he did not fight for you then? It is his parent's you are against with, blood is at times thicker than water. but think about this, if he is meant to be yours he will be back. There is always a purpose for everything.

Hello Asliah, I think it's best to let him go, not that i want to intervene or anything. I think he feels you're dragging him to this promise for some reason. i know you two love each other but i think this broken vow has made this man think twice about risking his life with you Iknow you re undoubtly love this man but he needs to besincere. for me, he breaks it once, he will do so again, my opinion only.

It's hard to bring back the trust you gave to a who has already broke a vow or a promise to you. It's like a vase, ones it has already broken you can never bring it back to it's original form. You may pic up the broken pieces but it will be hard already. My bf has already broken his promise to me many times, but I consider those promises minor ones, so I just keep on accepting him and trying to understand and forgive him with that. After all, I do love him and I know that he also feels the same way I do. But when he promises something to me, I already have doubts and ask him not to promise but to really do what he wanted to do.

Yes sometimes people deserve another chance but in your situation as I have followed your boyfriend has had plenty of chances. Its time for you to put your foot down and become demanding. You have been compromising so far and now its time to have it your way. Tell your boyfriend and his family how you feel. Don't sit there and take his mothers lip again and tell your boyfriend its time to choose up or your leaving. Even if you won't leave or don't want too use it as a threat and see if your boyfriend switch his behavior around. Don't talk to him for a day to make his mind wonder, basically what I'm saying is stand your ground and demand what you want because when you act vunerable your not getting very far, your still upset about this situation that I have been reading about for about two weeks now.

I know what you feel right now. I do believe with these adage that "Promises are meant to be broken" that's why when someone "Promised" to me. I just accept it but I really don't expect for what they plea.

Hi. asliah. If they have lied to me before hand and then they turn around and broke a promise to me, no, I would not believe this person the next time. Two years ago, some money for my appliances got stolen from me. My dad had supposedly given this guy my money right in front of my face. Until this very day, I don't know what happened. The guy said that he never received any money from my father at all. I was right there! I was sitting in my dad's car and my dad was sitting in the driver's side. He got out of his car and went and gave this man my money. Well, this money was lost and never to be found. My dad ended up paying this money back to me, because I discovered that he was the one that had stolen and mishandled my money. He paid me back too. I have spoken to my father since then, but I don't really communicate with him like that. Now, last year he received his disability supplemental benefits. And he promised me for a long time that when he gets this money he was going to give me some of it. I told him that he was just saying that, but he kept on insisting me, that he was going to give me some money. Well it has been months since he has received his entitlement and he has not given me a dime! I am not expecting him to either. So he broke his promise to me. He lied to me first, then he broke his promise to me. I did not beg him for his money, he willingly offered to give me some on his own terms. I will never believe anymore promises that he has for me. Never. So, if this guy broke your promise to fight for you, never give into his promise or any other promises at all.

Depends on what he/she promised. If it is a lie, I would not give another chance. But if the reason is acceptable, I would.

My love had broken her promise several times.Each time,I feel so miserable and angry and hatred starts to develop.But even though there is loads of anger and hatred,I give my love another chance and go on.Besides love is all about compromise and adjustment.No matter how many times,my promises are broken,I would give another chance to my love,but also exoressing my hurt feelings to her.

asliah you are so sad these days. I understand how you feel, because if it is a promise to be with me and the person does not go the mile it would make me sad too. I do hope this can be resolved with you so that we can see the smiling and cheerful asliah again. Wishing you the best.

If someone broke a promise made to me I would first try to see if there are some objective causes that made that person break the promise,because sometimes even if you make a promise and you are determined to keep it,unexpected factors may appear and prevent you from doing that.Anyway,I think that everyone deserves a second chance in life,so even if I were disappointed I would still trust that person one more time.Of course,if the person failed to keep the promise again,my patience would also be over and I would never believe that person again.

what do you mean he will fight for you? you mean he will get into a fight and beat someone up for you? can you please clarify more into this story because I don't quite get what you mean or your situation at all. and what happened? did he just leave your life after he said he would stay with you forever? I think that is maybe what you mean. What promise did he break exactly? But anyway, yeah, people should not make promises they can't keep, or won't keep.

nice very good