what would you feel...if she didn't greet you........

Monthsary and Anniversary is important to me and my bf. It's the time where we remember the day we first we were together as one. We do only greet each other but we don't actually celebrate it. The thought of us remembering it is already something meaningful to us.

hello asliah! i do believe that if someone really loves you, they will see to it that they will never forget specially the first year/month anniversary. But there are also people who just take those moments as ordinary days which means you won't have to celebrate it, for me, monthsary can be passed not to celebrate, but if you have the budget and if you really loved your partner, you'll see to it that you, at least, greet your partner. there can also be reasons like they have been too busy that they didn't notice the date, what day it is, so, the problem takes place. there can never be a problem if one can understand and ask the other what's the reason or does he'she really forgot about it. If you would ask me, I may be sad when I came across the situation, but to my experience, i have never been to such situation. well, i can be sad at times to friends who forgot my birthday, but then on, i try to forgive and forget.

Well, monthsaries aren't really that a big deal to me, anniversaries are. Although, it is good if your partner remembered, especially the first one. If it bothers you, talk it out with your partner, but don't get upset if he isn't the type who celebrates monthsaries, maybe he'll surprise you on you anniversary.

For me its quiet important though it won't affect me that much,sometimes they were just busy and so they forgot to greet us.It would be nice of course to have a words from him/her at least it bring joy to our heart and feel the importance of that day with us. But still if he forgot to greet me then I will greet him instead and that would remind him about our anniversary/monthsary, but honestly that is not really a big deal to me as long as I know how important of me to him. In celebration? Well, I never been to it maybe when I'll get married then I would love to celebrate too, but if its just a boyfriend I guess its not merely necessary to me. Have a nice day!!

Me and my bf used to celebrate monthsarry,we go out and eat or give each others present but when we decided to live together we are not going out anymore but greet each other on our monthsarry and give a little notes or cards.Then on our first anniversarry i was in the philippines and he ordered a bouquet of flowers and stuff to be delivered to me.When i have it we were on skype and he got it on video tape,i almost shed tear coz of the effort he did :)At the moment he doesnt forget it every month. If he cant remember it its maybe it was a busy day and he was so occupied with that day.Try to send him an i love you notes and said more months/years to come for both of you and he will realized it.He might say it late but better than never right?If you do it every month/year im sure he wont forget it anymore.Besides when we love we dont expect them to do the favor back but if youll do it they will realized they have to do the same :) hope that will help :)

Hi there.. I have been with my boyfriend for over four years so for month anniversary, I don't really mind. I just would want him to say happy so and so month anniversary and that's fine. We don't have to celebrate because it's nothing new but for anniversary, I expect him to greet me + maybe a gift/hand maid card or something and in return I am expected to cook or buy something/make something too :) We celebrate monthly anniversarys sometimes, sometimes we don't, it just depends on our mood and if we have time since we both have different schedules.

I've never heard the term "monthsary" before now :) I wouldn't think anything of it if I were in a relationship for only a month and my partner didn't acknowledge it. We might mention it in passing or something, sure, but I wouldn't expect to celebrate just one month. I am more familiar with an anniversary which is, by definition, a yearly celebration. I know many relationships don't last nearly as long as they used to so maybe that's why people celebrate "monthsaries" because they don't reach as many anniversaries.

I'd be angry, of course. But then again, I forgot to greet her last December. There were a lot of things going on that's why it got left out.

I guess because the relationship is fresh we expect some sort of acknowledgment so I would be hurt and upset. Later it becomes a bit unimportant but not in the beginning we do expect some acknowledgment.

If he doesn’t greet me on our 1st monthsary and his reason is not valid I want to shout out very loud until my voice is gone so that I can’t talk to him until my voice will come back. It is also my way to make him feel how mad I am and so that he won’t do that again and to make him realize how important for us especially for us ladies to remember this event. For me it is very important to always remember your very 1st monthsary so that you will know if your partner will still remember it and it is also important that the two of you should have time to talk about each other or about your relationship and what you should do if there’s another problems that you and your partner may encounter. It is important to have a monthsary because you’ll never know it will be your last monthsary together because nowadays most relationship won’t last long. Yes it’s important to celebrate your monthsary because for me it’s a blessing that you and your partner should be thank of to all the challenges that made your relationship become more stronger, to all the unforgettable moments you have been shared together and to all the lessons that both of you had learned and do your best to make your relationship much better to avoid quarrels.

I would be super pissed! I will not talk to him for a day until he realizes it! hmph! lol! if he realizes it then1 and says sorry... then I will forgive him. But if he forgets it again.. its bye bye

It is not surprised me anymore if my husband forget to greet me on ours special occasions, I used to it anyway. When he is living with us, I always received a basket of flowers on my birthdays and our anniversaries and cooked food for family get together, but since he is in Australia, a phone call away is good enough but sometimes he almost forget it though.

I would definitely feel bad. Monthsaries are very special to me. My boyfriend and I celebrates it month after month. We always find time to do so. We usually eat out at restaurants or even at fastfoods. We really don't mind where as long as we're together.