we get hurt by people we give our hearts to...

When we give our hearts to someone we do it a lot of feeling. it is a big part of who we are. It is a distinct possibility that the person we are sharing so much with will be the one to hurt us the most.

i also believe in this, that only the people who mean a lot to us can hurt us, and sad as it may sound, they are also the one who can hurt us the most.. this is because since we care and love that person so much that we care what they think or feel about us.. this is also the same reason why we become vulnerable and get hurt. if a person doesnt mean anything to us, then whatever that person says or thinks, we wont care, so it wouldnt hurt or impact us at all.. this is true with all people we love, whether it be family, friends, or special someones..sad but true..

Well I believe this is true. The person I gave my heart too, really used me. To forget about him I moved on. Had a good friend, and after 5 months he turned into my lovers. I see it as a friendship with a little more. He thinks because we had been to bed together, he has a relationship with me. I am now his girlfriend, partner for live. As if we are married. Great!!! (This was not what I intended) I am not always nice to him. He really gets on my nerves every now and then. The harder I am to him, the nicer he is to me! I don't mean to be hard on him, he is really very sweet. As a friend I do love him. But not as a husband or a relationship as going to live together. I have been through this before in life. When I try to get rid of a guy, become hateful and uninterested. They love me more. It is terrible. When I want someone to love me, they use me. hahaha! How do you do it right?

I do agree with that. More often than not , when we allow someone to enter our hearts we allow them to hurt us, too or we are giving them the chance to hurt us. Why? Maybe, because when we love and give our heart to someone, somehow, someway we are expecting that we will also be loved and give us due treatment. But that doesn't always the case because sometimes those we loved the most are those who will betray us or will give us pain. If we do not care about a person, we do not care what he does, or think or anything that has something to do with him but when we love such person, it seems that everything about him becomes also a part of us. That's the reason why we feel so much and get affected so much.

Yes friend, i don't know why my girl friend didn't understand me on that situation. Some situations are those which we can't express our feelings they need to understand but i don't know why but she took in wrong way and she left me without saying anything which means she did hurt me alot.

so now im hurt... not because someone intended to hurt me, not in terms of love as well. im hurt because my best friend of 6 years is in Japan and we're so far from each other. what hurts more is for me to know that he is working o hard having 2 jobs just to earn money to go here. while me on the other hand is having hard times to earn.. :(