relatinship between a teacher and a student
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
April 11, 2011 4:15pm CST
we have this hot teacher...all trhe girls are crazy about him and would dream about having a relationhsip with him. and it got me thinking would this be normal? I know that legally it's not allowed for a tacher to have relationship with his students but...
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@Loner01 (64)
• United States
11 Apr 11
Well, my first hought would b: "ABSOLUETLY NOT!!." Though, then after speculating this situation I thought about it more. And as you said that it is "a rule", so maybe the whole idea of an intiment relationship between a student and teacher might just be a twisted stereotype. But then people would look down on you. So I guess it all depends on how you want to be looked at mentally. And it also depends greatly on how you approach and speculate the situation.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
12 Apr 11
I don't think it's anything wrong with it ( well it depends on the age...if the teacher it's like 60 years old..and the student 20. but than again you could also find this situations outside school).if the keep distance while they are in class and have a normal relationship from teacher to student I don't see why they should be judged
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Most of the students admire their teachers. It always happen to high school girls who got infatuated with their male teachers especially if the teachers are good looking. But to have a teacher-student relationship is not permitted in our country. Although my sister fell in love with her teacher in high school. My sister did not know that her teacher also fell in love with her and so what the teacher did was to let first my sister finish her high school and courted her. After my sister graduated from college, they got married. Well, the age difference was only 8 years.
@kris182_2000 (5469)
• Canada
11 Apr 11
You'd have to keep your fantasy to yourself, I know I did.
I had a crush on my grade 11 Law teacher when I was in high school, and I'm sure that I wasn't the only one.
I had to keep it to myself, I didn't tell many of my friends either, I was a bit embarrassed about it.
Before I dropped out of high school for personal reasons, I was hoping to take another law class with him as the teacher, but it turned out that he wasn't teaching that particular course.
I got over my crush, I had to especially once I dropped out and moved away from the city I was living in. I would have thought about it far too often if I hadn't let it go.
If you like your teacher that much, don't tell anyone, you don't want anyone to think that he's doing something to the girls and be barred from teaching.
@sona22 (1430)
• India
13 Apr 11
I think there are two stages, one is the classes where students are under 18 and another is above 18. I find no fault or wrong between a relation of a student and a teacher. In my country in college many teachers joined at a very young age (25+) and the average age of the students are above 19. Many students have married their teachers and all have taken it easily.
But if it happens when student is under 15, then it is not fair.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
In a between a teacher and a student. I don't see anything wrong. Since there is a regulation in the school, regarding that matter. It is prohibited but not violating any laws...because that is love.
If they can show to the school premises about their relationship. It maybe a violating the rule of the school but if they can't nothing will be wrong
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
11 Apr 11
Students spend a lo of their day with a teacher. It often happens that a student will fantasize about a teacher. It is healthier for the student and the teacher if it remains just a fantasy.