when will end a heart broken???
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
April 12, 2011 11:02am CST
do you know how to end this feeling heart broken???
do you think heart broken could end when you become a single or when you found another lover again???
some people choose to be a single to avoid this feeling heart broken and some of them end it when they find someone to love again.some people are contented to be a single and some of them much more contented when they have to love again.
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@sender621 (14890)
• United States
12 Apr 11
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
12 Apr 11
You are so right Sender! You left me without words. I would add that we can fill our heart with some other kind of love that will help heal it. Like children love, pets love, parents love, family love, God´s love, friends love. And love to ourselves, you can practice a sport, have a hobby, make studies. This will all help you to grow up, and feel happy again. What do you think?
Blessings!...
Dainy
@mine2008 (107)
• Philippines
2 May 11
it's simply let her go accept the fact that we are just a human that have feelings.to be hurt makes us tough just go with the flow. let it out don't afraid to cry
@jazzglen (20)
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13 Apr 11
Mending a broken heart takes a lot more time to heal. I think, it's up to the person whether he would want to dwell on the problem or let go and move on. Finding someone to love as a replacement is a surefire way that the next relationship may not be successful just because you wanted to fill a void. When you love it has to be for the right reasons, otherwise it's bound to be a failure.
@gorila (186)
• Indonesia
1 May 11
how to remove a broken heart is to continue doing useful and as much as possible to spend time with friends and family.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
13 Apr 11
Time seems to be the best way to get over a broken heart. For me I don't even try to get one again! Mostly because I rather be lone then be with some who will drive me crazy and probaly use me! I once wanted to be married and all that crap. Not anymore! This way I will never be hurt again! I have been hurt to much as it is!
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
12 Apr 11
When you have your heart broken, you will always need to take the tiime for it to heal again. There are not hard and fast rules as to get over a broken heart though. I have learned that just time will heal it. In the past, I have made a ton of time for me and my family and friends (and stated doing things that may have been put on the back burner while with the ex) And I never jumped in to something else just to end the hurt...that only causes more hurt in the end.
@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
heartache is really difficult to deal with. recent studies show the human brain (through MRI)reacts to emotional pain the same way it does to physical pain. Physical or emotional, the brain acknowledges it as painful.
I guess to treat a broken heart, one needs to heal first. time, they say, heals so give it time. Also, our bodies need nourishment to heal properly so eat well and healthy. Next, divert attention to meaningful and productive things. Find a hobby or craft. Talk to family and old friends. Finally, when one has regained wellness and self love, it's the time to be open to a new relationship.
@toniganzon (72549)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
Broken hearted is something that i don't ever want to experience again. For me it's more painful than giving birth or getting a tattoo. It consumes you and your whole well being and it's the longest to heal.
One friend of mine have stayed single until now and he had his heart broken ten years ago which is quite a long time. I don't blame him at all and well it's his choice. In fact as of the moment he's not thinking of getting married but i do wish that someday he will be able to find one for him.
Others find it easier to move on if they found another love which is a love on the rebound. I don't agree with that though because sometimes it doesn't succeed and you end up hurting another person too.
@brianneleary19 (76)
• United States
12 Apr 11
There's really no way to just "end" the feeling of being heartbroken. It usually takes a considerable amount of time.
When my first love ended things with me, it took me months to even consider moving onto someone else. Even when I went through a "rebound" guy, I still thought of him. When you really love someone, sometimes even if you try your hardest to get over the heart break, it can still take a long time.
I guess some people prefer to be single because they aren't committing themselves to a specific person, so they also aren't committed to possibly getting their heart broken.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
whenever i get heart broken and ask the comfort of my friends, they often debate whether "the pain really heals" or "i just get used to the pain to the point that im not bothered by it". if you ask me, im still confused when this feeling of pain from a broken heart ends. but i can say that i have fully recovered from that pain whenever i don't get affected on what happens to my ex's life. whether he has a new girl or not, it doesn't bother me that much and i dont get insecure as well.
@maunesrockford92078 (305)
• Philippines
12 Apr 11
Well to ease a broken heart you must love again as the saying goes, but anyway being heart broken only means one thing, you're getting mature one step at the time in your love relationships, you're making discoveries that is beneficial for you.
@keishairvin (49)
• United States
12 Apr 11
when it comes to a broken heart, it take time. Time heals all wounds. Try hanging with someone who keeps your mind off that person. Constantly thinking about lost love make you feel more depressed. Good luck
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Apr 11
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