to what point will you give up??????
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
April 15, 2011 10:16am CST
in life we have many hindrances and obstacles we face,especially in love,some people kill there life or suicide due to heart broken and couldn't accept it. in the world of love,to what point will you give up????will you sacrifice more and give more effort before you give up or you easily give up because you're tired enough?
giving up doesn't mean that your weak or tired enough,but giving up means also to realize the truth that it just up there.
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12 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
In love, giving up is really not a bad thing to do. We are only humans, we also feel tired and feel like giving up from all the pains and hardships that we have given out to our partner. but before we do, we should make sure that we have really given everything and given our best for the relationship before we actually give up. We have to think twice and even a million times before we give up for we might regret it in the end. At least you know you have tried your best to make the relationship really work.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
I foot think i would want to stay longing a relationship where i would have more worries than comfort.
If the relationship proves to be in such a bad shape then i think there is on rogue in continued heartache, we just might end us hurting each other more than we should.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
For me it depends on what I am fighting for, if its for my loved ones like my family, I will fight till the end. No matter how painful or difficult it will be, if its for my loved ones or if its something that will make them happy then I will not give up. But I will definitely for God's guidance and help to keep me stronger.
But sometimes, we just have to give up some people in our life (in case of bf/gf) coz some are just not worth fighting for. Now, if they will also fight for me, then I will fight with him, but if its only me who want to keep the relationship, or I am the only one fighting, well I will just be tired and it will just waste my precious time that I can use to do better things and spend with the right person.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
well in that matter it depends. it depends if the relationship is worth my sacrifice, if it's not then why should i waste my time to give more effort. Maybe it's hard, its not easy but, should move on and let it go.
@dannyeltoro (22)
• United States
16 Apr 11
It all depends on the circumstances and the way you and your partner are. When it is only you two, it aint as complicated as when you have kids together for it ain't just affect your life but others. To first know when a relationship shall end, you first have to know when it starts and what complimments it; respect, love, loyalty, communicacion, fainess and many others things. When one is missing, you should try to gain it back-if it was there in the first place-if you can't solve it and keep loosing what bounds a real "relationship" then, the question shall be, "what are you letting go? is it still there what you seek or what you thought it was still there?"...Break ups, limits, it all depends on the person itself is willing to risk. Sometimes is good to persist to whom you love, but sometimes it aint. It all has its good and bad side..Many life for love, but other die of it...depends on the reasonning you might have...is it worth keeping it?or is it worth having the option to keep trying to find what you seek somewhere else?
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
16 Apr 11
There have been times when I said I wanted to give up, but I never have. Now that I have my children I can never give up. They are my world, my whole reason for being. I think that in life you just have to keep pushing forward. Even those days when I am down, I just remind myself that I have two beautiful babygirls that need me. Life is about obstacles, and we all face them everyday, its just about keeping your head up and forging on.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
15 Apr 11
I am a true fighter and that fighting for me means I do not give up until I am fully satisfied I have done enough. Sometimes that giving up can be quite easily but I delineate that with my weighing out if it is a positive and or negative aspect in my life. Having lived a life I can find that what is right for me may not be right for others. So I have to use my own judgments.
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
16 Apr 11
I think the love between a man and a woman is bidirectional,that's the point.
If he has never given you true love or he's never loved you any longer,you have to give up though maybe you have sacrified a lot for him,you cannot fancy that you can win his love again.Now you have to give up.
@Sydalg242811 (380)
• Baguio, Philippines
16 Apr 11
Halu asliah,
i will do anything for love,but if doesn't work at all,why i can stay for a non sense relationship,move on,life is beautiful and love find everywhere. unless they took my kids from me,i assume you my world and love totally breakdown and it's gonna kill me. my kids are my ETERNAL LOVE.
thanks
GOD BLESS