What do you do when you get some bad gift? how react?
By kwylima
@kwylima (451)
United States
April 16, 2011 7:16pm CST
I know that gifts we cannot reject and it is always a nice attitude from the person who is giving you something. I love when somebody gives me presents in my b-day...
But I mean sometimes some people come up with some thing that you really hate! I know many stories of friend who got something that they didn't like and they could't hide it.
for example my friend hates yankees team. and he got a yankkes t-shirt, so his reaction was not so good...I mean somethings are so bad that we cannot be happy about!
about you? what is gonna be your reaction if it happens to you?
thanks for share!
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17 responses
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
i still smile and show appreciation, although i know it myself that either i didn't like the gift or i already have something like it. of course i dont want to hurt the feeling of the one who gave it to me. but the fact that i was given a gift regardless if i liked it or not, now that's what i should appreciate deep within and be thankful :)
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
17 Apr 11
I accept a gift in the intention that it was given. A gift is given from a giver's heart and it should be received in that way too. it truly is the thought that counts and not the gift itself. Even if i was not that pleased with a gift I would not insult the giver by letting them see my disppointment. i would just accept the gift in gratitude.
@martinnshann (340)
• Bahrain
17 Apr 11
Hi there!
Every christmas season we're having christmas party and do exchanging of gifts. i was picked by one of our maintenance crew during exchange gift, when I open it i was upset deep inside but I'm trying to smile for not him to get hurt. When the party ends, I saw the gifts of my co wrkers and it was nice..most of them.. I go back to room and see again my gift, it was really not my type. I'm not contented of it. But I have nothing to do with it. I only give it to the kids in our town.
@grazmaniandevil (379)
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17 Apr 11
Ever since my first year in High School experience, When I had to give a gift durign christmas.. I really did not know much about the person unfortunately for me, he was the One I picked. So I gave him an alarm clock and obviously he kept hiding it and was very pissed. I was so hurt that I had to spend that money in the end he hated it but it was also my fault.. Since then, I never looked at gift-giving the same way as it is. I realized now that its the thought that counts.. It's better to have a gift than picturing myself not having one at all. Guess, it was God's mysterious way in teaching me (:
@ANT561able (9)
• United States
17 Apr 11
you shouldnt reject it no mater how....ugly,distasteful,not needed it is
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
as years goes by i've learned the art of smiling and thanking and appreciating gifts no matter if i like it or not. why? because i find buying gifts very stressful. i suck in buying gifts too so i understand if i get something that means they had a hard time thinking what they will get for me. if ever i get something that i dont like i keep it until my wife nags about it har har har... that the things i dont use has to go.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
For me I get angry and whole my life get confuse of all the gift I ever had is bad.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
17 Apr 11
I just appreciate the thought of giving me a gift, yes it counts. However I would admit the fact that there are times I still have my violent reaction when it comes to gifts that I don't really like. Of course I just hide it to myself regarding my negative reactions on my gift. That is why what I am doing is that I am giving it to other people or just keep it if I don't really like it.
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
17 Apr 11
Get bad gift.
don't react as i think we should respect others and if we don't like gift then we should not react. I just take them very easily and try to forget the things.
Have a good time!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Apr 11
I have received a few things in the past I could not used and or did not know what to do with them. So not really re-gifting but gave them to people who could use them. I believe I have always shown appreciation even if I did not like them, but again saved them for a while until I knew someone could use them.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Apr 11
I will react as much fake as I can, poor friend or beloved one that bought me the present I would think. They had a good intention. I received my share of bad gifts in my life and I faked well.
I remember how I would wear a terrible shirt my mom gave me for 2 years until she go to Japan, when she went I put the shirt in the back of the wardrobe and never wore it again, then I came here and conveniently "forgot the shirt", LOL. She had such a good intention, I don't think we can hurt someone by not likeing a present :)
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
If I got a gift that I do not like I will thank the giver. Its the thought that counts. What I usually do is to keep that gift until I need it to give to somebody who might need it or love to have it more than I do. It leaves my giver the sense of happiness that he has given me a gift and also allows me to share something that I don't need.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
17 Apr 11
When I was pregnant with number three my sister in law bought me a couple maternity shirts. Now I am a jean and t-shirt girl a hoodie or sweater all plain maybe some cables sort thing. The one shirt she got me looked like flowered curtains from the 1950s. i could have vomited as I said that's no where near my style. I played it off beautifully. My mother and cousin later actually asked if I actually like the shirt as I played it off so well they thought I might actually have liked it..lol, she never knew and I gave it to the woman's shelter where I hope someone who needed it got use out of it.
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
17 Apr 11
A gifts is a gift, whether I like it or not, of course, I received it and keep it for remembrance. It is not compulsory to used it anyway.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
17 Apr 11
I wouldn't blame the guy for not liking the Yankees shirt. Everyone knows sports fans can be really serious about their team. But I never show it when I don't like a gift. It's really the thought that counts for me. And I hate it when I try so hard to get a good gift and someone complains about it.