jealous

@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
April 17, 2011 9:20am CST
had you ever experience get a lover who always be jealous with you? she always ask you if you had another woman even you had convinced her that you only love her??
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 11
Many people say, jealousy is a sign of love. So jealous was common. There is jealousy, there is love.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 May 11
Of course quite normal, because jealousy is a natural thing, which is felt by people who really love their partner.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 May 11
really?? do you think a unnormally jealous is love??
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
16 May 11
normal if love make us happy..but jealous make our love is not good, why you call that?
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
Are you talking about me? Lol.. I am a really jealous type of girlfriend. It's just because me and my bf are in a long distance relationship and it's so hard to really trust someone especially if that someone has broke that trust before. I keep on insisting he has another girl where he is now and he keeps on telling me that i am wrong. Well i may be wrong, but his actions sometimes do tell me that he is with another girl. I may be fortunate enough that I know most of the people he is with now so they can actually tell me what's going one. But still I am not contented with that. It's really much better if we were near.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 May 11
really? why you did not believe what he said? give him a time to show that he is seriously with you
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
6 May 11
Sometimes, it's just so hard to believe someone you don't really get to see. That's why long distance relationships are hard. But, yeah I am giving him time to really show that he is indeed true.
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 11
Hello adhyz82..... :D Yes i had an experience like that with my ex.. but thats no problem cos he was my boyfriend at that time.. but the annoying thing is there was some guys that always jealous with my boyfriend... they keep talking sweet words to get my attention, even i already have a boyfriend.. i dont even like them and always ignore their phone calls and messages, i even deleted them from my phonebook... they said that they missed me so much and asked me to break up with my boyfriend... ckckck, useless playboy, they only wasted my time... good day... :)
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 May 11
wow...that was a good girl... it was annoying of course..sometimes it makes our concentration to work is not good.. so had you ever told to your boyfriend that many men always send you messge? and what is your boyfriend reaction?
• Japan
19 Apr 11
jealous is always good if not too much,that mean is need it to show how much you care and love each other,but getting jealous too much will be terrible thing at last,I got story about it I was love my husband too much but i am not sure if he does the same thing to me,so I keep asking did you love me even I start seeing his Email and phone, i worry too much and we start arguing each other till we both tired and get break out,but then I realize what the point if I have to lose him if I know for sure that I love him as he does,after two years we back again and now we love and trust each other and try to handle our jealous itself,what i like to say is jealous is good thing if not too much,.thank you
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 May 11
i really agree with you...jealous is needed but in normal..if too much, jealous can break our work focus and many more..
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
2 May 11
hi, i have but not so much a jealous guy,just a little bit only and i am the one who will act like that,i get jealous easily with my lover.and thats what i am trying to remove in my attitude.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 May 11
you must remove your attitude..it was not good if you had unnormally jealous...
18 Apr 11
Well, this is something very common about love. Most of the people I know are facing this problem. My boyfriend also ask me this question very often, but I understand him well that he just wanna feel sure about our relationship.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
16 May 11
so what is your answer??
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
18 Apr 11
I really have not had anyone to be jealous over me. I really haven't gave them a reason to even think I would have eyes for another person.
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 11
Hello adhyz82..... :D Yes i had an experience like that with my ex.. but thats no problem cos he was my boyfriend at that time.. but the annoying thing is there was some guys that always jealous with my boyfriend... they keep talking sweet words to get my attention, even i already have a boyfriend.. i dont even like them and always ignore their phone calls and messages, i even deleted them from my phonebook... they said that they missed me so much and asked me to break up with my boyfriend... ckckck, useless playboy, they only wasted my time... good day... :)
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
19 May 11
Jealousy, is, of hate for someone to emulate with others in his rights, and it is one result of love. So there is no ealousy except for those that love. And jealous that includes the nature that good and noble part, either in men or women.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
13 May 11
As always, I believe that bouts of jealousy are only temporary, short periods, in most cases can be aroused from a diffuse perception, ambiguous and insufficient human and may their actions, the discontent caused by the evolution of selfish qualities success or loved one, deep feeling of resentment, resulted in personal rebellion, revenge and acid while unfounded, feeling the end of the world ...
• Indonesia
20 May 11
I'm married now. But still, sometimes my wife feel jealous with me :D Especially when it turns out the topic talking (or just mentioning) about my-ex. So, what do I do? Well, I'd try hard to avoiding the topic when we were together. That's all. :)
@neenie (343)
• United States
17 Apr 11
My boyfriend is pretty good about not getting jealous. He doesn't really like me talking to my ex's, but that's pretty understandable. The ex's that he knows pretty well, he doesn't have too much of a problem with. My ex's that he doesn't know or trust are the ones that worries him. I'm also not too jealous. If they want him, they can have him :) Just kidding, but I do trust him. He kind of flirts a lot without meaning to, but I think it's just because he's a nice guy. He'll hold the door for other women and call them things like "hunny" or "sweetie". I'll be with him and notice them getting all flustered with his nice behavior... and he doesn't even realize it! Like we'll be out somewhere and he'll hold the door for someone and be like "after you, sweetie" and I'll watch them give him a double look. But he doesn't even notice it. He does it a lot with waitresses too. It doesn't even bother me because he doesn't realize how he is being plus he doesn't realize he is "flirting". It's just his nature coming out and there aren't too many nice guys out there anymore. Plus, he still comes home with me at night :)
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
16 May 11
iam so jealous when read your experience..it`s good when you and your couple trust each other...if love is full with of jealous, is not good..
• Bulgaria
17 Apr 11
I am in that possition right now and I am getting sick of it to tell you the truth. Only thing keeping me with my girlfriend is that I really love her. She always says that she is gonna change but no change for now :) her excuse is that before we got together I was a bad boy and dated lots of girls and I cant simply change my nature. But I did it for her and she doesnt believe me. Why girls are such b.... sometimes I dont know :)
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 May 11
it was hurt..we never change our feeling but she is alwyas jealous..i dont know how to react.. sometimes it makes me angry but i can not be angry with her
@iPHaze (27)
• United States
19 Apr 11
No. but ive been on the other side of the table, im one who gets jelous very easily. Yet it seems its just becuse ive been heart broken way to many times.
• Mexico
17 Apr 11
HI adhyz: I haven't. Thank God for that. But I used to have a best friend and she was so jealous. SHe keeps on calling her boyfriend. She also had his passwords so she enter her email to read his inbox. I think she does this because she was really insecure. ALVARO