How do you control your emotion when your love ones died?
By Grace
@valleyofberaca (299)
Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
April 20, 2011 2:08pm CST
Guys! my boss is one of the tough woman I have met. But today, it was my first time to see her crying.
I heard that her aunt died yesterday. Her mother was so sad, but never cry.
But, today her mother was admitted to the hospital, because of high blood pressure.
Then, after 4 hours inside the hospital, the doctor cannot revive her mother, and now her mother died also.
The sad part is that tomorrow is my boss' birthday. I give her water in order for her to stop crying for a while.
I'm afraid because she has also a high blood pressure. If she can't control her emotion, I don't know what will happen next.
About you, How do you control your emotion when your love ones died?
6 responses
@valleyofberaca (299)
• Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
21 Apr 11
I think there is no magic solution with that. The first thing that we should do is to be with positive people, who can uplift and give encouraging words. In that way, we can easily move on to the emotions that we felt.
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
It maybe because she is very close to her. Losing someone close to us is not that easy to accept right away. I also experienced that..
Happy mylotting!
@valleyofberaca (299)
• Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
21 Apr 11
Yes, my boss' mom lives in her house, that's why losing her is a very painful in her part.
@valleyofberaca (299)
• Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
21 Apr 11
Indeed! And i believe that whatever we have now, it's not permanent, sooner or later it will be taken from us.
But the memories still there, that's why nothing lost in us.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
21 Apr 11
Sorry to hear of the losses your boss has had.
I am one who will shed tears instantly as it is part of my emotions to do so right away. Then I find that once I release I can think a bit clearly and take control of the situations. It is normal in my opinion to release and let it out. I would not want to hold in and cause an emotional melt-down leading to health issues later.
Although I can be sad and perhaps still tear for the loved one who has passed I find that fairly quickly though I can take a bit of control to set forth any furthering of necessary plans.
@valleyofberaca (299)
• Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
25 Apr 11
Thank you for your response!
Indeed! We need to release our feelings, and move on from the situation after that.
And we are the one will take control of our emotions.
@gloria14r (67)
• India
21 Apr 11
Thats so nice to hear that you are so emotional and concerned about someone who had been quite rigid with you. Aside from the obvious, i must say it is really so hard to digest the fact that someone you love no more exists in this world. Its an overwhelming fact, but there is no other way, for any other person, but to move on gradually as the days go by. There is at least hope that one would always get to see their loved ones, one day, for sure.
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
20 Apr 11
To be honest, there isn't any way to control my emotions. The only person that can control my emotions is myself. I'd rather cry a water fall in my bed then go about life like nothing happened. To me it's better to realize and release every emotion just so I don't have to deal with it later.
@valleyofberaca (299)
• Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
21 Apr 11
Indeed! we are the one who can control our self. So that after all our cry, no more tears will shed, because we burst out all our emotion.
