Ignored Once, Twice, Thrice... What Would You Do?

Hi dear Sids! Still have time to reply to your post,lol! So far,haven't experienced it yet,but there was an instance where mine was skipped by the starter but was replied the other day,lol! But I do understand it as sometimes I do it too,lol! There are just really some where there's a need to reply to them at once for some reasons. If it's from a friend,I guess I'd feel sad and somewhat jealous about it. Questions arise like why did he/she didn't reply to my comment..Is he/she mad at me..Is there something wrong with my comment that made her/him ignore it? I guess I will still continue replying to the post but twice or even thrice ignorance to my comment is different and alarming already,since he/she's a friend,I will definitely pm him/her and ask why. See yah dear Sids!

Hi thesids, I almost missed this because I took a bit of time-out today. Well, when I notice that kind of thing, I give another chance and after that, I sort of gave up. Not a very good method, but that's all the patience I have, to be honest Sometimes, I do pop back in on another discussion if it is interesting to me, but that's very rare.

Hi thesids! I can understand your point very well because I faced this situation once with a mylotter. The lotter was rather is a very nice person and writes very well, however some misunderstanding or say communication gape occurred and to my dismay the lotter started ignoring my responses and did not comment, while the lotter would post comments on others' responses. The lotter mercilessly deleted me from friends' list. I sent another request but that was also rejected. Finally, I had to quit answering that mylotter's post. I still feel very bad about this because I lost a good friend. I think if a mylotter is indifferent to you, you will have to but stop posting responses to his/her posts. PS - (Due to some reasons, I won't like to mention the name of the mylotter here).

Hi mamu I am quiet rigid in this issue.. just for twice, then i am not to post response to his/her discussions because i have enough discussions to respond. And yes, if a mylotter is not responding to my at least 10 discussions then i am not to visit him/her anymore. i am here for friendship only not to earn, you better know. have a nice day.

dear sids, Sorry for this late response from me (i know you understand) Actually i am very keen with this. I always respond to newbies who keep starting new topics. Then,if i found that this mylotter is not giving comments back to my response or never participate with my topic...i take note with that mylotter and i don't response to his/her topics again. I've met few mylotters who are like that. They keep posting topics but never care to response back to comments. And don't even participate to any of your topics either. More annoying is,when that mylotter give response to all comments and skip your response... ohhhh...so much to take down and observe here. But,yes,i don't inter-act with mylotters who doesn't care to inter-act with my topic. have a great weekend and enjoy

In most of the discussion were i participate, I am always ignored, usually those people are collectors, but now I have a strategy to be not ignored. I will respond to people who seemed to like the topic so much and talk tot hat person instead. in other words, i tried talking to friends who participated. There are times that I know that the topic starter have grudge againts me, so I guess if they dont need my comment I will just ignore their topics no matter how good it is but sometimes, trying to talk to people who responded tot hat discussion is a good strategy to get in.

Bhai! Just because I don't comment back Does Not Mean you are ignored! All it means is that you said it so well , I have nothing to add. Please don't Ever think I would Ever ignore you.

Hi chhotu, This happened to me too. And I made an issue of it. Those lotters who were knowingly not commenting on my responses I asked what was wrong in my response. and the debate went on. And finally they realized their fault. Chhotu, I can stand anything but not ignored. And interestingly I know them with with a single response or comment. There are some and they are friend too but I no longer response their discussion. Ekhaneo Lokpal Bill lagai ki?

Sometimes, the starter may just think that there's nothing they can add to your comment. I wouldnt really take it personally, it happens to me all the time where I'll post something really useful, and then get no follow up. I'm also not very good at keeping track of what I have posted, so often I forget to check and I am sure there are people that I should maybe have responded to, but didnt get around to. I'd just keep typing. as long as you're posting constructive comments, you're still going to get return from ML. Good luck.

It is happen with me. I take it a routine thing. We don't know what is problem with the lotter so he/she is not commenting on our respond. If some one always comments in few words or one line it not possible to continue discussion.

hi sweetie. If that ever happens to me, i will ignore it and never respond to another discussion again. The last thing i will ever do on this planet is wonder or beg for anything. It makes one old. I'll just move on.

I don't like being ignored. So, when somebody doesn't respond to my comment, I get that he/she doesn't want to talk to me, and, especially if I notice that I'm the only who didn't get answered, then I won't comment in any of his/her discussions again. I can take a hint. Also, when I read discussions and notice that the person who started it doesn't answer all the comments, I do not comment on that discussion and make a mental note to not participate in any of that person's discussions. People may say that I'm being silly over it, but, in my case, when I start a discussion, I answer everyone's comments out of courtesy. Even when I disagree with their comments, I still answer back and diplomatically, too.

There are times when i would not respond to that comment not but not because i am singling out that person but because what that person has said was just a repetition of what the others have said already. Or when i just see no point in responding. As you've noticed and probably you know me well by now, i am not the type of mylotter who would just respond and say thank you for your response and that's it. But if I have sensed that this mylotter is intentionally singling me out, I think i would just ignore it and continue on responding to his discussions when they are worth responding to and if i feel wicked, i would never respond to his comment in my discussions too.

Hi sid I guess i will just ignore this and do my normal stuff. I will continue responding if i have any interest in his/her topic just like other discussions. I guess i had faced this one before not sure. ( not remember ).. But will be sad if you do the same thing..

I dont care if people respond to me. I leave them comments because I want to but I do not expect them to respond to me. I dont keep track of who leaves me replies to the comments I have left on their discussions. I try to reply back to everyone who leaves a comment on my discussions but I cant always come up with something.

I dont feel that much thesids. Generally people do respond to me. But I reckon..something I mentioned must be too similar or vitually the same as something another person has mentioned before me. I dont expect the discussion starter to rephrase the same answer 'n" number of times just to be polite. We need new inputs, and it is incumbent on me to read through the previous responses, and the responses to the previous responses. In general, if I do have something new to add, or I do provoke the person, people do respond... and it does lead to interesting debate... as you already know we had with bingskee.. :)

ho can enjoy being ignored? it jut belittle you and make you feel regret. Ignoring in relationhip jut bring depair.

Your responses and comments are always very good thesids, and sometimes it is difficult to add something or to comment back. You can impress some mylotters. When you respond for the first time to a member, you don't know if he/she will respond or not. Many new members are just starting discussions and don't give any return. If everybody was commented and not me, I would give a second chance to the member if he/she starts another discussion interesting for me, and if I still don't receive a comment, I will never respond again to a discussion from this member. Anyways, it is better to have no comment than that happened to me two days ago, when responding for the first time to a member. I was disagreeing with the discussion, and I have been flamed... and reported by this member. It seems that some lotters don't know that a discussion is made... to discuss !

dear sid, world is big and round. it never stops. it rotates and rotates and rotates. it stops for nothing and nobody. If you feel anybody ignore just leave it and go a head. you will find more interesting friends.

Hello,theSids!If I noticed such a strange attitude from the discussion starter towards me I would be a little puzzled,but I don't think I would take any action;I would simply ignore that person.Of course,that doesn't mean that I wouldn't like to know the exact reason of that behaviour,especially if that person should have no reason to treat me like that,but I wouldn't give him or her the satisfaction to be contacted by me.I would simply ignore that person and that's it,end of the line,unless that lotter finally decides to break the ice and decides to contact me and offer me some explanations.