Love or Career?

Just like love career is also an import part in life. For love looing our carrier will give some pains in long run. I am a person who gave up my career for love (to get married) At early stage it was so convenient. But now little by little i feel sorry for giving up my career.

Even if we are not 100% sure that my bf and I are not meant to be, I believe that my bf will be happy with wherever my career is taking me. I believe in a relationship, both should be helping each other reach and aim for their goals and should be happy with it. for it is however for their future if ever they will be together as planned by God.

Well, personally a person can have both Love and a Career. It is just how they choose to allow God to use them in both directions and what is their passion from there on as well. I know I have Love, and working towards my main Career goal which is owning my own successful business. I know with Gods help both things get stronger and things will happen as well.

I grew up believing that I wanted to go through medical school when I grew up because I wanted to be a pediatrician. However, when I met the man that is now my husband, I knew that I was looking for the wrong thing in my life. Instead, at that moment I knew that what I really needed in my life was to love and be loved. We've been together for nine years now and married for nearly the last seven and I couldn't imagine my life being any different than it is right now.

I think when you're still young, love always comes first. Specially if you have a good education tucked in you pocket. You can always make a good career anywhere. As you grow older, you would think that career would come in front because you have love taken cared off. Then you realize that the best careers would require you to move to different cities, and then you can't do it easily because of family.

If Career, there is a future Love.... but if Love, there could be never Career

When I was in my teens I set out to become a professional musician as I had trained all my childhood as a pianist. I had a girlfriend at the time and we had become quite close. A well-paid job came up in a town about 200 miles away and I didn't want to leave and my girlfriend didn't want me to go, but my Dad encouraged me to apply for the job as the money was much better than what I could get if I stayed local. I applied and got it no problems and within weeks I had left my home town. It didn't work out with my girlfriend anyway for many reasons, and I was pleased that I had got the job. I couldn't see it at the time, but I can see now that what was meant to be, would be and I wasn't meant to be with that girlfriend as we had planned. Also if I hadn't meant to have that job, I wouldn't have got it, because competition on a nationwide scale was quite fierce, yet the band I auditioned with, still preferred my style of playing etc. Since then, I have become a therapist and Zen practitioner and have understood the value of going with the flow and that we cannot know what's in the future, because it doesn't yet exist. I am now happily married and wouldn't change my wife for the world. I no longer work in the music business, but I would get fully supported if I chose to do so..._Derek

Just like love carrier is also an import part in life. For love looing our carrier will give some pains in long run. I am a person who gave up my career for love (to get married) At early stage it was so convenient. But now little by little i feel sorry for giving up my carrier.

Oh Boy! Well when you meet the right person, believe me you will know right away. It will not take months to figure out if you are destined. I got married years ago and I felt like you do now and that marriage fell apart. I did meet the one that I was destined to be with recently. I also new her years ago. Do not rush anything. But remember, if it is the right one, you will know.

My husband came in my life when i have the opportunity to finish school and have a good life after wards, But to be married is also another to choice to chose, and i did consider God's wisdom for He's thoughts are higher than mine, and so i ask Him and the answer was i will have to get married and i know i did the right thing, although i did not finish my studies yet, but i still have that goal to acquire education in the future if circumstances permits, and i don't care what people say as long as i follow God's will. Now if you wanted to follow what God wanted for you, you better ask Him in faith, ask Him through fasting and Prayer, that is how i did, if you follow His will with faith in Him, and i know that won't be easy, i know everything will turn out to be good in you. A family is ordained of God. do what is right.

Maybe I'm a tough girl. But for me, nothing is more important than my career, nothing. Who can say he is my true love? Who can be sure we will not have a fight and we end and I have ruined my career? And if he is my true love, I'm not interested on being a housewive at all, I want suceed on my own, not relying on someone else. And two careers, means a better future for possible kids.

I believe that both love and career is important and can be achieved at the same time. I think that if the person really loves you, he or she accepts all of you and want nothing but the best for the relationship. Both of you should understand what is important for the your partner, we must learn to compromise without losing sight as to what really matters. You certainly dont want to wake up one day filled with regrets as to not have pursued what you want and hate your partner for it.. Talking and being honest with each other can help work out your relationship.