Will you live according to the situation or according to your wish?
By lou_is
@lou_is (665)
India
April 22, 2011 2:54pm CST
Friends, if we want to live in this society then its necessary for us to live according to the situation, i guess. But there are few people who never cares about others just they will live according their wish even without thinking of others. Certain situations makes us to do according to the situation but few people won't think about that just they will do according to their wish. What is your opinion about this?
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11 responses
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
24 Apr 11
Well personally the way I see things, is a lot of times it really often depends on what the situation is in life, and which is Best for you. Because many times it the situation is not always the Best for you, it might be better to live according to your wish and hope for the Best from there. Also having a relationship with God can help with any situation or wish in life as well.
@lou_is (665)
• India
29 May 11
If we go according to the situation then sure there won't be that much of problems as if we go according our wish. Because if we go according to the situation then surely we will know how to behave and do conversation especially on that situation. If we go according to our wish then it may create so many problems which makes head ache to us.
@mylabn (38)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
I used to live before according to the situation. But it only led me to a not-very-happy life. It was so depressing. Then I tried to live according to my wish. It gave me happiness, but only temporary. I took for granted those who loved me to a point that I was hurting them. Now, I have learned to balance my life. I will do what I want in such a way that nobody will get hurt or affected in a negative way. Of course, we cannot please everyone, but we cannot let the situation dictate our lives.
@lou_is (665)
• India
29 May 11
That is really good now because you learnt so many things in our life and please friend i can give you advise don't feel bad, life is to learn and from that we can adopt so many things in our life so try to adopt those things which is good for the society as well as for you. Don't ever you feel that you know everything and no need of suggestions from any one which makes you to create so many problems in your life.
@picjim (3002)
• India
23 Apr 11
I live according to the situation.My reaction depends on the situation I am placed in and how my fellow beings are situated.There is no point in deciding on our own as our decision has a bearing on those around us.I feel we will let down those around us if we decide as we want always as they might be adversely affected by our decision.
@sathishkumar3660 (325)
• India
23 Apr 11
Each and every one likes to live according to their wish and be happy. I also like to live according to my wishes but we can't live according to our wishes always. If we live according to our wish always and don't mind the situation means it will be only a temporary happiness for us. We should always try to adjust our self according to the situation, if we do this we can be more happy than our individual wish.
@valleyofberaca (299)
• Khaimah, United Arab Emirates
23 Apr 11
I had an experience in which I don't like to stay with my in laws. But I have to, because my hubby wants us to stay there to make me know better his family.
I don't like the situation there. I told to myself, I wish I could get out from this place.
after a few months I go back to town, and find a job.
For me, it's okay to go with the flow of the situation, but don't let the situation brings you to regrets. If you wish for something, you have to decide and make a move to get out from the situation.
@lou_is (665)
• India
29 May 11
Friend some times we have to go according to the situations and some times we need to according to our wish. But in your case i think you did well because if i am in your place then sure i will also do the same thing. I hate such kind of situations and i don't want to face them again.
@spockers (221)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
In reality, we had to live according to the situation we had in our lives. We can do nothing but to live in our situation in life. Wishing to be in lives that we what to have is like a dream that we had to pursue. All of us want to live in that way that we dream to be. But somehow in reality, not almost thing we want to have, we can get it. Wishing to have a dream living in the palace most likely be the dream of every simple people. But it just a dream, we must effort to success and live almost likely on our dreams in life.
@lou_is (665)
• India
29 May 11
But friend some times i feel that why i need to think about others and should go according to the situation why not according to my wish? even i tried that one. I know that we means human beings are not 100% correct in all the works. Some times we may do mistakes and face worst situations. On that moment if we go according to our wish without listening the others then it may leads to a bad things in our life rather than this, if we go according to the situation then surely there will be a way to come out of that critical condition.
@misterMR (796)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
Hello 
!It is really essential for us to live according to what we want in life, but the amount of workforce done should be the same, that is the case for work or others. If the situation is something like a get-over-it situation, one should and must live according to the situation and thy will. 
It is just natural that sometimes people would not think about others just for the sake of their own good. 
Which is selfish.
!It is really essential for us to live according to what we want in life, but the amount of workforce done should be the same, that is the case for work or others. If the situation is something like a get-over-it situation, one should and must live according to the situation and thy will. It is just natural that sometimes people would not think about others just for the sake of their own good. Which is selfish.
@Matpunk85 (1066)
• Italy
22 Apr 11
I agree with you, we have to live according to the situation. I think that we can live according our wishes till the moment our life touch the other lives. We are not allowed to limit the others only for our wishes. This is the basis for living in a society.
@Rapuncille (597)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Some have the option to live as they wish but it is not guaranteed that it would not cease. Once you get used to living as you wish, you'll have a hard time adjusting and living into what the situation asks you to. I guess it's only but proper for us to consider the situation rather than basing everything at our whims and desires even if we are capable to do so. It is just proper to see the world in a bigger perspective. That is is not made for us alone. We have to consider the others too!
@myfourteen14 (117)
• Philippines
23 Apr 11
Hmm.. Maybe I can say I am living according to the situation, being practical but doing efforts to reach a higher goal to live a life that I wish for... Everybody will always want a better life, and I think as long as you don't step on other people's lives then it is not a problem to live with accordanceto your wish or desire.
@moumita86 (2)
• India
23 Apr 11
I would like to live according to my wish but the true fact is that I have to live according to situation. This is because I am still under the umbrella of my parents, secondly, it is pity but true that I am the female part of my society. The true situation is that still now our society does not provide a lady to live according to her wish... Is it not true?
