How do you feel having a boyfriend/girlfriend?
By freshyax
@freshyax (29)
Nigeria
April 24, 2011 9:42am CST
I have never had a girlfriend before so i dont know how it feels.But most of my friends have one and they encounter problems which always discourage me to have a gf.Really how does it feel having one,all of you who have either a girlfriend or boyfriend?.
5 responses
@merylle16 (50)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
first of all problems are always part of a relationship. In my case I am in a relationship now for 2years and 4months now, and we're stronger now because of the trials we've been through together, he's like my brother, my bestfriend and my everything. Always remember that in every relationship you will experience trials and this will test jow much the two of you love each other.
@geniusvinz (419)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
i agree with this..trials are there to test your love for each other..and to make your bond stronger each time you overcome a problem..
@geniusvinz (419)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
the feelings i have are mixed..i'm happy because it feels good to love someone that also loves you back..but sometimes you get a bit angry, but err..well not that really..just a bit..specially sometimes when she gets mad out of nowhere; unlogically..you did everything you can..said sorry even though you haven't commited the mistake..texted her sweet messages..you'll find it difficult if your girlfriend is childish..she will be a pain in the head..trust me..but if you really love her..you will be surprised how patient you will be with her..bottomline..it's a balance between happiness and sadness..best of luck freshyax..
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
I am in a relationship now and I should say that I felt anxious before in having a relationship, like you felt now. But all the anxiety was gone because I knew that I made the right choice in getting into a relationship. Having someone to love is really a very nice feeling. And you will really learn a lot from it as well. So I suggest you take away all your anxiety and get into a relationship now. If you want to learn, you will have to get into it and try it. But make sure you feel something for that person and not just getting into one for the sake of trying.
@LeighAnne93 (129)
•
24 Apr 11
All relationships have problems, and if you hear these and they put you off having one then you haven't met the right person yet! The right person will make any of the problems or obstacles worth it, and it's so nice having someone that you can always rely on and just be there for you. Being loved is a great feeling, but loving someone else the way you do a boyfriend/girlfriend is great as well. I wish you luck in finding a relationship when you want one :)
@rosie14 (80)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
I have my first boyfriend when I was in my late 20s. Our first 2 years together was full of problems and troubles. As times goes by those big fights that we have become a petty fights that was easily solve. Being in a relationship is tough, it is not a game that young kids play. It is a commitment, a responsibility. You just don't get into a relationship just because you want to experience it, but because you feel the same way towards the other person.