Had a bad day...

Actually the command of God is "Do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you". so,if you will follow this commandment then you will not do as bad as she did. Let her sleep well and let her realized on her how that you are too good to be her friend.

Hello there Miss Christine. It is really bothersome when someone is making such activities at dawn while you're sleeping, I know because sometimes I experience also what happened to you lately.Like my cousin turns the radio on at dawn even though he knew I'm sleeping. What I did is that, I confronted him but not the way that he gets insulted. I just told him that I can't sleep with such noises, I need to rest to be prepared for another stressful yet wonderful day. There's nothing wrong when you confront people, for as long as it is not with a mad act to avoid such arguments in the future. It even benefits them when they're being confronted so that they would know and make them a better person dealing with others. Then you can maintain your good relationship with them, and you can even sleep well.

She's very inconsiderate. So if you feel like doing revenge, then feel free to do so . Be the bad roommate sometimes. Let's see how she will react to you..hahaha. Im being mean, well, you don't really have to be evil you know. Do what ever is the right thing to do. Try to talk to her to be sensitive to your feelings sometimes so she will not to it again.

Quite bothersome for some to disturb us in our sleep. I would say let her sleep but when she wakes up let her know how annoying it is when you are sleeping and how you let her sleep so she should return the same courtesy. Or your evil twin could show up and do the same back, lol... kidding. She would not like it.

She's bad. If I were you, I'd do the same thing so she can feel how bad you felt.

Hahahahahah...I think you know the answer already to this question Christine... Hmmmmmm...What shall I do...

well do what you gotta do and that is..... DO THE SAME when i was still in college, i would rent a room and i hated all the room mates because they were inconsiderate and disrespectful. even the people at the other rooms. but what I'd do is, i would tell them very nicely. but if they don't stop, then i start acting mad, like i would pretend i need to go to the bathroom and pee or something like that and then i will slam the door but then when i came back, everything was peaceful again hehehehe. then there would be times they slam the door early in the morning, what i would do is yell at them saying that there are still people sleeping!!! i hate when people are like that, i never (honestly) do that to them but when they are already too much then i get mad already. if ever i happen to slam the door and like be loud, that is just by accident and i say sorry right away. i don't want them to think that i am just quiet and i wont complain, but we shouldn't let anyone abuse us just because we are nice to them. we should let them realize that they are also living with other people --- people who have feelings, who also get annoyed, get mad, and most especially, people who also need a peaceful and quiet environment and of course, people who need sleep and rest. oh and there was a time i couldn't take it anymore, i cursed at my room mate and slammed the door. you may think i am a little harsh, but i am a very nice person, i just don't like it when people treat me that way. don't let other people treat you like you're nobody and that they are the boss. you have to stand up for yourself, or else, you'll just be pissed everyday of your life. you don't like stress early in the morning right? hehehe (fact: stress is one of the major risk factors of cancer.) take care christine

Wow! your roommate is really insensitive.. well.. I had experienced that a couple of times too.. I didn't do what she did to me since that would mean I am insensitive like her.. what I did was while i was sleeping I shouted "your soo noisy!! Can't you see I'm still sleeping here" soo.. they thought I was still sleeping and had bad dreams.. and there was silence..:)

If I were you, I may wake her up and chatting with her. Such a bad idea, sorry. If she is one of your good friend, you can just let it go. Or maybe you can go to another bedroom for a refresh. Hope that will help you. Once I was faced the same occassion too.

well,christine,i totally undertand your feeling.i can tell you first hand.i live with another girl the same way as your situation who sleeps late but gets up early.At the begining she is very annoying and she has no awareness to do so coz she can fall asleep quickly and easily despite the chaotic environment,but on the contrary i can't...and i am a person who doesn't want to speak discontent out,so this nearly cause insomnia on me.but when she sleep i do the opposite and be as quiet as i can,gradually she realized her noisy and became better.so i suggest never do the same as she did,this would cause more sever problems and may ruin your relationship and will do nothing to change the status quo...

hi there, you would always do what you inner soul tells you. think from you heart and not from your mind. this is not some thing about revenge its just situational. you should let her sleep but next day you should meet her and inform her how hard it was to sleep in that environment and also state her that even i could have disturbed you if i wanted but i would not like to make the same mistake you did and being a good neighbor i did the best i could.

You start off real quiet, maybe a little bump here or there and you say oh im sorry. Than you watch a really funny movie, make sure to turn it up. I would say the other guys, because it has a lot of shooting scenes and car chases and sirens. Make sure its louder than normal, laugh real loud. When the movie is done make sure you tidy up from any food you made, loud food, anything with the microwave. make sure to set the timer too on the stove so it goes off when the microwave goes off. Do you need to take a shower? Turn up the music so you can hear it over the shower and sing along, well it wld be yelling along. If you leave open and close the door a few times, rummaging through stuff like you forgot something. She shld get the hint that sleep is better when ppl are quiet.

That would have ruined my day ... show no mercy .. ah if you feel like it