What is the main reason to divorce....?

Hello my friend rameshchow Ji, Our 42nd year of married life started recently and we never thought of such seperation, as it was our arranged marriage among our parents, which we honoured at all times tilll now. I know problems do crop up but there are solutions. Seperation is npot the solution. In arranged marriages we take an oath to live for seben long generations. DSo there is no question of divorce. It is only between two people who just want to ;live together on the contract bnasis, takes them for divorce. Always go for arranged ones, as it's goal is not luxery in the life but to contyinue man-kind. Thanks. May God bless You and have a great time.

The reason for the divorce is ego. That is very true. Ego for their own happiness, and not think of happiness together. Each family would have a problem, and the causes are different from each family. Sometimes a small problem, it is very difficult to overcome, and eventually become large. There are many problems faced by my family. Meanwhile, we still could dampen. Although not completely finished. Understanding, and patience, is needed to deal with the problem.

Many marry under the influence of lust, which they confuse with love. Then the problems come and they have no foundation of friendship on which to build a lasting relationship. Money is often the root, another is lack of common goals. Of course all this has to do with communication. Divorce is very easy in this country so people choose the easy way out instead to the hard work necessary to develope a good marriage.

As you said Ego is the main factor of Divorce.. I truly agree to this. In today's life lack of good communication and mutual understanding between a husband and wife is the key factors resulting in Divorce. In world today nobody is there for anybody we have been hearing some are marrying for money and something like that.. Divorce also occurs due to lack of tolerance. For a healthy relationship it is very necessary to tolerate with each other and understand in times of eachother's difficulties. In a Christian religion having a divorce is against God's law. You either have to reunite or dont marry any others. There are very strict rules against it. Even the relationship before marriage shows clearly that how a boy needs to treat his girl and what girl should respond likely. Divorce removes all the happy moments from life and gives a terrible impact on children this is the main reason why children are prone to bad habbits just becuase the lack of unity in Husband and Wife.

Hi Remo There really in my opinion is no main reason for divorce as each case is different. See some divorce because of infidelity, some because of falling out of love, some because maybe they are simply not wanting the committment anymore, etc.. So there are many reasons and the bottom line is that they no longer want to be together so they file for divorce. I can't say that it is altered ego because if a man cheats on me there is no altering of my ego other then saying that I love whole heartedly and expect to be reciprocated with the same love and respect that I give. So not an ego factor in this type of situation but more demand of loyalty. How to maintain it would be that both equally respect one another in the exact manner.

The most common reason of divorce is a crisis of mutual trust. When either side of the couple begins to distrust the other, the foundation of their marriage start to break down. If they deal with it properly, they could save their marriage for one time. But for a long run, it still requires a lot of efforts to be made by both sides. To maintain a marriage relationship is really a kind of art. The most important thing is that you should let your spouse know how much you love him/her.

If we love our partners then we should work at it and not just give up because of Ego. I agree that Ego is one of the main reasons for divorce and a break down of good communication. The main thing is that people are not willing to work at the marriage. They also have to have their right place in God. !

The likely reasons for divorce might be an affair, growing apart, unreasonable behavior or the couple don't get along well with each other anymore. I think that the secret of a successful marriage is having excellent communication together. Then any problems can be talked through. To have happy moments a couple should go out for days to interesting places. Every year he and she could have a weekend away to somewhere special. It would help if the couple think of all the best points about each other. I believe the main reason for divorce is growing apart and not getting on well together anymore. For a marriage on the rocks I advise a relaxing vacation in a sunny destination.

I do agree that egos clashing have a lot to do with relationship breakdowns along with lack of communication. I believe that commitment and trust are paramount. Trust matters more than love alone and the commitment to staying despite difficulties is crucial. I wonder if there would less divorces if people did not walk away until every stone was turned in other words, do not leave a marriage until you know deep in your heart that you have done all that is humanly possible to resolve problems. Too many people walk away at the first signs of trouble. I know because I was one of them when I left my first husband before working on the relationship. In my case the outcome was a good one because I am happily married now but in a lot of instances some folks are left regretting they didn’t try harder.

Hello friend, It is only reason for divorce that we are forget the meaning of marriage. According to our culture and tradition marriage is not a live together relations. Marriage means accepting each other with their shortcoming. In our marriage system no one superior or inferior both are supplement of each other. New generation forgot these things. this is reasons of divorce.

Hello friend, For me the main reasons why they are coming for divorce, from the beginning they don't know what is the real meaning of being marriage, they don't know the sacred meand of marriage - only they know the good effect in their flesh. They are not ready to face in real world of being husband and wife. Their present reasons are all alibis... see you around

Friend the main reason of Divorce is miss understanding and less patience in girls and in boys also. Husband and wife they both not want to understand to each other but friend I want to suggest all couples live happily becoz life is very short and lastly only memories are there. So dont waste time in fighting or queries. Some days aga I was also write my discussion why divorce is increasing day by day.

I think a big reason (among people who get married young anyway) is that some people think that a "fight" is the end of things. So, they give up very easily and lose patience for one another. Anybody living together will clash eventually, that is just the logistics of living with someone and being so close all of the time. Furthermore, many people just "fight" rather than "argue". There is a big difference. Fighting usually involves anger and possibly name calling and both sides trying to win. Whereas arguing actually involves techniques and focuses on solving a problem.When couples argue they might actually have a more productive time. Communication is a really big deal and can help a lot. Also, I think that younger couples expect one another to stay exactly the same. We grow as individuals and can change quite drastically over the years. For a marriage to work the couple has to accept and love the person and allow them to grow and change while still supporting them. These are just some main issues that I have seen. I think that sometimes people expect everything to be super easy and when it is hard they assume something is terribly wrong and let things get out of hand. A successful marriage is always hard work, but can be worth it with the right person.