Feeling Ashamed

You know what, don't feel ashamed. I fyou had some bad relationships in the past it's just that you haven't had enough time to heal. I'm sure your spouse loves you enough to understand this. Just work together to find ways to get over it. I'd let your spouse know that is the case if he doesn't already know this so he can help you through it.

Mickie, such things do happen to people so there`s nothing to feel ashamed about.I feel that there is some mental block embedded in your mind,maybe some event that took place early in your life or even in some past life which is influencing you in this present life.The best thing is to either consult a psychiatrist or go to a Past Life Regression therapist who can take you into your past life and find the crux of the problem and also its remedy.You can give it a try and see if it helps you.Good luck.

Well there is nothing to be feeling ashamed of its pure natural. Ok your concern over here is that you are not finding interesting to make love with your husband in this situation i think instead of pointing at yourself first talk to your husband how he feels about that. You love him very much that is a good thing... But your husband and you are one body. And though you aren't feeling to make love talk to your husband about it, see what he says. If he is feeling different i thing you should adjust something accordingly. There is nothing to be felled as immature if you are not ready to do then just ask some time for husband he will probably listen or. Dont really down yourself there is nothing bad or nothing to be felt ashamed of. This wont impact your relationship unless and until your husband and you are one.. Also see from the prospective of husband and try to give him every possible love you can.

Hi Mickie, Sorry to hear my friend and do not feel bad about how you feel. Please sit calmly and speak to your husband about how you feel and let him know what you think the issues with you are. It may be good to vent, speak to him as not doing so he may not know and think you are intentionally keeping the intimacy from him. It may be that you do need some counseling and or perhaps with his help the both of you can get through the issue. But at the very least please do not feel bad and know that coming here to myLot certainly helps to vent and have others listen. Although none of us our medical professionals and do not know you personally we can listen and apply some humble advise. Do take the time to speak to your husband and try to feel better about your self, because sometimes low self esteem can play a bit of a role and not allow you to feel good about yourself and or others. You love your husband and maybe by speaking to him, you and he can work on slowly working through this. Maybe after discussing with him you may find the deep issue and if not again some counseling may help. Best wishes and hope you start feeling better about you.

Hi Mickie, not to worry, there is nothing immature in relationship, just like there is no right and wrong. Does your boyfriend knows how you feel about making love with him? What do you mean by some bad relationships in the past? As in sexually?

We all make mistakes, thats what makes us human, get over it and move on.as long as u love ur husband and you'll never let go of him

Just try to forget your past and live in present and think about your future dear ,what has happened in past you cant change it,Thinking of past you may not lose your present and your future I mean the love of your husband. Give him what he deserves and enjoy with him the pleasure of your body.