if lover asked u to read ur diary if u had 1 would u let?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
May 9, 2011 4:01pm CST
hi guys^^
if your lover, even if you dont have imagine that you have and answer ok?^^, asked you to read your diary would you let him?^^ i mean is a very private thing so i guess that some of you wouldnt let. actually me i write a diary for a boy i love. we are very far from each other so i write him my daily life everyday. so he reads mine or i mean i send him that. what about you guys?would you let your lover read your diary?^^ please share^^
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@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
9 May 11
if i had one, i would. as long as he asked permission first to read it or any part of it.
in a diary, i would write about daily happenings, joys and triumphs as well as tears and sadness. basically how my day went with all the surprises, excitements and drama. i would sometimes dabble in poetry or a verse or an inspirational quote that caught my eye and appeal to me at the moment. in my diary, i won't write about secrets. so i woudn't worry about other people accidentally reading my diary, albeit it's a private one.
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
9 May 11
you certainly have a fixation on the bell. lol
good morning! how was dinner last night? the end of the mothers' day treat of your children... lol
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 May 11
all i want to read from the pages of your diary is your
"wedding bells"
good morning my love
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 May 11
dinner was fine...
oh,i can guess about it,no more cooking and cleaning the house after yesterday treat
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 May 11
never.my diary is private and if he wanted to know something about me he would simply have to ask me. we all have our little secrets.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
ahah yes i guess was better if he asked you^^ about we all have our little secrets i guess that that depends on the person. i dont really have little secrets i mean when i like a guy i tell him things. but sure i understand that you also need your private things. for many people a diary is something just for them to read. thanks for your reply and have a great day^^
@imgrandma12 (677)
• United States
10 May 11
no way a dairy is personal where you can write you deepest thoughts things you would never tell any one i d let him read it when i am gone from this earth
@think_twice (553)
• India
10 May 11
Never. It's your personality that reflects in a diary and your your extremely personal feelings. If you show it then what is the meaning of writing it. You share almost everything. So you don't have anything personal. Anyone can get bored of you very quickly. Avoid that.
@think_twice (553)
• India
15 May 11
No no. This is not about boys and girls. It is a common psychology if you know everything beforehand about your coming life then there will be no charm of living. So something must have to be hidden unless life becomes boring. If one knows everything of you, even your private feelings & desires then you will boring piece for not only for him but for everyone. It is common to both men and women.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
i see what you mean. i guess that if we are in a relation and we are so sweet and give all of us is true that person might get bored. i say that for my own experience. im usually sweet when i like a guy and do all for him. and in end im always the one crying and being sad. i guess that for boys they always need a bit of challenge bcs if you are so so sweet he might leave you and you end up with nothing but tears.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 May 11
hello cat,
Oh sure,i will share with him my dear little sister
I don't have a diary or journal,but i have mylot and most of my life story is written here.
So all i need to do is open this site and make him sit in front of my laptop and let him read all the topic that i started
i bet it will takes him months before he finished all..not all,because i am still making some discussion so he needs to be update and keep on reading as well
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
9 May 11
j, i'll bet he'll be jealous after he reads your journal here in mylot... so jealous he'll register under you, get you as a mylot friend, be active here by participating in your discussions and uploading all your pictures... and you get 25% of his earnings... lol wouldn't that be grand? hehe
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 May 11
dear myles,
and that make him more active than me,i can guess he even needs to read all those topics that i responded with...
now i really need someone to asks for my diary and be my referral i need more cents more more
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
sweet sis j^^ ahah thats cute that you would let him read everything you posted here. i guess you are right and it would take awhile to read everything you wrote ahah but would be cute if he just came here and comment on your discussions ^^ i guess that myles is right and would also be good for both of you bcs that way you could earn a bit more and that could contribute a bit for your future together ahah^^ its good that you use mylot as a diary. i guess that here is better than a diary bcs here we can receive also advises about what happens to us^^ in diary we dont get an answer back but here we do^^
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
10 May 11
I don't have boyfriend and I don't have diaries!
I used to have one when I was a kid and still keep it but I stop writing on it when I was 12. I don't like to write diary. If I need to say something privately I will grab any piece of paper and write on it. This could be say as diary too but I don't write frequently. I just write some very rarely.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
10 May 11
No matter what your diary is a personal effect. it hold all of the secrets in your heart. They are pages written in your most intimate thoughts and they do not have to be shared with anyone. i would not feel comfortable to read someone else's personal thoughts in their diary. in the same respect, i would not want them to read mine either.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
i understand^^ you think that a diary is something very private just for the one who writes it to read and to know what is written there. i understand your point of view. even i would let the one i love read it i undertand the way you think. and im sure that more people feel like you. i guess we would all feel a bit shy for someone read about our feelings but i just loved this guy so much that i wanted him to know all^^ i was a dumb actually but thats who i am.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
26 May 11
Yes, I would let him read it. I have read my diary already in front of him and I really don't mind it at all. He will just be flattered after reading it for most of the contents will just be him. I am planning to leave my diary to him if ever I will leave this world before him.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
9 May 11
Hey sweetlove,
Sure I do not hide anything from my boyfriend and to date as far as I know he does not either. I would entrust him with my life so if I had a diary it would be something I would not mind sharing because they would be my personal thoughts and most of them surely are about him.
Besides I love him enough where I want him to know the full me so yes I would not mind him reading at all.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
you really love your bf so much^^ im so happy that he is so sweet to you. i just wish that someday i can also find a guy that loves me so much as he loves you^^ i can see that he makes you feel very happy. you are right about dont keep secrets from him. is always important that person we love knows everything about us. that way can know us better and understand us better. and is like you say your thoughts written there would be for sure mostly about him. so if he read he would also find out how much you love and care for him^^
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
10 May 11
hi sweet,
It's a private thing it depends if there is something i think will hurt him i rather keep it to myself but if there is none i am willing to share it with him why not especially if he is always there on my diary i think that will be sweet
happy mylotting
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
ahah i agree with you that is very sweet if he is always in your diary and he could read it. i would love to read a diary of a guy i loved saying he loves me so much ahah that would be the cutest thing ever^^ anyway is sad that most part of boys dont really write a diary so maybe that wont happen. but i wish someday i had the chance to read it ahah only for see how much he cared and loved me^^ not really to put my nose in his life and private things.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
10 May 11
I would want to be a part of my lover, and she would want to be a part of me; so of course she would have open access to everything I am!
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
thats cute that you think like that^^ im sure that your lover will be too happy that you dont keep things from her and will share everything. i wish that she does the same way back to you and share all with you too. wish you the best really and there should exist more guys like you^^ that are sweet and good to their gfs and share everything with them
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
10 May 11
I won't allow anyone read my diary of course. Its a very private personal belongings.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
i understand you gelay^^ some people also feel the same way as you. about me i wouldnt really mind bcs im a very open person. people usually know everything about me. but sure i guess that we would feel a bit shy about someone read our thoughts. anyway dont worry you wont have to let nobody read yours^^ we are free to do what makes us happy^^
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
10 May 11
I use to love writing in my diary! When my dad passed away some years ago I couldn't bring myself to write about it. I guess it all depends on how close we are. I'm pretty sure that if we are really close like I hope we would be, I could see myself letting him read it. I would want my family to have and read it if I were to die so I think I could let him read it.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
thats very cute that you would let him read it. about when you die you want that your family read it i guess that is cute of you. when i see something like that in movies i think is really interesting to read what people we cared about thought. anyway i really wish that you live for a lot and a lot of years and your family too. and that they dont have to read your diary bcs you all will live for such a long time^^
@sabhari05 (263)
• India
9 May 11
hay yes I would really let her my diary though if it is secret because I think lover means you have to openly say everything and I would certainly do it.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
14 May 11
thats cute that you would let her read your diary. i see that you share everything with her. thats very sweet really. guys usually dont like to share so much with girls but im happy that you are different. i think that we all should always tell everything or almost everything to the one we love so he can know us better. have a happy relation with your gf and wish that she loves you as much as you love her^^
@hushenglang (64)
• China
10 May 11
i would do that,because lover is not only my lover but my bosom friend, i really would like to share everything with her.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 May 11
i think i won't really mind. haha i have got nothing to hide.. i write in my "phone diary"and well i guess he knows pretty much about these feelings too so i think if he insists on reading them, he can very well do so and its sure going to make him realize how much he has taken me for granted.hehe
@mortein869 (51)
• Pakistan
10 May 11
msg for my life partner
take every bit of mine but plz don ask abt my diary................
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
10 May 11
I might if he will ask permission first. I used to have a diary way back in high school till i was in college! and i could remember i kept that diary and when we were transferring i came upon it again! hahahaha it was a bit embarrassing reading those naive moment and my huby even read it, we were both laughing about it and he even teased me endlessly about my crushes but i threw it away..and everything in it will remain a memory.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
10 May 11
No way because my diary is like my escape to another world and I write things in my diary that our meant for my eyes only so yeah no way I can let my lover do that no matter how much they asked me and if they threatened me then goodbye. I am very strong willed so yeah nobody will read my diary because it is mine if I let people read it then it wouldn't really be a diary it would be like an open book for all to see might as well sell it at a store.
@tecchigurl (672)
• Philippines
10 May 11
Hmmm... I don't think I'll let my boyfriend read my diary. I mean... I'll be embarrased! Hahahaha!