My ex girl friend

She was probably wanting to see someone else but they turned her down.

if you are interested and still loving her there is no need to say you that you can proceed but you said that she is your ex girl friend you need to talk to her and explain your situation and state you are....so that you might have a friendly break up

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. She probably misses you, but she also realizes that something isn't right with the relationship. I'd have a very serious talk with her (if you're even interested), but I'd also be very careful, as she may back away from you again.

Let me see if I got this, she told you that she was not interested anymore and now she wants to get back with you? What game she thinks she is playing!! I would not take her back if I were you. When you are with somebody, you should be honest with them instead of given them high hopes, I know she said that she was not interested anymore but now she wants to go back with you. Is up to you, but she doesn't sound stable to me, somebody that doesn't know what they want--need to spend time alone, trying to figure out who they are and what they want, before dating anybody.

Stay away, you will get to see the real 'her'. Make sure whether she wants to possess a boy friend or she really loves you. Don't be in a hurry to rush back into her arms.

i dont like this type of relation these kind of relation it'just wasting money and time my advice is that test her if she wants your money or such kind of thing if she realy likes you why she split up i got previous experience with girls , so stoped making girl friend

Well my initial question would be "Do you still want her back?" I think it's just a matter of asking yourself what you want in your life. You see there are times when we girls would just say something or blurt out something that we don't really mean when we're angry, however, when our heads are already cool, we know we don't mean what we say. Although, there are still some occasions where we do mean what we say. It boils down to you, if you want her back then talk about how you two could settle things, but if you think that it's not worth it, then tell her bluntly and stop talking to her to make her move on.

Hard to advise to go back to her, depends on how the relationship was and what caused it to no longer exist. Weight out what it was like back then and if you are willing to work through it all. Also is this the type of relationship you want to further be in. Best of luck and wishing you well. Best I can do as I do not know you and or she personally, it is best to dig deep within you and see if this is what you would like, instead of doing what strangers like me would do as I/we will not be in the relationship. Always good to listen to advice but ultimately you have to decide. Welcome to myLot.

hi taprady1, welcome to mylot!! Ask her "why do you want to come back to me? Anything wrong?". You really need to know why does she want to come back and why she was said that your relationship was no longer interisting anymore. Make sure that you're more than just escape of her problem or she just play some game with you.