How to know if you still in love or just used to?

I think she will be the only one to know if she still has love for his bf or only used to being together. Me and my bf is now on our 5th year of being bf and gf. But I can say that I still love him because my love seems to grow each day. We do fight like most of the time but we make up after we have talked about the fight or the misunderstanding. I think it's normal in a relationship to have petty fights and misunderstanding. Ask your friend to weigh her feeling so she will know what her true feelings are for his bf.

If she can envision life without him then I fear to say that she is no longer in love. Maybe perhaps they need a bit of a break to see if they still feel the same about one another. Sometimes distance can cause the heart to grow fonder and or may be the wise decision to realize that perhaps they no longer care for one another as before. The only way she will know is to have a heart to heart talk with her boyfriend to see how he feels as well. In that discussion she needs to carefully choose her words and determine if he is taking her serious that he loves her not that he just needs her around. Same with her she has delineate the same when he is speaking as well. Good luck to her and her relationship.

I think that only she will know the answer to that question. She will know in her heart and in her mind if she still loves him or not.

That's easy. Does she still cares as much for him? When one is in love with another, care and concern will always be there, and it won't diminish along with time. Feelings for him might be unsure, all it takes is bad experience to determine if the love is still there. There's no point in saying 'i love u', when they don't feel anything right? While for those who don't say it, doesn't mean there's no love. True lasting love doesn't lie on the surface, it's deep inside the heart. Let them have a heart to heart talk. They will find out for themselves.

no one knows best with her partner but her.. and no one knows best about her feelings towards her partner but her. she started to have doubts on her feelings to her partner when she asked you those questions.. if she is in doubt then she should give time to assess herself and her feelings and their relationship as friends,partner and lovers... Fighting is not good but in a relationship i guess it will naturally come sometimes considering that they are two unique individuals with different perception in life and different wants or needs.. to prevent it from happening they should know the cause of fighting, they should communicate and evaluate where will it lead if they will not stop from doing so.