You still ask permission from your Parents when you leave the house?
By oninomar
@oninomar (505)
Philippines
May 14, 2011 4:47am CST
Nowadays, many of us are getting busy with so many things, in schools, in works and many other things... But have you still give honor to your parents? Do you still ask permission from your parents when you leave the house for many things you will do? Do you still kiss them when you leave the house and said " Mom, Dad i will go now, Bye!" ???
Many of us now do not practice that kind of virtue because of the busy things we are doing.. Sometimes they really hurt when we don't even recognize them.. They sometimes feel that we don't give them importance because we have our own life now..We must not ignore them. We must always remember to our self that they are our parents and parents must be take good care by us...
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21 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
15 May 11
Nowadays children just wave their hands and leave. Yes. there is not time for the children and also the parents. We grand parents have time . But we know the difficulties of working men and women. They have to run the extra mile in the initial days of their employment. Peer pressure, jealousy with other colleagues, uncertain future -- these things alter their behavior rapidly and sometimes they are nice and sometimes they are not nice. That is life.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
15 May 11
True . Your view is also right. of course we can contact them over cell phones any time.
@sunshinewater (15)
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14 May 11
Yes,I still ask permission from my parents or just tell them where to go and what to do when I leave the house.Otherwise,they will worry about me.Parents are always most worried about us.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Yes, I do... Actually, I have moved out from my parents' house five years ago but i always make sure to visit my family every week. when i leave the house, i always ask permission from my mother. i say hey, need to leave now then i give her a kiss... i say i love you at times too... you know we should all respect our parents... ask for permission before doing anything particularly when leaving their house...
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
15 May 11
It depends. First few years it may be so. After that it becomes routine. Children learn to be far away from parents and parents have to learn to be away from kids for more months.
@Misiufraggle (287)
• Poland
14 May 11
I'm an adult and it has been many years since I lived at home with my parents. When I visit them for holidays I always let them know if I am going to be out late though - it is just good manners. It doesn't take a moment to say "I'll be back around midnight, leave the porch light on for me." This stops them worrying about where I am.
I would expect my children to do the same when they are adults.
@tecchigurl (672)
• Philippines
14 May 11
well, some times I no longer ask permission. But there are times that I just text them when I'm already out. hehehe!
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
14 May 11
of course i do... i always tell mom my whereabouts. whenever i dont go home immediately i dont worry that much, but later on i understood that mothers worry too much for their children even if the children dont mind the possibilities that can happen especially at night. i can t go out of the house of go to another unplanned destination with out texting or calling my mom.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
15 May 11
I am a grown up now and have kids of my own. I don't really need to ask my parents permission but I inform them where I am going when they are here or when I am there with them. My 10 year old son is expected to ask permission before he leaves the house even if it is to play.
My husband doesn't see the need to when he is at his parents (inform them)...he just mentions that he will be back before he leaves.
My 28 year old sister stays with mom and she does take permission from our mom before she goes out....even when it is work related....not just informing...she needs to take permission.
Last month, she had taken school kids out for an interview and all of them stopped for lunch later. My sister was already out and she need not have asked permission. She did and mom asked her not to go for the lunch and my sister returned home!
@zhpshql (693)
• China
18 May 11
Hi,
but I am not living with my parents for so many years...
and even when I was with my parents,,,if I go out ,I just told them where I would go and when I would come back...It's not permission..and I don't think it's necessary...we are alduts and we have right to decide what to do...
^^I think oninomar ,maybe you are younger than me..
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 May 11
When I was still living with my parents, I always ask permission from them whenever I leave the house. I also tell them where I am going and who are with me, when it happens that they are not home, I just leave a note for them. I always do that coz I don't want them to worry about me. Whenever I will be late going back home, I also inform them. I still do those things even when I am already married and living with them. Its a great way of showing respect on them.
And now, whenever I pay them a visit and have a vacation in their house for few days, still I ask permission whenever I leave the house.
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
14 May 11
Hi oninomar,
Yes, I still do. For me, it is important to tell them where I am at or at least where will I go, because that will give them some peace of mind and assurance that I am safe. Like them, I also get worried whenever I don't know where my siblings are or why they are not still home. It is important to tell people you love where you go, after all it only take a minute or two to do that.
Happy Lotting!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
I agree with you. Parents do still need to be shown respect and love. They have after all taken care of us until we are capable to stand on our own. I still do ask permission when I leave the house but we never practice kissing them though. We do ask for their hands when we arrive home and put it in our foreheads. For us here in our country, it's a sign of respect.
@rene12 (794)
• Philippines
14 May 11
I still do even though I am already 22 years old. Why? parents are really protective with their son(s)/daughter(s) and it will make them moody if they are worried. In case of my grandmother, she will throw away the words that was running around when she was worrying about me after I arrived without telling her that I went somewhere.
Since I lived more on my grandmother. I was trained in that way and I just do it to whoever I am with in the house. It is just to not worry them.
My mom never got angry when I forget to ask permission but I think it is more on a habit for me to ask than an obligation.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
15 May 11
I still inform them where I go and every member of the family too~ It is just like a habit. Not just my parents but everyone at home should know where are you going to or what are you going to do. And when we go home late we will inform them so they will not feel worried for us getting home late at night and know what happens to us.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
18 May 11
Yeah when I lived with her ??mother wanted permission to go.
I said go and where not, and I always told the truth.Sometimes when I know it will not let me go naturally the Use a lie as it will be in a girlfriend or something.It is important to ask your parents they are worried about us at all times.Even when I'm married now calling my mother is not every time but where they share what I do so.
nice day!
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
14 May 11
HI Omar,My parents live near me.Am adult now which i don't ask permission,but i do tell them where am going in case of emergency .
Yes i still honor my parent,because they are my parents an they love me so i respect and love them.
I love my Mom an i share every thing i have with she live near by,she is one in a million.We must honor an love and respect our parents even if we have our own family,because they are the reason why we are here today.
@myanime (434)
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14 May 11
Yes I do...uhm...sometimes. Haha! When I'm at home I always tell or ask permission to my mama and papa whenever I want to go somewhere. I don't kiss them. It's not normal for me to kiss them. My gesture is "mano" or blessed.
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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14 May 11
Yes, always did whenever I was back at home. Even over the age of 30, with my fiancee by my side, we'd always let my parents know where we were going and roughly when we'd be back. Not only is it respectful (if we were staying in their house) but it saves them worrying and - if there IS a concern - they'd know where to find us.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
14 May 11
I believe i am way past the age of asking parental permission to leave my house. In consideration I may tell a parent where I am going and when i will be back. Asking a parent's permission is not something I nio longer need.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
14 May 11
When i go outside for more then hours i usually ask them but going for few minutes i never used to ask them. If i go for long time they do worry and when i think it will take more time i call them that i will be late don't worry...i think everyone should do that..
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
14 May 11
hello oninomar,
Yes I still kiss them good bye and let them know where I am going Mom is quite strict when it comes to me even she knows where I am or who I am with she still keep on monitoring me and I do understand that she cares so much to me but sometimes it's too much so I need to lie though I don't want too.
We should always respect our parents and let them feel how much we love them
happy mylotting