You vs. your boyfriends Barkada

As in literally spends more raw time with friends than with you? So if you sat down and mapped out his 'free-time'. Excluding sleep and working, he's spending most of it with friends, and very little with you... (I say all that because some girls are so insecure, that if their husband spends 1 hour playing basket ball with his buddies, they flip out, even if they spend all the rest of their week with them). Hmm... I don't think I'd get angry. Anger means you think you deserve his time. You don't 'deserve it'. He has the right to spend his time with whomever he chooses. But regardless of why, he's indicating to you that you are not that important to him. Instead of getting angry, I think I'd look for a new boyfriend. You want to get married and have a real husband, and a real family, yes? Well, he's indicating he does not plan to be that for you. I'd move on. Find someone who wants the same things you want, and with you. But no, getting angry is pointless. If he really cares, you wouldn't need to get mad. If he doesn't, then getting mad won't change anything. Move on.

It would be okay for me to lend my boyfriend to his friends sometimes. I believe that even if we are a couple, each of us should be entitled with some space away from each other. While it is important that we grow together in a relationship, it is also wrong to put each other in a box, away from the reach of other people.