do boys lose interest in a girl that is too sweet?

Hey hi again! I think what you told is right! Guys usually go behind the girls with whom they feel a little insecure and challenging! they don't take girls easily if they have these two with them! At the same time, i've noticed that, if the girl is very good and all sweet to them, they stomp at the head of the girl! They take her and her feelings for granted, sometimes, its the best time for them to play around with the feelings! Not all the guys, but most of them are like this as far as I know! Typical guys attitude is what i'll call it as!

Lol, make boys sometime feel jealous and insecure. I might do that to my bf sometimes..hahah! Anyway, I think you are right, boys really do love challenges. I think they easy bore when girls are too sweet on them . They can't see anything new in the relationship if the girl is a bit too sweet and love to be cuddled all the time. Maybe some boys like that but I think mostly they don't. It's normal to be sweet but I think too much is already not good.

I don’t lose interest in a woman when she starts to do sweet things for me. One thing that turns me off and makes me lose interest in a woman is when she starts to seem desperate. It is nice when they start to do sweet things for me, and I certainly like doing nice things for the person I am with as well. I just don’t want a woman who gets really jealous or possessive.

Just keep in mind that there are a lot of guys out there that aren't worth a sweet girl's time. Some men aren't really in it for the long run and not all of them are really sure what they want. I definitely would say that saying you were too sweet though is a lousy excuse and I know that there will be a guy out there that will be as equally as sweet to you as you are to him. Jealousy and insecurity I don't think should be part of any successful relationship because it introduces too much stress into your lives. I think that good relationships involve people that are truly in love and are trying to do as much as possible to make each other's lives as enjoyable as possible.

I don't think so. I like a girl that is sweet. I used to think that my ex was sweet when we started dating. After we got married, she changed into a person I did not know. She stopped being so sweet and became more demanding. I see no problem with a sweet girl. My girl friend now is awesome, she's sweet and loving but can also be tough. I like that.

Yes, I lose interest with a girl that is too sweet.

I know for me Sweet is just too sickly. I usually go for someone interesting.

I rather have diabetes with a girl who is so sweet and spoils me like a baby than have high blood pressure with someone who is haggishly nagging, whines and complains a lot. I actually wont mind a woman who is very sweet like an anime character. I had met so many mean girls in my life, If I will spend eternity with a woman it should be someone who is sweet, charming and affectionate than someone who is needy, problematic, hot headed and bossy.

every people, has his own individuality. if most guys are like that, i am not! =D well maybe some guys just wanted to add a little spice in their relationships..it's scary if you never argue once in a while.. your guy is an idiot(sorry for the term)! you don't deserve to be treated like that..if i were him, i'll give you more than what you're giving me.. =P

HI sweetloveforever...I agree to what you have to say to some extent. a guy may lose interest in a girl sfter being with her for a few months. this could be for various reasons. like as u mentioned for being too sweet, trust issues, betryal and many more. But the best way in maintaining healthy relations is by giving each other their space and trusting each other. we all like happy endingd and fruitful relationships. A girl should also be herself and not too sweet...

Im my opinion No. Im sweet and Spoil my baby all the time [and hes sweet and spoils back ^^] and he wants to spend the rest of our lives together. We are both each others first, Hes a Senior in High school and Im a Sophmore. So We have 2 years Till we can get married.... But anyway Sweetloveforeve I think guys who are like that are selfish and not really in it for love. (: Have a Fantastic Day. ^^ I know I will God Bless, Christie x Michael

Im my opinion No. Im sweet and Spoil my baby all the time [and hes sweet and spoils back ^^] and he wants to spend the rest of our lives together. We are both each others first, Hes a Senior in High school and Im a Sophmore. So We have 2 years Till we can get married.... But anyway Sweetloveforeve I think guys who are like that are selfish and not really in it for love. (: Have a Fantastic Day. ^^ I know I will God Bless, Christie x Michael

I don't think so. If the boy really like the girl, of course it will not be this that will affect the relationship

no but they don't want to take to here to much to not heart her .

I think they are not really acting careless.Since he knows that you love him,they he don't worry that there's troubles and sometimes it's a sign of trust that a man is getting less asking questions or so on.My man at first act so sweet and I act sweet all the time and his not really losing interest.It really depends.

Hi sweet love forever: It really depends on the boy actually. I am not looking for a challenge. I am looking for love so if my girl is sweet, on the opposite I'll feel more enthusiastic and I would love to be more with her because she is showing exactly what I want. I want to feel loved and appreciated. So it really depends on the guy. I don't like to feel insecure because I am already insecure I want to share love ALVARO

I suppose yo are to some extent right sweetloverforever :D, much love from one part can make the other partner arrogant, lol, whether the man or the woman, i gess like you said, a bit of tease is good from while to while to make him/her feel the importance of him/her in his/her life. Love is good,but every relation knows some cold moments which can be causd due to many things, but does that mean the partner feelings changed or became lesser than before, i don't think so. I like your tricky tease strategy sweetloverfroever, haha, that's what most woman do to make sure they are still appreciated.

Hey haha, I totally agree with CaptAlbertWhisker. That was a funny post. In my opinion, you are totally right. My mum always tells me to keep a little something for myself such that the guy would always be near me. It's sort of like make them jealous yes, having guy friends and such, but guys are just so weird, if you don't keep their interest there, they just go ahead and find a new one.

NO!!hahaha i like a girl who is really so sweet!! I am very comfortable with that.. i can really feel the care, the love and the heat!! haha.. (For me, I don't know with the other) Sometimes man need a very much care from a woman... We, as men, can appreciate the goodness of a woman to us.. even in little things, we can appreciate it..

I don't think we can generally say that guys lose interest on girls who are really sweet. Could be that the guy you are dating likes a challenge. Hence, when you show him that you are sweet and that you really like her, he lose interest. There are also guys that really like sweet girls. They tend to be attracted more to girls that takes care of them and who are very affectionate.