quarrel of parents..
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
May 16, 2011 11:15am CST
have you ever been experience that your parents have something misunderstanding and lead to a fighting and quarrel?
what will you do if you encounter this?
will you go to the side of your father or to your mother?and why??
is this always happen to you?
a while ago my parents had a misunderstanding and led to a fight this evening,but of course i dont choose where side will i go until i could know the root cause of there fighting.and when i found out that my mother was right and my father's fault i kept comfort my mom and told her that ignore my father.
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11 responses
@karthikk351 (201)
• India
17 May 11
hi,
we cant involve to parents fight as there may fight for their family problems are some other ... they don't want their children to be aware of this unless it goes big... so don't look their fights as it will disturb you very deeply
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@dxn_ruby78 (13)
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17 May 11
Yes, i have an experience it before, when I was young. I was very sad and frightened. I'm always crying and crying everytime they had a fight. And I was mad at my father. I'm on my mother's side always. Because it was my father's fault.
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@rosesthorns14 (803)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Yes I have seen my parents fighting but the fight isn't that violent. They just shout at each other. I came in between them to stop the quarrel, I told my father to stay in my room and sleep there and I just accompanied my mother to sleep in their room. The next day, they kissed and made up.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
When I was younger, I usually see my parents fight and shouting at each other. I can't help myself but cry when I see my parents like this. I don't take sides as well. But I usually comfort my mom for she is the one whom I see is always the weaker one. What me and my other siblings do when we see our parents fight is we stop them. Let them talk when both are already calm. Fortunately my parents don't fight like the fight they do when we were still younger.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 May 11
You are so right because it becomes disruptive and they grow up thinking it is normal behavior. 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 May 11
It is not healthy for the parents to argue and or have quarrels in front of the children. It disrupts the emotional state of the kid and some of them grow up to be fighters as well with their own. See some grow up thinking this is normal behavior and have lots of difficulties later in life.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
18 May 11
I often saw my parents arguing. When they quarrel, I took my younger brother out of the house, and invited my younger brother to another place. When my parents argue, I do not take sides with anyone. I'm not going to interfere, with the problems that befall my parents, unless they want me involved.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
17 May 11
as a child, i have witnessed a lot of times the quarrels, the fights, the arguments, whatever you call. all that was missing is physically hurting each other. and i was thankful it did not lead to that.
the issue actually is how this could affect the offspring. parents should take into consideration always what their children will feel.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 May 11
it's difficult at any age for a child to see parents quarreling. Choosing sides is saying that one parent was right and one parent was wrong. it is not a position any child likes to find themselves in. I say let parents have their disagreements and but do so diplomatically. children are always watching and they do take everything in.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
17 May 11
Usually i don involve in parental fighting so i no need to take side.My father is idiotic person so no need to take side headache, because almost all the time mom is correct.Nowsday both parents are old and prone to old people mumbling and nagging i usually avoid chatting with them if possible to prevent headache and heartache. So better not involve in their quarelling and move away.
