Marriage

India
May 16, 2011 11:26am CST
The relationship between guy & girl is being started with Marriage. How should be that Marriage activity be planned. Whether Love marriage ( or ) Arranged marriage. Still many people feels Love marriage is better than Arranged Marriage because there is no distance, can understand each other before getting married, can able to know the mindset, views, attitudes of person. But some people feels Arranged marriage is much better than Love marriage and also they have many reasons in their point of view. Finally, What is your opinion? Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage
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8 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
23 Dec 12
Both are good but in love marriage the boy and girl meet many times before marriage so they know each other and after marriage they start quarrel because they feel no match to each other. Only few percent love marriages is success but more percent arrange marriage is success. I think both marriage is good but in both marriages parents concern is necessary.
• Philippines
17 May 11
My initial opinion is marriage should be planned by a wedding planner. Regarding your last question, I don't even think arranged marriage should exist. I mean, marriage is created for couples who truly love each other, nothing else.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
17 May 11
in my country whenever there is an arranged marriage it usually is against the will of the people who are being married.
• United States
17 May 11
It all depends on the mindset and the customs. I have known of many arrange marriages where couple fell in love after the arrangment. I have known of free marriages that end in divorce. It all depends.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
17 May 11
I have only heard of arranged marriages but have never known anyone who had one. I suppose it is possible the two could fall in love but it really seems so very, very strange to me. On the other hand with the divorce rate so high maybe kids should at least listen to advice from their parents about their future spouses. LOL that won't happen I know, but perhaps a blending of the two ideas... arranged and not, could be the best for a long lasting marriage.
@usagi01 (31)
• Philippines
17 May 11
For me,i go for love marriage...marriage is not a piece of paper.but its a sacred thing that designed for two persons who loved each other.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
16 May 11
There are advantages and disadvantages to each. Sometimes arranged marriages work and sometimes they don't and vice versa for a love marriage. Each individual has to decide for themselves what kind of life they want to lead.
• India
16 May 11
marriage is the important relationship in our lfe and to start anew life we have to marry but what should we do love or arrange marriage ?i think the love marriage is better to start relationship.in arrane marriage evry body in the families of girl and boy understand each other while in love relationship only boy and girl understand eaach other and some cases families do not allow to being in relationship with that girl/boy but girl and boy deny the decision of their family and live other place .so arrange marriage is better ,but in today life love marrige is allowed in the families.