Is there really no easy way to break somebody's heart?

@783748 (178)
Philippines
May 16, 2011 1:04pm CST
How do you tell a person that you don't love him/her anymore? Do you know the easiest way to tell this to the person you once loved?
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9 responses
• Philippines
16 May 11
hello 783748, There are no easy way because even how much we avoid not to hurt them at the end rejecting or telling them you dont have feelings anymore it still hurts Intentionally or unintentionally hurting someone has a same effect with them honest feelings can really hurt someone happy mylotting
• Philippines
17 May 11
Hi uttarayan, Sometimes people left no choice truth hurts even how matter they tried not break someones heart nice to see you around
• India
16 May 11
yesterday...love was such an easy game to play...beatles song.but nowadaya,i dont think that-this is an easy tusk.i hate people,who hurt others
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@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
I agree. There's really no easy way to break somebody's heart. Even if you do it the nicest way, it would still hurt no matter what. Thanks for the comment.
• India
16 May 11
i got one very very nicest one,, do this; pick your cell phone and type a message "I love you too" and send it to whom you want to hurt/break heart. Again type second message "Oh sorry! that wasn't for you"..... I promise she/he would definitely never ever talk you back !!! Lol Happy lotting
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@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Nice one. But I don't think I could really do that. Thanks for the advice anyway.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
18 May 11
I think doing that will only hurt him more than just telling him straight. It's as if you're just playing a trick on him.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
17 May 11
there is no easy way, i guess. it will always be painful to say or tell. but it would be more painful to pretend that there is still love.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Yes, that's true! Being honest to one's self would lighten the burden. Thanks
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Actually, there are easy steps, but you wouldn't be able to find it easy if you're so into with the person. I guess you just really have to face the person and tell things to him/her straight. Maybe through it, you'll realize that you're still in love with the person. Good luck!
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
18 May 11
I guess you just have to face the person... Telling the person the truth makes life easier, because you know for a fact that you did something right.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
It's true that telling the other party personally would be better than to break up without facing the person.
• United States
17 May 11
Honestly, there is no easy way to break someone's heart. But, I think it will hurt less if you don't keep dragging on the relationship because you can't find the right way or time to call it off. I think you should be careful of the wording you choose. I think it's better that you call it a spade to spade; lay all your feelings on the line. Don't use the classic break up lines.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
I guess that's the best thing to do --- to choose the right words. Though it will definitely still hurt, at least the hurt would not be as much when you say the wrong words.
@JodeneB (177)
• United States
17 May 11
I'm not very experienced in that subject, but people change. You can have someone you love/ loved , but things happen, people change, paths take a different turn. A couple can have the best time & get a long great, but after a long period of time, if you don't spend time together or your interests change, or your path takes you somewhere, it may make sense & be better for both to split....it's not that there is no love, it is that our paths are going in different directions. (breaking up hurts, but if it's for the right reason, it is easier to heal.)
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Things really change. The person you once loved may not be the same person who you dream of living with forever. I guess we just have to be honest from the very start. Thanks for the comment.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
18 May 11
I think you should just be honest and tell them. No point in dragging it out. That is, in my opinion, just plain cruel. When it's over, it's over. Just grow a spine and tell them.
• United States
17 May 11
I don't think there is any easy way to do it really. I think you just need to go ahead and be upfront and tell them how you feel in person. Use "I" statements and even if the reason for breaking up is because of them, make it to them seem like its you and you're choice. Don't play the blame game or point out reasons why....just say you need to do it.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 May 11
I think there is no easy way to break a relationship. Because even when it's that time of separation still hurts always hurt. When you tell someone that you love him not escape the pain it will hurt it much. You just have to gather courage and tell him that you love him. The longer the more you will hurt you and you can not tell the truth and besides, it will hurt when you understand. To me never happened to me to say that I am not loved or that do not like. In this separation seemed to save him and just tell ourselves that we can not be together anymore. Have a nice day.
@783748 (178)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Yeah. I guess the it is really best to say it earlier than prolong the agony. Either way, it will still hurt. Thanks.