Why the women are so depressed than men?

@mallu30 (461)
India
May 17, 2011 5:38am CST
I read somewhere that the women have twice the rates of depression as men. How could this be? All the people are access to education, careers, therapy etc., So what is getting to the women depressed? Do the harmones play towards this? Or any genetic reasons are the reason for this?
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@petersum (4522)
• United States
17 May 11
In my experience, women actually like being depressed! It's part of their nature. Hormones may play a part as well. But in every case that I have seen, they enjoy being depressed in the same way that they love being ill. It's like they crave attention and the only way to get it is by faking an illness. Eventually that perceived illness becomes real and they can never be cured. I have never seen a successful working woman with depression - isn't that odd? Or is it a clue?
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
28 May 11
What a silly response. Are you aware that depression is an illness? In my experience it is men who enjoy behaving like babies and craving attention when they are ill. It is women who get on with what they have to do. How often do you see a mother give in to symptoms of illness...they don't, they keep on going to keep their family functioning. It is also my experience that men suffer depression more than women. I have never known a woman who suffers from this illness. Probably because they are in touch with themselves on a physical, mental and spiritual level and are usually able to reach out and talk about their troubles. Of course I don't mean ALL women have the ability to do this. It is well known that men have difficulty expressing themselves at any deep emotional level...except for anger maybe. My own nephew at 29 took his life 4 years ago. He was suffering from depression. He had an excellent job with a firm that handles bank security and he was mostly able to work from home. He and his partner had just 2 months previously had a beautiful baby girl. They lived in a gorgeous home, away from the suburbs, in bushland on the coast. He was successful and to all outside appearances, very happy and content.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
18 May 11
Its' because women usually gets too emotional. they easily get hurt by a petty quarrel. But men are not like that. They tend not to mind a petty quarrel. They just let it pass and go on with their life.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 May 11
Do you get easily disturbed? Does quareeling lead to depression?
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
19 May 11
Yes i am. Whenever my husband and i had an argument over a petty thing, i would not talk to him for a day, but he would , as if nothing happened. No, quarreling doesn't necessarily lead to depression. But it's the thought that you are not getting any attention from your husband or your child, is depressing.
@anil02 (24688)
• India
18 May 11
It is genetic reason. When a feel some thing wrong with him than he speak out, but the women keep it in their heart. women are more senstive than men it is also cause of depression.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Maybe because women tend to be more emotional. And, yes, perhaps hormones has something to do with it. Or maybe because the society says that women can be emotional but men need to be not that emotional.
• Philippines
17 May 11
I agree with you that women are more 'attuned' to their feelings than men. Females are more also expected to 'express' their emotion than men. Expressing emotions means all the ranges of emotion from the best to the worst. Society somehow condition its inhabitants that women are more 'emotional' and if they are, men are supposed to be the face of strength and stoicism. If you combined the two images together, it somehow creates a balance and harmony. However, men still have feelings but are reared not to show them - they are taught that emotions are for women and if they do experience it, it is often confided within themselves.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
28 May 11
How do these responses add to the concept that women are more depressed than men. I think you've both shot your ideas in the foot because you have pointed out the reasons why women do NOT become depressed.
• Latvia
17 May 11
its genetics,hormones etc. Anyway man are more than 2 times succesfool in making suecides than men. So depression is more serious ilness for men than woman.
17 May 11
I agreed with you because some men are not easy to accept their mistake and to show their emotion to others because they said its a cowardice.
@karl1357 (24)
• Canada
17 May 11
Depressions are maybe caused of relationship problems. For a side of a woman, its very degrading for herself to lose on love. Like if her boyfriend cheated her. Its very very degrading.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
18 May 11
It is not necessary that women are more depressed than men. Depression could occur in any individual, irrespective of his gender. Some women who feel neglected and ignored by their husbands tend to get depressed. However, those who remain busy through out the days, do not feel depressed. Depressions has direction connection with sitting idle.
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
17 May 11
For the women I know who are depressed usually the men in their lives are partly the cause of it. Either the women have to support them, or they are being abused by them or they are bailing them out of trouble...I could go on and on. Plus I think hormones play a big role in the problem.
• Australia
18 May 11
Could be hormones.. could be just women find men depressing to live with.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
18 May 11
I think because of the way we are educated to be, we are someone's daughter, than someone's wife, then someone's mother and not even our parents teach us to be one whole person, that we are completed first before being someone's something. That is wrong, we should never be born to be someone else's. I'm glad I did a lot of reflection when I was a teenager and realize who I was. I even was thought that it was okay to man to cheat and that I should respect that!!! No way.
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
18 May 11
It has something to do with hormones which can make women go crazy. Imagine a monthly period that can give you abdominal cramps, back pain, headaches, emotional stress and many more and once again I have to emphasize it happens every month! At menopausal stage women tend to get more cranky and this can lead to depression if the woman does not have any outlet. My mother turned to coloring photo album designs during her menopausal stage and that helped a lot in controlling her emotions and relieving stress. Thus, women are more prone to depression because of hormones.
• United States
18 May 11
Possibly men make women depressed..lol It could be change of horomones too. Women are usually the ones who deal with the bills, kids and creditors so i suppose that could be why.
• Philippines
18 May 11
I think the article you read refers to the rate a woman is likely to have depression over men. I can attribute it to hormones which cause women to be emotional. I think that's not the real case, since men are very cautious in terms of letting out their feelings, unlike us women who are open with our emotions. We in nature are able to share to our girl friends our problems, unlike men who thinks that being open is a sign of being weak. It would contradict to the masculine image of being strong.
• China
18 May 11
Have you ever become mother?And you would know how troublesome and annoying it is.
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
17 May 11
I think the main reason is a genetic one,women are built to be much more sensitive to different emotions than men,and usually men don't take life seriously all the time,while women tend to be more serious.I also think men have more means to release the stress of modern life which makes so many people fall into depression;activities such as going to matches or going to pubs and having a few drinks with friends help many men release the stress easier.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
17 May 11
maybe because women are more emotional than men. they get easily sad or easily pissed off than men. but aside from that, there's still a connection with the hormone thing....
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
17 May 11
Yes indeed women are more depressed than men. and depressed men and women show different. Women have many responsibilities during the day family food children not to say thatthe man has no such obligations but he knows that a woman will do the most work and is more relaxed. I can not explain but it is true that women are more depressed, it is evident in the it is evident in their appearance. Have a nice day!
• India
17 May 11
Harmones do play a vital role in this matter. I think women do worry a lot than men & they feel highly responsible for their doings, that's the reason they are more depressed than men. They take small things very seriously & worry about them. Men are commonly easy going & they take things lightly (not everything). One more advantage for men is we forget the things fast than women. I have seen many women with very good memory power & keep all the sad happenings of their past & keep thinking about them.
• Philippines
17 May 11
I do not agree that women are more depressed than men. I believe otherwise. Men are more depressed because they do not have outlet for their stress. Most of them keep their disappointments or frustrations to themselves, otherwise, it would be construed as cowardice. Thus, the song- "boys don't cry." For women, it is so natural for us to express our frustrations and disappointments. We express our feelings much more than men. If we study the statistics more men die because of heart failure compared to women. I just cannot believe the article which you read.