What will you do if your gf/bf always do things you don't like?

You cannot force your BF to stop doing things that he is passionately crazy about. But if his passion is already getting in his way of parenting, you should really assert yourself. Your being a mother to his daughter gives you leverage over him. You have every right to assert yourself cause as a mother you don't want your child to be forsaken by his father. More so, you need to assert yourself because the reason for his negligence is very childish. I agree to all our fellow mylotters, you need to really communicate with your BF. Settle things before it goes out of hand. God bless and welcome to mylot!

Hmm... well, maybe you can try to ask for a compromise. I wouldn't ask him to stop playing altogether, because that might only irritate him more. Instead, I would ask him to maybe try to divide his time. He can still play, it is something he enjoys... but half of the time he should try to spend with his daughter because she needs him too.

I believe your going to have to give him an ultimatium. I know that sounds horrible but you and your daughter deser e a lot better. Its ridiculous that he cant spend time with her. I've been in the situation and now we are a lot better off. Its not going to be easy you'll have to be strong he will realize that there's more to life them video games and what makes him happy.

If my boyfriend was doing things that i didn't like and he knew that it bothered me, i a m afraid the relationship would suffer. It would be hard to keep resentful feelings from interfereing with the balance of the relationship and what was important.

If my boyfriend was always doing things I didn't like, I'd let him be and that's because I'm sure there are things that we do that boys don't like and they just deal with it because it's not hurting them. I think you should let him be happy playing his game because it will cause a rift in your relationship.

Hi there, Welcome to Mylot! This used to happen at my home every single day. My hubby is obsessed with his XBoX360 and i am sick of it! I told him every single day that we need to spend some time together, talk to each other or may be go for a drive. But no, he goes 'hun, i am tired today, let me relax myself a bit..we can always go out tomorrow!'. What else could i say, i just kept quiet and started doing my stuffs. Few weeks later, i took his xbox and hide it at my friend's place. He got so angry that night but calmed down the other day. He promised he'd never give priority to xbox over me. I didn't get him his xbox back for a week and finally when i felt i could trust him...i gave it back to him. These days, he plays on it only on weekends or whenever i am not at home... I your case, you could try disconnecting the internet for a while so that he can spend sometime with you and your lovely daughter! Good Luck!

Hi, well,love one ,then love his dog...^^ you can try to talk with him,and tell him that you don't like that...I think if he love you,he won't do that again...

I believe your going to have to give him an ultimatium. I know that sounds horrible but you and your daughter deser e a lot better. Its ridiculous that he cant spend time with her. I've been in the situation and now we are a lot better off. Its not going to be easy you'll have to be strong he will realize that there's more to life them video games and what makes him happy.

Why not ask your daughter to speak with your boyfriend, if she can already talk. Ask your daughter to seek attention to his father so he will be forced to leave the game and spend time with both of you. Good think my bf never plays online games. He was mad at me at some point when I was the one addicted to playing online games. I stopped because it was not really worth it losing someone who loves me so much and the time and money is also a waste. There is no better way to solve this issue out but to talk with your boyfriend. At least that's how we did it before with my bf, and good thing I was the one who quit before anything bad happens.

Instead of telling this here,You tell him directly,Tell him how much you love him and also how much you want him to leave that game.Trust me,there are wonders a gal can make their guy to do.My brother was so addicted to gaming and trust me,it was his wife who completely changed him and now he hates computer games.Try your luck.Surely your feeling could be understood by him.Happy mylotting.

talk with him^^ thats the best way. say that its ok that he plays that game but he should also take time for your daughter and for you too. the day is 24 hours so im sure he can find time for take care of his gf and daughter and to play the game too. just tell him how you feel and im sure he will change. i mean he should know that you are more important than a game :) and there is always time for everything if we want.

I think you should talk with him, tell him what you feel, tell him you think he should play with that less and try to ask him why he like it so much, cause may be he play with that only to run away from some thing else..