How do you view the young generation today?
By Dominique25
@Dominique25 (9464)
United States
May 24, 2011 5:56pm CST
I think the young ones today are rude and disrespectful. Especially to older ones. Not all young ones are that way but a lot of them I notice are. There are wonderful young ones out there that I admire for their standing out as different. They seem to think a lot about themselves and what they want. Not being considerate of others. It really makes me sad because those that take care of them or try to help them they don't seem to respect until it's too late.
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18 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Today's young generation might be acting that way but you'll also find old people without manners as well. Maybe that's one of the reasons why kids nowadays are disrespectful of old ones.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I agree that there are even adults who act this way. This does have an effect on children see and respond to things. Kids are quick to imitate others whether it's in a positive or negative way. When they see adults being disrespectful they are more apt to act out.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
Yep. We adults should set a good example to kids. We shouldn't teach them stupid stuff.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
It is very unfortunate that there are a lot of adults out there who act nearly as bad as children. I'm so glad that I was taught the right way to act. I can now work hard to instill these good principles in my children.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Today's young generation might be acting that way but you'll also find old people without manners as well. Maybe that's one of the reasons why kids nowadays are disrespectful of old ones.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
It is very sad that there are adults who do have a bad influence on children in this way. I feel sorry for a lot of kids who act in this way because of adults and how they may be treated. I feel it's important for us to set a good example and work hard to show children the right way to act.
@arnouardian (286)
• United States
25 May 11
yes, I agree with you in the case that kids may act rude in response to older people who don't know or just don't care how to behave in the right ways. even these kids' disrespectful actions are necessary to embarrass older people who can't treat younger people right, such as a dictator father or teachers who like to give physical punishments to students.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
27 May 11
Well a lot of times, I think overall, it is the way a person is brought up and raised as to what type of respect they will show to older people, their bosses, etc. I have seen people in their early 20s that are very respectful and polite, while I have seen others in their 30s that seem to be very unpolite, and act like the World owes them a living. Personally sometimes I wish people could meet someone exactly like them, and be able to see themselves in the mirror as to who they really are, and then be able to base and live life off of this.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree it has a lot to do with how a person is raised. Though their are the small few who were raised well and decide to basically go their own way and treat people anyway they want to. Those who think the world owes them really do need a reality check and meeting a person like themselves would probably help.
@mortein869 (51)
• Pakistan
25 May 11
hmmm nice topic...there are different reasons why youth iz gettin rude day by day.
Family life is vanished so no respect for elders is taught........further world is goin towards a more materialistic approach in vch EVERY MAN FOR HIMSELF concept is being promoted.so nobody cares or bothers........thirdly parent do not give due time to their children coz of struugle for infinite wishes vch offcourse don,t come easy......there can be many but the thing to solve the problem is
WHATEVER U ACHIEVE AND BECOME IN LIFE,PLZ DON,T LOOSE UR BASICS....VALUES AND MUTUAL RESPECT IS VERY IMPORTANT....DON,T ACHIEVE NYFIN TO SHOW THUMBS DOWN TO OTHERS BUT BE SHARING.mutual respect is the only solution to the problem
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I strongly agree with you that family life has greatly deteriorated over the years. The concept of every man for himself is very much an influence on not only young ones but older ones as well. I agree that it's important for us to hold onto our values. Holding onto these things will really help us to be the person we want to be.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 May 11
hi Dominique I think some are rude and disrespectful and that could come from parents who were also rude and disrespectful too. A lot of kids are just plain spoiled and want everything when they want it and usually do get it. i dislike how a lot of youngsters have been taught to be disrespectful to us senior citizens. I blame the parents as they did not
set a good example before the kids ggrew up andwent their own way.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree that a lot of the kids today get what they want pretty much all of the time. Some parents feel that they want to be friends with their children and don't want their children to be mad at them. But that isn't the way to handle them. They need to know that they aren't in charge and that it takes hard work for parents to earn money. It's just not giving to them and so they need to know the value of money.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree with you that upbringing has a lot to do with how children will turn out. It's not always the main factor and a lot of children overcome great odds. But the community and the way we raise our children will affect them. Hopefully though our children will turn out to be respectful and caring adults.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
25 May 11
I kind of share the same views as you about the youth today and I would probably technically be classified as the youth of today being 20 years old. However, to say that it's just the youth of this generation that is rude and disrespectful certainly is unfair because human kind as a whole has been pretty rude and disrespectful in a multitude of ways. Just look at the way we treat plants, animals, each other, possessions, and most importantly the earth that we live and depend on.
At least with the younger generations we are starting to realize the error of the past like not caring or even thinking about the consequences of spewing toxic waste into our air and water daily. It's up to all of the generations next in line to try and fix all of the problems left behind for them by the humans that came before them. Things for populations to come in the future are going to only get harder unless we can start to show people that we ABSOLUTELY have to do what we can to be as mindful of the planet as possible or else all the Armageddon hoopla we've been hearing about may come true in the near future.
Like you said though there are a lot of people out there that only care about themselves and their wants, there are people like this in every generation. In fact, I would have to say that a majority of people are like this. Respect has to be given both ways and if a rude disrespectful person that is older then you is treating you like you are stupid, you can only deal with it for long until you have to say something. I don't think that people should demand respect and loyalty from someone when they themselves have a lot to work on to evolve as a person. Respect should be given to loving, caring people that have open hearts and minds and that are willing to work with us all to better the health of life overall as a whole.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree there has been and there still is a lot of damage being done to our beautiful planet. This young generation coming up, I hope will work hard to improve the conditions of our planet and work on ways of taking care of it by not damaging it in further degrees. Our planet has been through a lot and way too much to say the least. I think that we have can show love and consideration to one another and our home planet earth. We just have to be willing to do it.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
25 May 11
For me they are not good influence by there owned society and the rest of more years to come the violence influence.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree that with this young generation there is a lot of violence and disturbances. It is very sad to see these things happening. But they are a signs of the times that we are living in. It is important for us to keep ready and on the watch and to protect our children from destructive influences.
@maunesrockford92078 (305)
• Philippines
25 May 11
Not all of them I think? Still Filipino Coed secondary students are still respectful and observing the way of being an Honorable young people and single people of today.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I'm glad that this is not the case with these students. It's nice when there are people who are striving to be kind and respectful towards others. It does make the world a better place and they grow up with respect from others as well.
@altirbonganay (287)
• Philippines
25 May 11
This generation is both good and bad. On the darker side, today's youth are wild, disobedient, and yes, disrespectful. But on the lighter side, they are intelligent and creative individuals, admit it or not. They possess a lot of potential, really and thy have the abilities that make a great person.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree with that the youth of today have a lot of potential. They really have so many choices, options, and directions that they can go with in their life. They have the ability to influence others whether in a positive or negative way as well. I hope that more of them will do great things with their life and their time.
@ryanwolfang (49)
• Indonesia
25 May 11
I think that right. The youngster is not respectful with the old ones. They think that it's funny to make other people angry and they have more acknowledge that the older one. Maybe it because of their society.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree with you that society has a major impact on young ones today. It is sad that young ones think that it is fun to be disrespectful or hurtful towards others. I know that if I would have done some of the things or said some of the thigns that young ones do now I would have been in big trouble. Now days young ones say and do as they please because most people don't stand up for the way things should be.
@thepank (201)
• India
25 May 11
Yes most of us are changing and this is all because of our surrounding and the kind of company we get from others , But still youth has the ability to decide their own good and bad and this will keep on increasing with time .Also this is not the case with every body we still respect our elders coz we get a good education and good company .
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree that the company we keep does have an impact on how we act. If we are around those who are good and respectful then we will most likely want and start to act that way. And the same is vice versa. I think it's important for parent's to watch who their children associate with.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I think it is aweful that many young people feel that it is cool to be so unkind and disrespectful. It is sad to see. But like you mentioned the media plays this out in that way and so young ones view it as such.
@Stiff_Myster (1)
• United States
25 May 11
so true...i for myself im 17 and i dont like hanging out with teens my age group so much because thy act childish. i like hanging out with adults more. i dont think im weird though.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
Yeah don't think that you are weird because you like hanging out with adults. It just shows your maturity. A lot of young people are into drama, being selfish, and reflective only on what they can get out of life right now. You enjoying spending time with those who are older shows that you aren't into all of that. And that you enjoy life but at a different pace and with different people.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I agree with you here there are diffinitely extremes. I like to be around those who are are courteous and respectful of others. I really don't appreciate being around those who are disrespectful.
@dynzdolina (381)
• Philippines
25 May 11
their generation is totally different, however, it really depends on the kind of upbringing they have had. what kind of atmosphere they have in their respective homes.parents and significant others have great influence the way youngsters would become as they become older person in the society.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I agree that parents and significant others will have either a positive or negative influence on children. It is important for us to make sure that we are setting the right example. I know with my children I want them to be respectful towards others and so I need to set the example.
@yoniarnon (1079)
• Israel
25 May 11
I am totally agree with you, and i think the kids of today are to spoiled and don't have discipline at all.
I think all start from parents "entering" school and ask for more kids rights.
Where are the days when a teacher enter a class all the kids stand for him and tell him good morning.
Now they call him dude drop air plans on him and even curse him!
I am shame on that. I think the media, TV and internet cause a big mess to..
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
28 Sep 11
Kids today are way too spoiled. It is very sad but true. They have no respect for others or themselves. And like you mentioned the media has a great affect on how kids act as well. When they have shows protraying how funny it is for kids to disrespect their parents, and others in authority then they start to feel it's o.k. to be that way. And when there is not consistent discipline in the home that adds to it even more.
@arnouardian (286)
• United States
25 May 11
oh yes, I really hate this fact. I used to face some kids which dare say to me: "I don't like you and I don't need you anymore. you may go now." oh my God, why do they not seem to know how to respect other people?
I think they are too spoiled by their parents. they are given everything they want. they are praised many times. they are allowed to make mistakes which harm other people. the son of my mother's friend broke a flower vase intentionally and her mother just said "darling, darling, don't do that again. do you get hurt by the broken pieces?". my friend who opens a Chinese course business in her own house has to face naughty kids who often drop the standing lamp and projector. when told about this, their mothers defended their kids by saying "you have to learn how to deal with kids."
I think we have to be harsh to kids who show these disrespectful actions, to make them realize that these habits are the wrong things to do and it cannot be tolerated. we must start from not to spoil kids anymore. praise them for the right things they do and tell them how to behave rightly every time they make mistakes.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
28 Sep 11
I agree that this is very upsetting. Especially when they say such things to us. Yes people need to be a lot firmer in letting their children know that such actions aren't tolerated. Doing the things that you suggested is a good way for parents to go.